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For Those of You That Enjoy Putting People Down

 
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09/13/2012 01:43 PM
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Here's an example. I took my hubby to one of my favorite breakfast diners that was kinda edgy in my home city. We didn't know each other very well at the time and he is very conservative and I like to be around different people although we're both traditional people if that makes sense.

The waitress came to our table with her tattooed arms and a barbed wire necklace to take our order. My husband looked at her like she had 3 heads, he just stared. She left and I started talking about other things and he commented on if I saw "that". Well, yes, I did and I didn't really think there was anything to talk about but he stared at her all the way to and fro and wanted to have a conversation about it. I was hoping she didn't hear him since I'm skeptical of what people do to my food, anyway. We learned a little more about each other through that experience but I've had experiences with other people that were loud and embarrassing like when people have something they have no control over, it just sounds mean and why stare at them from the moment you see them until they walk all the way across the room? I really don't get it. Do they not know that's rude and unnecessary? If a person has vitaligo staring them down the whole time is not going to correct it and only makes that person feel uncomfortable.
 Quoting: D'Light


You surely are a wise person D
 Quoting: TDJ


Lol really!? She married the guy!
chuckle
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


He's a great husband. We were married at the time, we got married really fast - I'm an adventurous person ;)
It happens rarely, I don't like it, I usually try to shuush him so in that way I'm doing the world a favor. He could be with someone who would egg him on and hurt peoples feeling far and wide--I'm saving countless people these negative emotions. Other than that, he's wonderful. We all have our faults and together we make me each other better people *insert hallmark card theme here*.
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09/13/2012 01:45 PM
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Why do you do it? I'm not talking about throwing insults around in arguments. I'm talking about the people who get off on trash talking people, for no real reason. What exactly is the problem with people like this? Is it lack of self-esteem? Obviously, there are those who feel so crappy about themselves that the only way they know to make themselves feel better is to put others down. If that is the case, why not just work on your self-esteem rather than attempting to hurt others? There is at least one little thing about every single person in the world that can be complimented. Why not try to dish out compliments rather than insults? Wouldn't the world be a much happier place if people threw out compliments like they do insults? Why not try to make people feel better about themselves rather than worse? Making people feel better automatically makes you feel better. The world seems to be so full of adults acting like bratty little kids, and there are people that enjoy that. I don't get it. Peace.

1dunno1
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


You want to know why I dish out insults instead of compliments? Because I'm a poor liar.
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09/13/2012 01:53 PM

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Here's an example. I took my hubby to one of my favorite breakfast diners that was kinda edgy in my home city. We didn't know each other very well at the time and he is very conservative and I like to be around different people although we're both traditional people if that makes sense.

The waitress came to our table with her tattooed arms and a barbed wire necklace to take our order. My husband looked at her like she had 3 heads, he just stared. She left and I started talking about other things and he commented on if I saw "that". Well, yes, I did and I didn't really think there was anything to talk about but he stared at her all the way to and fro and wanted to have a conversation about it. I was hoping she didn't hear him since I'm skeptical of what people do to my food, anyway. We learned a little more about each other through that experience but I've had experiences with other people that were loud and embarrassing like when people have something they have no control over, it just sounds mean and why stare at them from the moment you see them until they walk all the way across the room? I really don't get it. Do they not know that's rude and unnecessary? If a person has vitaligo staring them down the whole time is not going to correct it and only makes that person feel uncomfortable.
 Quoting: D'Light


You surely are a wise person D
 Quoting: TDJ


Lol really!? She married the guy!
chuckle
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


He's a great husband. We were married at the time, we got married really fast - I'm an adventurous person ;)
It happens rarely, I don't like it, I usually try to shuush him so in that way I'm doing the world a favor. He could be with someone who would egg him on and hurt peoples feeling far and wide--I'm saving countless people these negative emotions. Other than that, he's wonderful. We all have our faults and together we make me each other better people *insert hallmark card theme here*.
 Quoting: D'Light


That's actually rather sweet! hf
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09/13/2012 02:02 PM
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Why do you do it? I'm not talking about throwing insults around in arguments. I'm talking about the people who get off on trash talking people, for no real reason. What exactly is the problem with people like this? Is it lack of self-esteem? Obviously, there are those who feel so crappy about themselves that the only way they know to make themselves feel better is to put others down. If that is the case, why not just work on your self-esteem rather than attempting to hurt others? There is at least one little thing about every single person in the world that can be complimented. Why not try to dish out compliments rather than insults? Wouldn't the world be a much happier place if people threw out compliments like they do insults? Why not try to make people feel better about themselves rather than worse? Making people feel better automatically makes you feel better. The world seems to be so full of adults acting like bratty little kids, and there are people that enjoy that. I don't get it. Peace.

1dunno1
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


You want to know why I dish out insults instead of compliments? Because I'm a poor liar.
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lol. Obviously, it is hard to come up with compliments for a lot of people, but it is possible. If it really is impossible for you, then why not just keep your thoughts to yourself rather than inflict negative ones on other people?
"Imagine no possessions"

"As Above, So Below"

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Rach
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09/13/2012 02:03 PM
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You surely are a wise person D
 Quoting: TDJ


Lol really!? She married the guy!
chuckle
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


He's a great husband. We were married at the time, we got married really fast - I'm an adventurous person ;)
It happens rarely, I don't like it, I usually try to shuush him so in that way I'm doing the world a favor. He could be with someone who would egg him on and hurt peoples feeling far and wide--I'm saving countless people these negative emotions. Other than that, he's wonderful. We all have our faults and together we make me each other better people *insert hallmark card theme here*.
 Quoting: D'Light


That's actually rather sweet! hf
 Quoting: Sir France's Beercan


It is sweet :)
"Imagine no possessions"

"As Above, So Below"

)O(
Rach
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09/13/2012 08:22 PM

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bump

"You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger"
Anonymous Coward
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09/13/2012 08:35 PM
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Hate is less work than love.

I love you 4 U

hf
IndigoSerenity76 (OP)

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09/13/2012 10:50 PM
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Hate is less work than love.

I love you 4 U

hf
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Thank you and back at ya :)

hfhfhfhfhfhfhf
"Imagine no possessions"

"As Above, So Below"

)O(
Rach

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