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No Surprise..The Key to a Happy Marriage??? Adultery.. Marraige now means anything. | |
| christian Suited up and Armored in Christ!  User ID: 6038128  United States08/20/2012 04:20 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States08/20/2012 04:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The recipe for happiness? An enduring marriage and an affair with lots of sex Quoting: christian In an extract from her new book, the controversial sociologist says it is time to redraw marital rules – with a radical rethink on fidelity... The setting is the quiet corner of an Italian restaurant in the City; the players are George, an IT specialist, and Zoe, who wears a pretty dress and a big smile; they drink an especially good bottle of wine and when they get to coffee he reaches over and kisses her on the mouth. She surprises him by kissing him back. To onlookers it might be the classic opening scene of a traditional romance. Yet both parties are married to other people, whom they have no intention of leaving. Although they will go on to enjoy all the spoils of a relationship, from intimate phone calls to Christmas shopping trips and, of course, regular sex, this is understood from the outset. They are in fact launching into a “playfair”, a 21st-century affair in which would-be adulterers meet, via specialist dating websites, to enjoy the excitement of an illicit relationship without any of the domestic fallout. [link to www.telegraph.co.uk] Selfish fucks again trampling over a religious and spiritual institution. If you want to sleep with whomever then stay single !!! Hate people like that.. |
| christian (OP) Suited up and Armored in Christ! User ID: 6038128 United States08/20/2012 04:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So now we have sunk into *Playfairs* Alongside the internet dating revolution, these “playfairs” are evidence of a potentially dramatic shift in British marriage. As dating websites open up a global shop window of sexual possibilities, as life expectancy continues to rise and we become increasingly sexually aware, how can we still take the crushing old rules of fidelity, that turn marriage into a prison, for granted? Why should we not be able to recapture the heady thrills of youth, while protecting a secure home life? The time has come, alongside the technology, to redraw the rules of marriage for the 21st century. Last Edited by christian on 08/20/2012 04:26 PM Susie For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.....Matthew 6:21 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: Ecclesiastes 3:1 |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States08/20/2012 04:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So now we have sunk into *Playfairs* Quoting: christian Alongside the internet dating revolution, these “playfairs” are evidence of a potentially dramatic shift in British marriage. As dating websites open up a global shop window of sexual possibilities, as life expectancy continues to rise and we become increasingly sexually aware, how can we still take the crushing old rules of fidelity, that turn marriage into a prison, for granted? Why should we not be able to recapture the heady thrills of youth, while protecting a secure home life? The time has come, alongside the technology, to redraw the rules of marriage for the 21st century. Comments from site. People arent buying it... Swartzy 21 minutes ago as a man I say TOTAL B.S. the whole concept stinks and the researcher is just trying to justify his own bad habits. 45 yrs of marriage, never strayed and never intend to. I couldn't be happier and so is my wife. We have 4 kids, 16 grand kids and are now waiting for the next generation to get here. Total B.S. from this guy |
| christian (OP) Suited up and Armored in Christ! User ID: 6038128 United States08/20/2012 04:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The recipe for happiness? An enduring marriage and an affair with lots of sex Quoting: christian In an extract from her new book, the controversial sociologist says it is time to redraw marital rules – with a radical rethink on fidelity... The setting is the quiet corner of an Italian restaurant in the City; the players are George, an IT specialist, and Zoe, who wears a pretty dress and a big smile; they drink an especially good bottle of wine and when they get to coffee he reaches over and kisses her on the mouth. She surprises him by kissing him back. To onlookers it might be the classic opening scene of a traditional romance. Yet both parties are married to other people, whom they have no intention of leaving. Although they will go on to enjoy all the spoils of a relationship, from intimate phone calls to Christmas shopping trips and, of course, regular sex, this is understood from the outset. They are in fact launching into a “playfair”, a 21st-century affair in which would-be adulterers meet, via specialist dating websites, to enjoy the excitement of an illicit relationship without any of the domestic fallout. [link to www.telegraph.co.uk] Selfish fucks again trampling over a religious and spiritual institution. If you want to sleep with whomever then stay single !!! Hate people like that.. They don't care Apollo...It was all a ploy to Destroy Traditional Marriage... I truly feel sorry for the generation that has to grow up in this callous corrupt world.... Susie For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.....Matthew 6:21 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: Ecclesiastes 3:1 |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States08/20/2012 04:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a zillion times more respect for a self proclaimed authentic single promiscuous person than a married swinger. You know why? Married cheaters are cheaters at work too. They are liars that will stab you in the back and they are extremely selfish, sneaky and psycho pathic people. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14779720 United States08/20/2012 04:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| christian (OP) Suited up and Armored in Christ! User ID: 6038128 United States08/20/2012 04:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So now we have sunk into *Playfairs* Quoting: christian Alongside the internet dating revolution, these “playfairs” are evidence of a potentially dramatic shift in British marriage. As dating websites open up a global shop window of sexual possibilities, as life expectancy continues to rise and we become increasingly sexually aware, how can we still take the crushing old rules of fidelity, that turn marriage into a prison, for granted? Why should we not be able to recapture the heady thrills of youth, while protecting a secure home life? The time has come, alongside the technology, to redraw the rules of marriage for the 21st century. Comments from site. People arent buying it... Swartzy 21 minutes ago as a man I say TOTAL B.S. the whole concept stinks and the researcher is just trying to justify his own bad habits. 45 yrs of marriage, never strayed and never intend to. I couldn't be happier and so is my wife. We have 4 kids, 16 grand kids and are now waiting for the next generation to get here. Total B.S. from this guy Well that is good news.. It was also on the Daily Mail.. Could having an affair SAVE your marriage? British scientist recommends 'good infidelity' and looking to the French for inspiration on successful relationships..... Read more: [link to www.dailymail.co.uk] Susie For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.....Matthew 6:21 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: Ecclesiastes 3:1 |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States08/20/2012 04:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You do have a choice to NOT get married... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14779720 Also, are you aware of how many adults are currently unaware of the fact that they do indeed have a lovely STD just chillin in their privates? Google that shit. I know single people who are honest and reliable..Ive never known a married swinger who was honest or reliable. Cheat in marriage, cheat at work too. This is true. You cant trust them even as a co worker. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14779720 United States08/20/2012 04:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You do have a choice to NOT get married... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14779720 Also, are you aware of how many adults are currently unaware of the fact that they do indeed have a lovely STD just chillin in their privates? Google that shit. I know single people who are honest and reliable..Ive never known a married swinger who was honest or reliable. Cheat in marriage, cheat at work too. This is true. You cant trust them even as a co worker. I wish my child could have grown up in a better world. No rules. No morals. Just accept everything. |
| Slyder User ID: 17016610  Canada08/20/2012 04:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So now we have sunk into *Playfairs* Quoting: christian Alongside the internet dating revolution, these “playfairs” are evidence of a potentially dramatic shift in British marriage. As dating websites open up a global shop window of sexual possibilities, as life expectancy continues to rise and we become increasingly sexually aware, how can we still take the crushing old rules of fidelity, that turn marriage into a prison, for granted? Why should we not be able to recapture the heady thrills of youth, while protecting a secure home life? The time has come, alongside the technology, to redraw the rules of marriage for the 21st century. Yeah!.. what he said ^. Swinging.. that's the answer... I am a deeply religious nonbeliever - this is a somewhat new kind of religion. Albert Einstein Radicalism!... The new-age religion of nutcases of every flavor |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14779720 United States08/20/2012 04:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So now we have sunk into *Playfairs* Quoting: christian Alongside the internet dating revolution, these “playfairs” are evidence of a potentially dramatic shift in British marriage. As dating websites open up a global shop window of sexual possibilities, as life expectancy continues to rise and we become increasingly sexually aware, how can we still take the crushing old rules of fidelity, that turn marriage into a prison, for granted? Why should we not be able to recapture the heady thrills of youth, while protecting a secure home life? The time has come, alongside the technology, to redraw the rules of marriage for the 21st century. Yeah!.. what he said ^. Swinging.. that's the answer... So then... what is the point in getting married to begin with? I don't get it...  |
| Slyder User ID: 17016610 Canada08/20/2012 04:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So now we have sunk into *Playfairs* Quoting: christian Alongside the internet dating revolution, these “playfairs” are evidence of a potentially dramatic shift in British marriage. As dating websites open up a global shop window of sexual possibilities, as life expectancy continues to rise and we become increasingly sexually aware, how can we still take the crushing old rules of fidelity, that turn marriage into a prison, for granted? Why should we not be able to recapture the heady thrills of youth, while protecting a secure home life? The time has come, alongside the technology, to redraw the rules of marriage for the 21st century. Yeah!.. what he said ^. Swinging.. that's the answer... So then... what is the point in getting married to begin with? I don't get it... Well... you never will get it as long you associate marriage as a form of ownership of another persons sexual wants and desire instead of the partnership and commitment to each other that its meant to be. Never believed marriage is suppose to be interpreted as a Sexual hangup. Fidelity of the heart and love for each other transcends all that superficial sex stuff... Make love to your wife to reflect your heart, Fuck like its an Olympic team sport! Last Edited by Slyder on 08/20/2012 04:54 PM I am a deeply religious nonbeliever - this is a somewhat new kind of religion. Albert Einstein Radicalism!... The new-age religion of nutcases of every flavor |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14779720 United States08/20/2012 04:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So now we have sunk into *Playfairs* Quoting: christian Alongside the internet dating revolution, these “playfairs” are evidence of a potentially dramatic shift in British marriage. As dating websites open up a global shop window of sexual possibilities, as life expectancy continues to rise and we become increasingly sexually aware, how can we still take the crushing old rules of fidelity, that turn marriage into a prison, for granted? Why should we not be able to recapture the heady thrills of youth, while protecting a secure home life? The time has come, alongside the technology, to redraw the rules of marriage for the 21st century. Yeah!.. what he said ^. Swinging.. that's the answer... So then... what is the point in getting married to begin with? I don't get it... Well... you never will get it as long you associate marriage as a form of ownership of another persons sexual wants and desire instead of the partnership and commitment to each other that its meant to be. Never believed marriage is suppose to be interpreted as a Sexual hangup. Fidelity of the heart and love for each other transcends all that superficial sex stuff... Make love to your wife to reflect your heart, Fuck like its an Olympic sport! Ok... but this "partnership" and "commitment" includes the sex... you can make a commitment to someone without needing a legal document stating you basically own that person.. |
| christian (OP) Suited up and Armored in Christ! User ID: 6038128 United States08/20/2012 05:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So then... what is the point in getting married to begin with? I don't get it... Well... you never will get it as long you associate marriage as a form of ownership of another persons sexual wants and desire instead of the partnership and commitment to each other that its meant to be. Never believed marriage is suppose to be interpreted as a Sexual hangup. Fidelity of the heart and love for each other transcends all that superficial sex stuff... Make love to your wife to reflect your heart, Fuck like its an Olympic sport! Ok... but this "partnership" and "commitment" includes the sex... you can make a commitment to someone without needing a legal document stating you basically own that person.. People are not looking at marriage as a commitment, they are now looking at it, as what's in it for them? and if it does not have all the stars and bubbles they will go look somewhere else... This is just another wound to what marriage was designed for. Susie For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.....Matthew 6:21 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: Ecclesiastes 3:1 |
| I am John (Diomitron) User ID: 22204309 United States08/20/2012 05:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 17050354  Slovenia08/20/2012 06:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what happened to objective journalism? obviously it just hit a new low of toxic mixture of provocation + baiting + covert advertising i understand that the person who wrote this piece of psycho babble is attention whoring but why would a newspaper print this uncritically and without fact checking?!!! i'm a pretty liberal person even for an european but i'm infuriated by the worldview presented in the article. What's missing is that there's no advice to discuss these matters with your partner (preferrably before marriage), they are outright advising to hide your affair from them. WTF! So we are now supposed to trample over honesty and loyalty, masnipulate and use people for our pleasure in order to consider ourselves modern globalized citizens? no thanks, there's enough suffering and exploitation in this world already why add marriages and relationships to that? the century of the self has not ended, and the spoiled brat syndrome is very much alive oh, and geishas are honorable, highly educated and trained entertainers not some fucking prostitutes as the article implies |
| Charlie Scene User ID: 21948600 United States08/20/2012 06:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So now we have sunk into *Playfairs* Quoting: christian Alongside the internet dating revolution, these “playfairs” are evidence of a potentially dramatic shift in British marriage. As dating websites open up a global shop window of sexual possibilities, as life expectancy continues to rise and we become increasingly sexually aware, how can we still take the crushing old rules of fidelity, that turn marriage into a prison, for granted? Why should we not be able to recapture the heady thrills of youth, while protecting a secure home life? The time has come, alongside the technology, to redraw the rules of marriage for the 21st century. Yeah!.. what he said ^. Swinging.. that's the answer... So then... what is the point in getting married to begin with? I don't get it... Well... you never will get it as long you associate marriage as a form of ownership of another persons sexual wants and desire instead of the partnership and commitment to each other that its meant to be. Never believed marriage is suppose to be interpreted as a Sexual hangup. Fidelity of the heart and love for each other transcends all that superficial sex stuff... Make love to your wife to reflect your heart, Fuck like its an Olympic team sport! We were not meant to live that way. Has nothing to do with ownership. No matter what people say, even if they act ok with it, if you love someone it breaks you to find out they have been with another person. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States08/20/2012 06:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what happened to objective journalism? obviously it just hit a new low of toxic mixture of provocation + baiting + covert advertising Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17050354 i understand that the person who wrote this piece of psycho babble is attention whoring but why would a newspaper print this uncritically and without fact checking?!!! i'm a pretty liberal person even for an european but i'm infuriated by the worldview presented in the article. What's missing is that there's no advice to discuss these matters with your partner (preferrably before marriage), they are outright advising to hide your affair from them. WTF! So we are now supposed to trample over honesty and loyalty, masnipulate and use people for our pleasure in order to consider ourselves modern globalized citizens? no thanks, there's enough suffering and exploitation in this world already why add marriages and relationships to that? the century of the self has not ended, and the spoiled brat syndrome is very much alive oh, and geishas are honorable, highly educated and trained entertainers not some fucking prostitutes as the article implies Yeah, that stood about about the Geishas, What a dumb uneducated assumption of the writer. What idiots. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 17050354 Slovenia08/20/2012 06:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 13672072 United States08/26/2012 01:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Correction on the name Susie Siouxsie [link to www.youtube.com] Off topic - Wasn't she lovely in her prime. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 22582715  Turkey08/26/2012 01:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 22627394 United States08/26/2012 01:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For this you know, that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. Eph 5:6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. Eph 5:7 Therefore do not be partakers with them. [link to www.blueletterbible.org] |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 3199789 Canada08/26/2012 01:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't care what other idiots call "marriage," my wife and I know what it means to us. It means we are family for life. It means always being there for each other no matter how rough a time we might be going through. It means never betraying the family (each other and kids) by cheating. Just as soon as I could cut off my own right leg, could I betray my family. I could not live with myself if I did so. So, I really don't care what these playfaire dumbtwits do and want to call a marriage. Society in general is pretty stupid, it doesn't make me stupid. It has no impact on my own marriage whatsoever. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 3199789 Canada08/26/2012 01:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what happened to objective journalism? obviously it just hit a new low of toxic mixture of provocation + baiting + covert advertising Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17050354 i understand that the person who wrote this piece of psycho babble is attention whoring but why would a newspaper print this uncritically and without fact checking?!!! i'm a pretty liberal person even for an european but i'm infuriated by the worldview presented in the article. What's missing is that there's no advice to discuss these matters with your partner (preferrably before marriage), they are outright advising to hide your affair from them. WTF! So we are now supposed to trample over honesty and loyalty, masnipulate and use people for our pleasure in order to consider ourselves modern globalized citizens? no thanks, there's enough suffering and exploitation in this world already why add marriages and relationships to that? the century of the self has not ended, and the spoiled brat syndrome is very much alive oh, and geishas are honorable, highly educated and trained entertainers not some fucking prostitutes as the article implies Yeah, that stood about about the Geishas, What a dumb uneducated assumption of the writer. What idiots. How can you describe someone who sells sex as honorable? You have a very messed up sense of honor. An expensive whore is still a whore. |
| Philligan in rainbows User ID: 2530194 United States08/26/2012 01:57 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a zillion times more respect for a self proclaimed authentic single promiscuous person than a married swinger. You know why? Married cheaters are cheaters at work too. They are liars that will stab you in the back and they are extremely selfish, sneaky and psycho pathic people. Quoting: APOLLO ILLUMINIST ^^^this^^^ these days people are so selfish and entitled that they think they deserve EVERYTHING without having to work for it. What they dont know or are too ignorant to understand is that happiness doesn't come from chasing possessions it comes from yourself Pray for Us Sinners Now and at the Hour of our Death |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 5529768 United States09/21/2012 09:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The recipe for happiness? An enduring marriage and an affair with lots of sex Quoting: christian In an extract from her new book, the controversial sociologist says it is time to redraw marital rules – with a radical rethink on fidelity... The setting is the quiet corner of an Italian restaurant in the City; the players are George, an IT specialist, and Zoe, who wears a pretty dress and a big smile; they drink an especially good bottle of wine and when they get to coffee he reaches over and kisses her on the mouth. She surprises him by kissing him back. To onlookers it might be the classic opening scene of a traditional romance. Yet both parties are married to other people, whom they have no intention of leaving. Although they will go on to enjoy all the spoils of a relationship, from intimate phone calls to Christmas shopping trips and, of course, regular sex, this is understood from the outset. They are in fact launching into a “playfair”, a 21st-century affair in which would-be adulterers meet, via specialist dating websites, to enjoy the excitement of an illicit relationship without any of the domestic fallout. [link to www.telegraph.co.uk] let me say marriage means nothing to some, but means a lot still to many of us. this new age generation is a aborted worthless useless eating cunts. |
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