Serious Question if I date a woman who is 1 year younger than my oldest son(21 year old woman) is she only after my money or My free spirit

I'd say people are laughing at you behind your back, and your son thinks you're creepy.

and yes..she eventually is just in it for the $$$$$

Bang her and lose her , another scalp on the old mans belt !!!

So you agree that a good looking man who is 42 dating a 21 year old woman makes others so uncomfortable that they simply become blindly judgemental and are jealous due to their own ugly spouses? Well Put and I agree jealousy makes people judge the good looking men who snag hot younger women. Thanks for the confirmation.

Well if she wants to steal your money or imprison your undying spirit either way sounds like you lose in the end.

who the fuck cares keep your finacial house in order (pre nup etc) and enjoy the ride.

dude wake up, its always about money, always! if your money was gone, she would be gone,but it doesnt mean u cant enjoy yourself.

She'll take your money and run off with your son.

Dumb ass, she's after your son.

Just kidding man. Just take care of business and don't worry about what she's after. You know you'd give it to her. Peace.

LOL.. have too mu money to allow it to go unprotected...A casual intimate partner has ZERO rights to my assets...Slam dunk only if I get married or have a commom lawful wife do I expose myself to financial exposure...

Buying gifts and other things for my acquaintance are just that gifts and no obligation for ant thing other than my own kind gestures...

no, I said people are laughing at you behind your back.

they are.

i honestly think there is some (not many) good uns out there
but most women are just after $$$$ or security at 21 shes probably more interested in an exciting life which it sounds like you can provide.

have fun but dont be to hurt when she dumps you for someone else when her needs change

sounds like you go out with whores.

Well if he can take her from then bravo. I dont have any ill will towards my son snagging a hot woman. He gets my empire anyway so if he takes her then good I get to start over with another hottie...

Who cares what anyone else thinks? If you're enjoying bouncing quarters off her tanned and taught ass, do you!

When I was 30, I dated a 62 year old man.

I have to say, if it wasn't for his grouchiness, the fact that he didn't want anymore children because his were already grown adults, and he turned out to be a bipolar sex addict, I would've stayed with the guy.

lmao

He was very handsome, funny as heck and freakin smart, which is what I love the most about men, but he was crazy so I stopped dating him quickly.

OP if you want GLP to read her mind to discover her motivations, you MUST push her head up against the computer monitor and hold it there for 10 minutes, otherwise HOW CAN WE READ HER MIND!!! You dumbass!!!!11

How dare yo call the love of others a "whore". Have you ever cheated on your spouse? Ever had queer sex? Ever been paid to have sex? Ever beared false witness? what about Judge not lest yu be judged?

this

42 isn't that old...when I was 25, I dated a few guys who were 40. They were mature, interesting to talk to, and I felt like they appreciated aspects of me which guys my own age didn't recognize

but...and this is a big but

at some point, she is going to want to have a family, and that will not be with you

at that point, she will want someone her own age

and thats where biology and generational affiliations trump love and affection, except in some extremely rare cases

nothing personal...just reality

Listed here we dont treat our women like billabongs in America nor do we EVER have to decide between a woman and a kangaroo. Piss off aussie

Very good and logical thought..Kudos to you

She has a daddy fixation. When she grows ups, she'll dump your ass for someone her own age. Then people will really laugh at you.

she's too old for you.

You mean a man dating a beautiful young woman for how ever long it lasts makes me the joke? Ok Ill take that punishment all day long. How women with me. You dont understand that I must be a little hot to get woemn half my age but dont be hating..get yourself some haterade and cool down chief

you sound like you are 15 years old big daddy.

go jerk off or something

Like I said the haters gonna hate...Maybe one day you'll make over 6 figures like me and have a happer life...

nah

not the joke...it all depends on the circles you run in

If you are in the investment banking or hedge fund circles in NYC, people would wonder why you weren't with someone in their 20s

Same goes for Los Angeles in the film business

however, in other, more conservative and family oriented circles, it is frowned on

The women your own age who are mothers of young girls might be hostile towards you, but the men you know might admire you

The problem of time and biology remains the same

I have a few girlfriends who married MUCH older men (I'm talking about 25-30 years older) and they ended up playing nursemaid to him for much of their marriage

Reality is, the body starts to break down after 70 for most people, and a woman in her 40s and 50s is often still vibrant and sexual. It sucks at that point to be married to an 80 year old man full of health issues

Thats why those kinds of marriages usually only take place for money or if the older man has exceptional talent

In the case of Charlie Chaplin, it was both, but it still isn't easy for the couple

good luck to you OP

Forget what she's after, remember what your getting.

Thank you

Quid pro quo - I see your point...

So, you're more interested in having a hot babe then a good relationship? Making the other boys envious is a priority in your relationships?

I'm your age. And if I were to meet you ten ays or even years from now, and learned your "history" with chasing younger women, I'd blow you off in a heartbeat.