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Stark (OP) User ID: 21275050 United States 08/29/2012 01:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | BTW, I have to go to work soon, but i will be returning in a few hours, so don't think i abandoned this thread. Quoting: Stark Sorry to hear your troubles OP. I think your marriage is over. Try to focus that love on your kid and be a great dad! It's a fuller kind of love anyhow. Not what I wanted to hear, but I guess what I needed to hear. Thanks. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21662845 Australia 08/29/2012 02:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I did not want us to divorce, just kinda clear our heads a bit and not argue so much around our child. She moved in with her brother and sister in law, and I kinda floated around, like I always have. (I lived in a sailboat, a honda, a VW camper-van, etc, it was my lifestyle choice before our relationship, during, up until we had a child together.) Quoting: Stark You lost her way back then |
Stark (OP) User ID: 21275050 United States 08/29/2012 02:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I did not want us to divorce, just kinda clear our heads a bit and not argue so much around our child. She moved in with her brother and sister in law, and I kinda floated around, like I always have. (I lived in a sailboat, a honda, a VW camper-van, etc, it was my lifestyle choice before our relationship, during, up until we had a child together.) Quoting: Stark You lost her way back then How when then she was telling everyone and me that we were working on things and had a positive outlook on it? We were making such good progress! But I must say, I drew the same conclusion. then again, people drift in and out of eachothers lives all the time and things work out or dont, its in their hands. |
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Stark (OP) User ID: 36060175 United States 10/15/2013 11:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I normally don't chase girls, you like me or you don't . It is the fact we have a child together that changed things for me at the time. I learned, I moved on. I deserve better than her at her best anyway, as who she really is became more and more and more transparent. Thanks everyone! |
Chrit User ID: 27088294 United States 10/15/2013 11:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | First AC was correct Be a good father. You are the most powerful person you control. It's not how we live, but how we affect the people around us that matters the most. In 20+ years when you have a stand up kid on the right course you'll understand and look back and know you did the right thing. I'm only human, it's my biggest flaw. We must all realize a sink a chair and a pillow are all luxuries of home and a soldiers helmet takes the place of all three. |