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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 953504 08/31/2012 02:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Janine69 Hardly!! I not only bent over backward to accomodate his son, I twisted into a pretzel. His son is a budding sociopath. You called him an "ungrateful little brat", if that isn't resentment I don't know what is. You sound like one of those people who always think you treat people so well and they should be ever so grateful to you cos you "do things" for them. BELIEVE ME!! It was me who saved this boy from certain death !,000 times! He would lie and manipulate his dad and make him basically shut down, so he wouldn't kill him. Why be involved with such lunatics anyway it can only mean trouble and hassles why choose someone like that think about the future and the trouble. SHE WANTS THE FREE MONEY!!! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 21987589 08/31/2012 02:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21662845 You called him an "ungrateful little brat", if that isn't resentment I don't know what is. You sound like one of those people who always think you treat people so well and they should be ever so grateful to you cos you "do things" for them. BELIEVE ME!! It was me who saved this boy from certain death !,000 times! He would lie and manipulate his dad and make him basically shut down, so he wouldn't kill him. Why be involved with such lunatics anyway it can only mean trouble and hassles why choose someone like that think about the future and the trouble. SHE WANTS THE FREE MONEY!!! people and situations are a lot more complicated than that.. one sentence judgements are very simple minded.. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 22539562 08/31/2012 03:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow....with emphasis on 'ow'. I feel like a white hot dagger is twisting in my heart. I have been the best thing that ever happened to him. When we met, 4 years ago he was living on 1,200 a month from the VA. He was wounded in Afghanistan and was retired at age 30 (8 years ago). I helped him increase his VA disability pay to 100%. Something he could not do himself. He received a total of 50,000 in back pay and now lives on 4,000 a month. We have been a great couple for each other. Suddenly, he says he wants his own place and is moving out tomorrow. The saddest part for me is our dog who adores him. He is moving to a place that does'nt allow pets. It is insane. It all started when his 16 year old son left, in july. We had him with us for a year to see how things went and we returned the ungrateful little brat to his mother in Fl. When he left, my boyfriend started acting mean and buying stuff like crazy. Huge plastic spaceship model, 400$ movie replica Thor Hammer. Stupid plastic crap. He started being really mean to me. I contacted his VA psychiatrist and asked that he be tested for bi-polar disorder. They give him drugs but he doesn't take them. MAN!!!!!! I am sad. Quoting: Janine69 you're a b1tch, i hope he destroy your butth0le every night. |
| clint User ID: 953504 08/31/2012 03:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Janine69 BELIEVE ME!! It was me who saved this boy from certain death !,000 times! He would lie and manipulate his dad and make him basically shut down, so he wouldn't kill him. Why be involved with such lunatics anyway it can only mean trouble and hassles why choose someone like that think about the future and the trouble. SHE WANTS THE FREE MONEY!!! people and situations are a lot more complicated than that.. one sentence judgements are very simple minded.. yeah she loved the crazy insulting prick. trust me, unless you give her your monthly govt. check, you are not banging her. give it up |
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| Janine69 (OP) User ID: 16460912 08/31/2012 10:01 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow....with emphasis on 'ow'. I feel like a white hot dagger is twisting in my heart. I have been the best thing that ever happened to him. When we met, 4 years ago he was living on 1,200 a month from the VA. He was wounded in Afghanistan and was retired at age 30 (8 years ago). I helped him increase his VA disability pay to 100%. Something he could not do himself. He received a total of 50,000 in back pay and now lives on 4,000 a month. We have been a great couple for each other. Suddenly, he says he wants his own place and is moving out tomorrow. The saddest part for me is our dog who adores him. He is moving to a place that does'nt allow pets. It is insane. It all started when his 16 year old son left, in july. We had him with us for a year to see how things went and we returned the ungrateful little brat to his mother in Fl. When he left, my boyfriend started acting mean and buying stuff like crazy. Huge plastic spaceship model, 400$ movie replica Thor Hammer. Stupid plastic crap. He started being really mean to me. I contacted his VA psychiatrist and asked that he be tested for bi-polar disorder. They give him drugs but he doesn't take them. MAN!!!!!! I am sad. Quoting: Janine69 To bad for him you are hot and I would treat you right Smile Janine |
| Janine69 (OP) User ID: 16460912 08/31/2012 10:05 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | sometimes a change of conditions can change a persons mental health for the better.. this breakup may be his need for change in his own life.. to get his mojo back.. let him go.. without bitter feelings.. pursue your own happiness.. maybe you can rekindle the relationship later.. maybe not.. but bitterness an anger takes awhile to wear off... there is no blame.. there is just existence.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21987589 let it slide... help him move out.. encourage him.. it may be what he needs.. and begin dating another.. privately.. no need to flaunt it at him... maybe he will start dating too.. you had a good long run of 8 years.. something to be proud of.. but when it's over.. it's over.. nothing can ever stay the same.. change is inevitable.. don't over-analyze it.. I like this advice. Change is growth. Its good to grow. Just one question, were you born in 1969? 67 So... why the "69"?? Janine |
| Janine69 (OP) User ID: 16460912 08/31/2012 10:08 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21662845 You called him an "ungrateful little brat", if that isn't resentment I don't know what is. You sound like one of those people who always think you treat people so well and they should be ever so grateful to you cos you "do things" for them. BELIEVE ME!! It was me who saved this boy from certain death !,000 times! He would lie and manipulate his dad and make him basically shut down, so he wouldn't kill him. Why be involved with such lunatics anyway it can only mean trouble and hassles why choose someone like that think about the future and the trouble. SHE WANTS THE FREE MONEY!!! I earn 7,000 a month. Janine |
| Forgotten Golden Rule Advocate User ID: 20141290 08/31/2012 10:12 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nagging bitch. My wife has a kid from a previous marriage. I accept my wife and her kid. Even though her kid lies and does things I don't like. Anyone who would post their relationship story on GLP is an attention whore. Hair dresser who is taking advice from clients who are in "mental health". Idiots leading idiots it sounds like. Move on. If this story is true then he is not for you and you are not for him. Move on, stop posting on forums about this stupid situation. Women always think they are the best thing to happen to a guy. When most of the time they are just good enough for sex. But, if you ask them, they are god's gift to men. Forgotten: Reach me at admin@pantheismnow.org |
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| The Myth User ID: 10300912 08/31/2012 02:35 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Janine69 BELIEVE ME!! It was me who saved this boy from certain death !,000 times! He would lie and manipulate his dad and make him basically shut down, so he wouldn't kill him. Why be involved with such lunatics anyway it can only mean trouble and hassles why choose someone like that think about the future and the trouble. SHE WANTS THE FREE MONEY!!! I earn 7,000 a month. Where do you work? I know quite a few hairdressers who would love to pull in that kind of cash. Wouldn't it be great to heal the world, with only a song? |
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| Janine69 (OP) User ID: 16445515 08/31/2012 04:13 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21662845 Why be involved with such lunatics anyway it can only mean trouble and hassles why choose someone like that think about the future and the trouble. SHE WANTS THE FREE MONEY!!! I earn 7,000 a month. Where do you work? I know quite a few hairdressers who would love to pull in that kind of cash. Janine |
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| Janine69 (OP) User ID: 16451428 08/31/2012 06:45 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21965794 Yes, he is 12 years younger. I was married for 25 years to someone 12 years older than me. You sound used up. Maybe he switched to a newer model. He spent 8 years in the Marines Special Forces. He has more 'elderly' health issues than most his age. People can't believe that I am 50. Definately not used up. I am one of the vehicles that appreciates with age. Like a Harley. Janine |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 22913695 08/31/2012 06:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21965794 Yes, he is 12 years younger. I was married for 25 years to someone 12 years older than me. You sound used up. Maybe he switched to a newer model. He spent 8 years in the Marines Special Forces. He has more 'elderly' health issues than most his age. People can't believe that I am 50. Definately not used up. I am one of the vehicles that appreciates with age. Like a Harley. Denial aint just a river in Egypt. Old Harleys that have been rode too hard wear out too. |
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| betty189 User ID: 23790592 09/17/2012 09:59 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't want to be too judgemental here....but i cringed a bit when I saw that line too J-Honey In June 2010, his son came to stay with us. His mom said he skipped school and got D and F grades so I suggested that we give him a reason to get good grades. We told him that ...if he got straight A's in the first quarter of 8th grade we would send him a laptop. straight A's second quarter, he would get a Wii.He told us that he got straight A's so we sent him the prizes. When he came to visit in the summer of 2011 he asked to stay. His mom sent his school transcripts and lo and behold, he got nothing but D's and F's.Plus he skipped school 30% of the time.He lied to his Dad's face a thousand times that horrible year. I wish that I could have this moment for life,cuz in this moment I just feel so alive... |
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| ? User ID: 1610510 12/23/2012 06:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You sound like an obsessive, nagging control freak. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20500084 Good move on his part. I am a very hard working, self supporting, creative, kind, great cook, fantastic lover, spiritual person. Me me me MEEEEEE Forgot to add "selfish, narcissistic drama queen" to the list. On an average day, I would go to work at 8 am and he would wake up around 3pm and begin playing world of warcraft. I would come home at 6 to find the dog had peed on the carpet because he hasn't taken him out once. He would play until 4 am and the cycle repeats. And this was working out well for you how? Did the extra cash help make this behaviour more acceptable to you? |