you have to understand sexual societies.

In pretty much every case, when it comes to sexual appetites, those that demand consider themselves superior, or 'tops' and those who submit are considered subservient, or 'bottoms'. This mindset is magnified in gay cultures as there is essentially no other natural criteria for self definition.

Social acting out and demanding benefits and money from the opposition is a natural extention of the tops and bottoms philosophy, and just as in the sexual arena, when taken to it's natural extremes, is abusive and destructive.

Given that gayness is arrested development in childhood, these sorts dont easily accept limits on their desires or goals and will eventually always take things to extremes when given the opportunity



There, now you have a distillation of any number of books down to the objective basics