2 months ago I was contemplating the unthinkable...

Good for you CM dont give up. And dont vote for obummer he is the antichrist

No, with good words of advice from glp and my best friend , I saved my own life.

The date went great last night by the way, she is actually a conspiracy believer, thinks 9/11 was an inside job, and is a pirate bay user. This chick was pretty cool so I had her come back to my place for a piece of Murphy. I don't know about girlfriend, but I would see her again.

opie is pathetic

I thought i had a date last week, it would have been the first in a long time and i said something wrong, i never got the date. I really like her - a lot and i made a mistake :(

Good luck to you man! I hope it all goes well for you!

Why not? The purpose of life is to make love, including fucking and all other forms of intimacy. There's little other point in being incarnated, other than to enjoy the carnal with a beautiful girl. I've had too little of this in life, and in my 60's, I've no idea what there is left to live for, other than doing the best for those I love. That helps them, and I'm glad, but it doesn't do a thing for me, and I'm sad.

Intimate sex isn't everything, it's the ONLY thing! It's why I bothered to be successful at everything else in life.

So you are just using her for sex then. Why not find a real relationship and stop using women. Your life would be better then because your karma would be better. You use someone and you will get used back somewhere else along the line.

Hey Charlie, what did the hand say to the face?

SLAP!

Ooops, sorry, I mean What did the five fingers say to the face?

OP her being an hour late from your dates was most like her testing your integrity, based on your comments you seem to have little integrity, and if I could sense it be sure that women who are much more sensitive to pick these thing up, sitting next to you has also sensed it...

That experience where you were hanging on the end of your rope should have made you more humble not arrogant and cocky, if you did not learn it then you will face another experience that will FORCE you to change yourself.

Your confidence and self-esteem will be on much higher level if you will not perceive women only as sexual objects and piece of meat, that women are there to satisfy your sexual thirst, that they have something that you NEED...95% of men does exactly this and that's why women have them by the balls, give man pretty face with vagina and he will be jumping at her command like a salivating dog.

Learn to appreciate women genuinely instead of calling them bitches and so, when you go to date do not expect any SEX in fact be as if you would not give a damn whether you would be taking her home tonight with you or not, and you will end up having both...Enjoy the time you spend with her, try to get to know her and listen to what she has to say, when she is acting disrespectful make sure she knows that she can't get away with it with you without you getting distasteful.

Cheers.

2nd'ed

Glad to hear things are looking up for you Charlie!

I took a month and a half long trip to another state to visit relatives and do some work for them. I'd been feeling very down but ended up having a wonderful time, also a few times with a very good-looking Filipino girl that I met while working.

Don't worry, man, haters gonna hate. Good for you, man.

Awesome... God Speed Charlie!

and i'll raise you 5 star....

This is what we are..men..give us a date and a job and we are all good.
Pathetic but still, the man is alive and kicking.

That's what matters most to me.

The unthinkable is just that...see this

shadow land

How the night mocks the day
Here in the light, the phantoms play –
Dancing at our feet,
displays of twisted reality;
Hollow portent to the end
when under the sun’s frailty
dark sends the shadows away
With rasping breath - they’ll set us free
beneath this world, beyond this dream

- maya grant

My favorite little poet..

Be well Friend, it's a once off and very precious imo..

Marriage??? I hope you changed your mind.

Hey man good luck on the date. Be yourself. Remember you have nothing to lose. Have fun

Let's see some pics of this "date" you had?

There's no reason to hang with anyone unless they're helpful friends or lovers. Girls can be lovers to men, and that's right and proper. We are meant to leave our parents and cling to our girls. That's the natural order of things.

Girls have chemicals and hormones in their skin and especially their vaginas that we NEED as men. We are without real purpose unless we have this connection.

Hi Charles, are you a diagnosed sociopath?

Best,

Glad to hear your life is getting better. Nothing worse than a permanent solution to a passing problem. Kind of sad how the religious nutters and haters here want you to feel guilty for getting your life on track and feeling good about yourself.

Live it up and don't look back.

Thanks for the pin, and thanks everyone for responses. I have taken quite a few nuggets of wisdom from the responses, even the critical ones.

Voting for Obammy?

The bolded part is very similar to the mantra that has gotten me through so much.

The Next Right Thing....

Good on ya, my friend, I pray that things continue to look up for ya.

Hell no, I was at work the other day and this black guy I work with was going on about how obummer was gonna win, then he made the statement "He is gonna win, he is just so charismatic.". I bust laughing and walked away, I know now not to discuss anything intelligent with him.

Colored??? Are you some deep south inbred redneck? Your comment exudes intelligence on such a profound level!