My boyfriend says he is dumping me

What the fuck?

Wow....with emphasis on 'ow'. I feel like a white hot dagger is twisting in my heart. I have been the best thing that ever happened to him. When we met, 4 years ago he was living on 1,200 a month from the VA. He was wounded in Afghanistan and was retired at age 30 (8 years ago). I helped him increase his VA disability pay to 100%. Something he could not do himself. He received a total of 50,000 in back pay and now lives on 4,000 a month. We have been a great couple for each other. Suddenly, he says he wants his own place and is moving out tomorrow. The saddest part for me is our dog who adores him. He is moving to a place that does'nt allow pets. It is insane. It all started when his 16 year old son left, in july. We had him with us for a year to see how things went and we returned the ungrateful little brat to his mother in Fl. When he left, my boyfriend started acting mean and buying stuff like crazy. Huge plastic spaceship model, 400$ movie replica Thor Hammer. Stupid plastic crap. He started being really mean to me. I contacted his VA psychiatrist and asked that he be tested for bi-polar disorder. They give him drugs but he doesn't take them. MAN!!!!!! I am sad.

30 yrs ols and 4 fucking thousand a month?????

I am a hair designer and

But why is he leaving you?

Sounds like you have done a lot for him

If it all started when his son left, then he feels your the reason his son isn't around anymore..he no longer respects you..

The guy lives on disability and buys plastic toys for himself?

You can do better. Consider this a blessing in disguise.

When we met, he had not seen his son in over 5 years. I re-connected them and was happy to let him live with us. He was a pathological liar and was an F student so,,,,,,,,,

The relationship sounds toxic. Maybe it has simply run its course.. Time to open a new chapter in life.. let the past go.. breath deep.. feel the weight of stress from the last 8 years fall away.. Like a child leaving home.. you will find comfort soon..

I don't want to be too judgemental here....but i cringed a bit when I saw that line too J-Honey

Wow....with emphasis on 'ow'. I feel like a white hot dagger is twisting in my heart. I have been the best thing that ever happened to him. When we met, 4 years ago he was living on 1,200 a month from the VA. He was wounded in Afghanistan and was retired at age 30 (8 years ago). I helped him increase his VA disability pay to 100%. Something he could not do himself. He received a total of 50,000 in back pay and now lives on 4,000 a month. We have been a great couple for each other. Suddenly, he says he wants his own place and is moving out tomorrow. The saddest part for me is our dog who adores him. He is moving to a place that does'nt allow pets. It is insane. It all started when his 16 year old son left, in july. We had him with us for a year to see how things went and we returned the ungrateful little brat to his mother in Fl. When he left, my boyfriend started acting mean and buying stuff like crazy. Huge plastic spaceship model, 400$ movie replica Thor Hammer. Stupid plastic crap. He started being really mean to me. I contacted his VA psychiatrist and asked that he be tested for bi-polar disorder. They give him drugs but he doesn't take them. MAN!!!!!! I am sad.

A friend of his (also a retired Marine) is moving out of an apartment (super duper man cave) and moving into a house. Suddenly my boyfriend wants this available man cave for himself.

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You sound like an obsessive, nagging control freak.

Good move on his part.

Maybe he just needs time to himself. Let him have it. And be glad you were able to help him. Looks like he has been through a lot. This man cave may be the best medicine for him.

In June 2010, his son came to stay with us. His mom said he skipped school and got D and F grades so I suggested that we give him a reason to get good grades. We told him that ...if he got straight A's in the first quarter of 8th grade we would send him a laptop. straight A's second quarter, he would get a Wii.He told us that he got straight A's so we sent him the prizes. When he came to visit in the summer of 2011 he asked to stay. His mom sent his school transcripts and lo and behold, he got nothing but D's and F's.Plus he skipped school 30% of the time.He lied to his Dad's face a thousand times that horrible year.

I am a very hard working, self supporting, creative, kind, great cook, fantastic lover, spiritual person.

Wow....with emphasis on 'ow'. I feel like a white hot dagger is twisting in my heart. I have been the best thing that ever happened to him. When we met, 4 years ago he was living on 1,200 a month from the VA. He was wounded in Afghanistan and was retired at age 30 (8 years ago). I helped him increase his VA disability pay to 100%. Something he could not do himself. He received a total of 50,000 in back pay and now lives on 4,000 a month. We have been a great couple for each other. Suddenly, he says he wants his own place and is moving out tomorrow. The saddest part for me is our dog who adores him. He is moving to a place that does'nt allow pets. It is insane. It all started when his 16 year old son left, in july. We had him with us for a year to see how things went and we returned the ungrateful little brat to his mother in Fl. When he left, my boyfriend started acting mean and buying stuff like crazy. Huge plastic spaceship model, 400$ movie replica Thor Hammer. Stupid plastic crap. He started being really mean to me. I contacted his VA psychiatrist and asked that he be tested for bi-polar disorder. They give him drugs but he doesn't take them. MAN!!!!!! I am sad.

I am a very hard working, self supporting, creative, kind, great cook, fantastic lover, spiritual person.

Maybe he feels you ran his son off..so now he is paying you back by leaving.

you look like a fucking horse hahahaha.