My boyfriend says he is dumping me

Holy shit! That's the problem right there. He sounds like a GLPer. Those video games turn your brain into mush. I'm a treatment counselor and I see hundreds of people (mainly males but some females) who are drawn into that fantasy world.

Much like people who are dependent on drugs, there really isn't anything you can do for them...until they hit bottom far enough to seek help and be willing to follow through with it. Most video game addicts and gambling addicts are manic depressive. Believe it or not, those are the people the military seeks for enlistment. That's why the military promotes certain cames and always attracts gamers. His PTSD probably started way before he was in the military...then add war and adrenaline to the seed.

There are more than 1 million returning vets who are now signed up seeking dissablility payments. That is much like a drug itself. It helps them cradle their egos and isolate from the real world.

Chances are you didn't have a healthy rlationship to begin with. No one wakes up one day at 3pm and decides to be a video game junkie. That guy is a product of the Illuminati mind bending programs which surround us and bombard us every day. The money only makes him progress further as he decends to his personal hell.

He's making a geographical change and with most people, that only offers temporary relief for a long term problem. Just pray that he doesn't morph into a psycho stalker and learn from the past.

lol so you don't only look like a horse, but you prove yourself to also be a 'HORE' because the first insult that you can come up with is something about my penis. hahahahaha

nice job jolly jumper

a lot of times when people like you say "growing up" it actually means becoming more brainwashed to society's norms/codes.

in a sense then what you consider "immaturity" is, in reality, enlightenment, and people are being bullied out of it by being told that they have to "grow up".

Sweet


In a horse kinda way.

You talk about this personal private info with clients?? No wonder he left.

IT DIDNT WORK OUT

You could have cleaned the house, fixed dinner - made yourself useful.

Be understanding with the child. These broken family relationships are never perfect.

Telling the doctor you believe he was bipolar crazy did not help.

"The saddest part is our dog adores him" - well if that's the saddest part then you will be fine! Sounds like he wasn't the love of your life.

You ran his son off, then bitxhed him out for buying items that interest him. He got pissed off and wants you out of his life and you call his shrink? Really?

Kudos to the guy for efusing to put up with anymore of your shit.

Honey, his walking out may be the best thing that could have happened to you.

You took a broken man and tried to fix him. In part, you managed to do so. But the scars are deep and you cannot heal him.

Let go graciously and miss him for a little while, but get your life together and watch and see what comes along. Maybe this time you'll find a guy who is NOT broken and doesn't need a full blown repair job emotionally. BTW: men with those types of injuries are very difficult to "fix". Truth is only we can fix ourselves and usually that takes God's help when you finally become willing to change but cannot do so on your own - and you finally ask for HIS help. Then change comes. But you must want it and this guy doesn't want anything but his own selfish bullshit excuse for a life.

WALK AWAY and don't look back. You're lucky to be getting out of this shit now. It could have been worse.

Don't have them give him meds, have you even researched them at all?

Just look at all the REAL stories of REAL people, even publicly known celebs, authors, professionals, kids even.

[link to www.SSRIstories.com]

Take a moment to look at the list of the thousands of people having worse behavior on what I think is poison but doctors and lackies call "meds".

It's not to be taken lightly, the stuff is pure poison, to the liver and brain, and increases heart problems.

^ spot on

Anyone who would even consider living with such a dysfunctional loser would have to be dysfunctional. What in the world are you crying about? Good Riddance! Now pull yourself together and get yourself a life.

F you are brave enough to join up,then go to war,you aren't a boy. Sounds like she had a man and annoyed him by pointing out she was the best thing that ever happened to him and that he can't look after himself. Another woman who equates money with happiness,they never learn.

Its natural.just move on

Sorry you're hurting Janine. Some painful things are blessings in disguise. I'm guessing you wanting him on meds was an attempt to spare yourself his temper or irrational behavior. Even with meds, things go wrong.

Here are two links. Same person, but different facts presented. You can probably relate to some of it.
Sometimes, it's best to just wish someone well, let them go their way, and give thanks you're alive. Feel better soon.

[link to 953mnc.com]

[link to www.fox47news.com]

maybe just a little less janine, and just a little more 69?

just saying, nobody in their right mind leaves a good thing.

The problem may be that you think your a catch and he thinks youre a kvetch?

There are heaps of other guys out there. Move on and find someone BETTER. You don't want to end up with a bi-polar jerk anyway.

YOU fell for it honey....;)

sometimes a change of conditions can change a persons mental health for the better.. this breakup may be his need for change in his own life.. to get his mojo back.. let him go.. without bitter feelings.. pursue your own happiness.. maybe you can rekindle the relationship later.. maybe not.. but bitterness an anger takes awhile to wear off... there is no blame.. there is just existence..

let it slide... help him move out.. encourage him.. it may be what he needs.. and begin dating another.. privately.. no need to flaunt it at him... maybe he will start dating too..

you had a good long run of 8 years.. something to be proud of.. but when it's over.. it's over..

nothing can ever stay the same.. change is inevitable.. don't over-analyze it..

To bad for him you are hot and I would treat you right

take it to reddit

Why be involved with such lunatics anyway it can only mean trouble and hassles why choose someone like that think about the future and the trouble.

I like this advice.

Change is growth. Its good to grow.

Just one question, were you born in 1969?

Thank You

67

So... why the "69"??

you just want to live for free off of the taxpayers too slut. we cany afford to pay all these freeloaders. how will this pan out?

who were u asking? the OP or me?

she only wants his free taxpayer handout