Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?

It's been a ongoing problem, for me. I cannot stand to see him scrolling through facebook on a daily basis and have half of his posts be from teenage girls. Mind you... swimsuit pics, pics with their friends, self photos, all dolled up in makeup (trying to get boyfriends their age I would presume). It makes me sick to know this is the majority of information he takes in especially knowing he enjoys teen porn.

He works in a facility attended by children. The age range of kids he works with is under the age of 12, and male. But, occasionally these teenage girls who also attend will add him, and he accepts.

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day. After I spent 2 hours cleaning and making lunch for him in time to get home from work.

Am I way out of line? Because the way he makes me feel like a piece of shit for asking him to clean up his friends list has gotten too old. Also something to take into consideration, I deleted my facebook over 2 years ago.

I am sick and tired of this. FUck.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.

Why aren't you already gone?

By the way, he's probably having sex with at least one of them.

Anybody here male single, straight, 21-30? who doesn't have a facebook bahaha :P

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day.

This is what porn does to men.

I'd leave the chump - you don't need a boy.

I'm 26, and I wouldn't want to talk to someone under 23, they all seem so stupid.
...Mind you, some people who are 32 + are pretty stupid.

But at the end of the day, I wouldn't want someone who wasn't on my level.

Its not pedophilia or anything unless he's attracted to them pre-puberty. If they are developed then it is normal for a man to be attracted to them.

I think you're upset about the wrong things OP. Teen porn is likely 18 and 19 year olds. That really has nothing to do with this. That being said it really makes a difference if they are older teenagers like 17 18 19 or younger ones that he is adding on facebook. You hinted that they were younger but as a typical woman you beat around the bush and never just say it.

I'm going to assume they were younger and in that case its very unprofessional of him to do this. It makes people suspicious regardless of if anything is happening and should be avoided.

Its not pedophilia or anything unless he's attracted to them pre-puberty. If they are developed then it is normal for a man to be attracted to them.

But you asked him about it and he got defensive. That should tell you somethings up regardless of their age and thats what you should be mad about. Just my two cents.

AGreed on the teen porn age bit, with them most likely being 18/19+. The fact they are pretending to be 14/15/16 is sickening.

Some of them he has been friends with for 1-2 years+ and are now starting college. Naturally I am jealous because I am 25.

He cannot understand how unprofessional it is, and will not listen to me. And yes, he gets very defensive. The situation I described today has not been the first.

Thanks for your input.

I'm guessing you are a troll. Any rational person wouldn't have to ask what to do.

It's been a ongoing problem, for me. I cannot stand to see him scrolling through facebook on a daily basis and have half of his posts be from teenage girls. Mind you... swimsuit pics, pics with their friends, self photos, all dolled up in makeup (trying to get boyfriends their age I would presume). It makes me sick to know this is the majority of information he takes in especially knowing he enjoys teen porn.

He works in a facility attended by children. The age range of kids he works with is under the age of 12, and male. But, occasionally these teenage girls who also attend will add him, and he accepts.

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day. After I spent 2 hours cleaning and making lunch for him in time to get home from work.

Am I way out of line? Because the way he makes me feel like a piece of shit for asking him to clean up his friends list has gotten too old. Also something to take into consideration, I deleted my facebook over 2 years ago.

I am sick and tired of this. FUck.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.

Well, it usually takes time to talk a chick into sleeping with you so he's being efficient and prepping them for when they turn legal, and then bam!

I believe I am a rational person, it is just nice to have some other input. Thanks for the response even though it was not helpful.

This is true. I don't know how a 30 year old could possibly be around the mentality of a teen for very long. How could you relate to "OMG! The new Twilight movie is coming soon!!! I'm team Edward. How about you?"

OP, he sounds a bit too immature for you.

This is what porn does to men.

I'd leave the chump - you don't need a boy.

I'm 26, and I wouldn't want to talk to someone under 23, they all seem so stupid.
...Mind you, some people who are 32 + are pretty stupid.

But at the end of the day, I wouldn't want someone who wasn't on my level.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.

GOD, I KNOW :( right?

Yes "he" probably is with more then just 1.. Now go back to your 50 shades of gray and wish you could find a man like that..

This is my point of view as well, I do not have any reason to be friends with somebody 6+ years younger than myself, unless they are family members.

Anybody here male single, straight, 21-30? who doesn't have a facebook bahaha :P

Let me give you words of advice, You grew up in a free porn and anything goes society that taught you jealousy is wrong.

You have been deceived

Jealousy is a healthy reaction . Youre acting all cool as a cucumber when the computer should have been broken over his head the first time you caught him

You have to fight for what you want in life... Many girls have been fed the lie when stalkers sweet talk them into getting into the car or threaten them to be obedient and be quiet and obey orders

They they are killed and their bodies dumped in a field. Only the ones that fought back and screamed their head off are the only ones that got away

Anger and jealousy can save your life, save your sanity and preserve your dignity

Youre fighting for your life now. You could spend more miserable years shacked up to a loser that will bleed the rest of your life spark out of you . He will drag you into a slow death..

Time to get pissed and dont put up with shit from anyone.

APOLLO, you are always so sensible and logical. Proper respect you you dude.

Oh I forgot to mention. All of the 'teens' on his list, he's known at his job since they were 9-10. He's been working there for 6 years. He's helped coached them, and seen them grow up. He doesn't talk to any of them on Facebook, and all of them added him on their own and he accepted. He didn't friend request any of them. Also, I didn't mention that I'm a total bitch about it, because I can't concentrate on my own issues and I'm just concerned about things to complain about.

Boyfriend hacked?

LOL Sounds like it.