Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?

Yeah because an 'Anonymous Coward' needs a hack. You guys are idiots.

It's been a ongoing problem, for me. I cannot stand to see him scrolling through facebook on a daily basis and have half of his posts be from teenage girls. Mind you... swimsuit pics, pics with their friends, self photos, all dolled up in makeup (trying to get boyfriends their age I would presume). It makes me sick to know this is the majority of information he takes in especially knowing he enjoys teen porn.

He works in a facility attended by children. The age range of kids he works with is under the age of 12, and male. But, occasionally these teenage girls who also attend will add him, and he accepts.

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day. After I spent 2 hours cleaning and making lunch for him in time to get home from work.

Am I way out of line? Because the way he makes me feel like a piece of shit for asking him to clean up his friends list has gotten too old. Also something to take into consideration, I deleted my facebook over 2 years ago.

I am sick and tired of this. FUck.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.

Yeah because an 'Anonymous Coward' needs a hack. You guys are idiots.

I guess OP's boyfriend caught her venting and decided to tie her up and make her watch him and one of his teen friends in the act... Or OP has multiple personalities?

well depending on the state, some the legal age is 16, others 18. He could get in trouble. Maybe he isn't going after them, in that case iw ouldn't worry about his FB account.

Oh I forgot to mention. All of the 'teens' on his list, he's known at his job since they were 9-10. He's been working there for 6 years. He's helped coached them, and seen them grow up. He doesn't talk to any of them on Facebook, and all of them added him on their own and he accepted. He didn't friend request any of them. Also, I didn't mention that I'm a total bitch about it, because I can't concentrate on my own issues and I'm just concerned about things to complain about.

It's been a ongoing problem, for me. I cannot stand to see him scrolling through facebook on a daily basis and have half of his posts be from teenage girls. Mind you... swimsuit pics, pics with their friends, self photos, all dolled up in makeup (trying to get boyfriends their age I would presume). It makes me sick to know this is the majority of information he takes in especially knowing he enjoys teen porn.

He works in a facility attended by children. The age range of kids he works with is under the age of 12, and male. But, occasionally these teenage girls who also attend will add him, and he accepts.

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day. After I spent 2 hours cleaning and making lunch for him in time to get home from work.

Am I way out of line? Because the way he makes me feel like a piece of shit for asking him to clean up his friends list has gotten too old. Also something to take into consideration, I deleted my facebook over 2 years ago.

I am sick and tired of this. FUck.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.

It's been a ongoing problem, for me. I cannot stand to see him scrolling through facebook on a daily basis and have half of his posts be from teenage girls. Mind you... swimsuit pics, pics with their friends, self photos, all dolled up in makeup (trying to get boyfriends their age I would presume). It makes me sick to know this is the majority of information he takes in especially knowing he enjoys teen porn.

He works in a facility attended by children. The age range of kids he works with is under the age of 12, and male. But, occasionally these teenage girls who also attend will add him, and he accepts.

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day. After I spent 2 hours cleaning and making lunch for him in time to get home from work.

Am I way out of line? Because the way he makes me feel like a piece of shit for asking him to clean up his friends list has gotten too old. Also something to take into consideration, I deleted my facebook over 2 years ago.

I am sick and tired of this. FUck.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.

Boyfriend hacked?

Uhm, no. It IS pedo if he's attracted to them at 13 or 14 even if they are developed. You have a very dangerous view on this.

As a medical diagnosis, pedophilia, or paedophilia, is defined as a psychiatric disorder in persons who are 16 years of age or older typically characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest in prepubescent children (generally age 13 years or younger, though onset of puberty varies). The prepubescent child must be at least five years younger than the adolescent before the attraction can be diagnosed as pedophilia


this term gets thrown around way to often these days. Why a 17 year old who is now labeled a pedo for life, after being with a girl 2 years younger..it's gettin ridiculous. And happens all the time to teenage men

yet the women get off scott free after sexually advancing on 13 year old boys in the classroom, happesn all the time

Coward

This is OP. To make is clear, the (majority) age range of girls he has on his friends list is roughly 14-18, girls that are still in high school age range, or recently graduated this year. But as he so eloquently expressed in his "hack", it is not a big deal because he has watched them grow up through their pre - pubescent stages on facebook but doesn't talk to them.