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dirkdedaring User ID: 19450551 Canada 08/22/2012 01:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | well why date it is kind of like trying stuff on and and it or you getting worn in the process lol. If you would like to meet someone and perhaps make a life then "court" but figuring as I am old school, courting is the way to go as many people where masks and if and when (it will happen as acting becomes exhausting)they get frayed about the edges after wearing it you will notice (if you observe) and do not take your feelings and emotions seriously as most people do and are easily manipulated through the other using them. But it is up to you and perhaps you do read and peruse GLP and feel like corn that has been shucked (aware)does not mean you are weird or different just means you have hopefully learned to be less trusting in the nature of people (trust to me is continually earned) everything is continually earned (way more dynamic). I prefer mastery than control as control is easy and mastery can take many lifetimes. To me, way to many people take the surface stuff as if it way more important than substance I personally run the other way when someone (a woman ) finds me attractive as it can be an indicator of someone without good reasoning skills and bases everything on what she see's or feels (and that tells me a lot in a nano second) instead of careful observation. I do not have advice but do hope you decide for yourself the better route to finding a relationship that you could find fulfilling or better yet rewarding (where both party's are valuable to each other and treat each other likewise. Graceless and Skeptical as hell!!! "Self discipline gets things done. Making a plan and then sticking to that plan despite our inner weaknesses and apprehensions gives greater returns in the long run. This method not only earns the respect we hold for ourselves, but also the respect others hold for us. The flaky and indecisive cannot be relied upon." " Belief is just a word for something one refuses to study the origins of, or reason out!!! |
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Desertwolf (OP) User ID: 10113059 United States 08/22/2012 01:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | well why date it is kind of like trying stuff on and and it or you getting worn in the process lol. If you would like to meet someone and perhaps make a life then "court" but figuring as I am old school, courting is the way to go as many people where masks and if and when (it will happen as acting becomes exhausting)they get frayed about the edges after wearing it you will notice (if you observe) and do not take your feelings and emotions seriously as most people do and are easily manipulated through the other using them. Quoting: dirkdedaring But it is up to you and perhaps you do read and peruse GLP and feel like corn that has been shucked (aware)does not mean you are weird or different just means you have hopefully learned to be less trusting in the nature of people (trust to me is continually earned) everything is continually earned (way more dynamic). I prefer mastery than control as control is easy and mastery can take many lifetimes. To me, way to many people take the surface stuff as if it way more important than substance I personally run the other way when someone (a woman ) finds me attractive as it can be an indicator of someone without good reasoning skills and bases everything on what she see's or feels (and that tells me a lot in a nano second) instead of careful observation. I do not have advice but do hope you decide for yourself the better route to finding a relationship that you could find fulfilling or better yet rewarding (where both party's are valuable to each other and treat each other likewise. thank you that is sound And here we are staring at each other through an electronic............ error goto ram I FIGHT FOR ROME!!! |
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Desertwolf (OP) User ID: 10113059 United States 08/22/2012 01:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | lol this is farm country tons of divorced corn fed men my age, just havent felt that spark for anyone in a long time Last Edited by Desertwolf on 08/22/2012 01:22 AM And here we are staring at each other through an electronic............ error goto ram I FIGHT FOR ROME!!! |
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Desertwolf (OP) User ID: 10113059 United States 08/22/2012 01:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yeah thats alot of it they want me to socialize as my life is pretty routine check glp work on the house check glp take dogs to lake check glp eat lunch check glp work on yard check glp head to the city offices to catch up on the latest local gossip check glp play some video games check glp have a few glasses of wine check glp watch movie check glp head to bed And here we are staring at each other through an electronic............ error goto ram I FIGHT FOR ROME!!! |
dirkdedaring User ID: 19450551 Canada 08/22/2012 01:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And here is something to think about as I look at this often and heed the words it is sort of a mantra for me. "Self discipline gets things done. Making a plan and then sticking to that plan despite our inner weaknesses and apprehensions gives greater returns in the long run. This method not only "earns" the respect we hold for ourselves, but also the respect others hold for us. The flaky and indecisive cannot be relied upon." the last part of the final sentence should be a warning for all!!! Last Edited by dirkdedaring on 08/22/2012 01:30 AM Graceless and Skeptical as hell!!! "Self discipline gets things done. Making a plan and then sticking to that plan despite our inner weaknesses and apprehensions gives greater returns in the long run. This method not only earns the respect we hold for ourselves, but also the respect others hold for us. The flaky and indecisive cannot be relied upon." " Belief is just a word for something one refuses to study the origins of, or reason out!!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1445731 United States 08/22/2012 01:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My sister and her soon to be husband as well as our other roommate are always pushing for me to get out there and date. but I really dont think there is someone out there for me i am a glper for gawds sake. i live in rural kansas and am just a small town paranoid wtf why do people think you are less then human if your not in a pairing. Quoting: Desertwolf There are always a match to pair all kinds of weird and unique individual such as yourself. Just be open to suggestions. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 22066606 Denmark 08/22/2012 01:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yeah thats alot of it they want me to socialize as my life is pretty routine check glp work on the house check glp take dogs to lake check glp eat lunch check glp work on yard check glp head to the city offices to catch up on the latest local gossip check glp play some video games check glp have a few glasses of wine check glp watch movie check glp head to bed Quoting: Desertwolf Wunderbaum |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 22210347 United States 08/22/2012 01:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yeah thats alot of it they want me to socialize as my life is pretty routine check glp work on the house check glp take dogs to lake check glp eat lunch check glp work on yard check glp head to the city offices to catch up on the latest local gossip check glp play some video games check glp have a few glasses of wine check glp watch movie check glp head to bed Quoting: Desertwolf LOL you and your 'checks'. But it does sound like a pretty nice life to me. . . dogs, lake, lunch, yardwork, wine, movies! |
dirkdedaring User ID: 19450551 Canada 08/22/2012 01:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I from careful consideration and observation just "BE" and life will surprise you!! Graceless and Skeptical as hell!!! "Self discipline gets things done. Making a plan and then sticking to that plan despite our inner weaknesses and apprehensions gives greater returns in the long run. This method not only earns the respect we hold for ourselves, but also the respect others hold for us. The flaky and indecisive cannot be relied upon." " Belief is just a word for something one refuses to study the origins of, or reason out!!! |
Desertwolf (OP) User ID: 10113059 United States 08/22/2012 01:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 22394222 Malaysia 08/22/2012 01:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yeah thats alot of it they want me to socialize as my life is pretty routine check glp work on the house check glp take dogs to lake check glp eat lunch check glp work on yard check glp head to the city offices to catch up on the latest local gossip check glp play some video games check glp have a few glasses of wine check glp watch movie check glp head to bed Quoting: Desertwolf |
dirkdedaring User ID: 19450551 Canada 08/22/2012 01:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And so what if you are not paired to someone you are not the first in our history to enjoy an easy laid back lifestyle (I am a lifetime gamer) and why frittle away your life and feel less than, also being concerned of what others think... a lot of people on this website talk smack but you can tell they can barely even articulate themselves, can not even express themselves, shows a lot for the lack of ability to educate oneself and can not even rise above the mediocrity of their souls.. They must be so incredibly unhappy or learned how to be cruel (young) that they hope for you to rise to their illiterate baiting... Ignore them and life is good!! pay attention (give of yourself) and could cause you problems. Graceless and Skeptical as hell!!! "Self discipline gets things done. Making a plan and then sticking to that plan despite our inner weaknesses and apprehensions gives greater returns in the long run. This method not only earns the respect we hold for ourselves, but also the respect others hold for us. The flaky and indecisive cannot be relied upon." " Belief is just a word for something one refuses to study the origins of, or reason out!!! |