Spiritually speaking: Is it ok to have sex with other women?

Spiritually? Yes. If you believe in spirituality and karma and that sort of thing at least. If you do that you will hurt her greatly. You will break her heart, make her feel horrible and possibly lose contact with your child. Despite all that, someday that will all rebound on you through karma as well, if you believe in spirituality and all.

The entire point of spirituality is to do things that don't hurt anyone or cause bad feelings. What you are considering doing is the complete opposite of anything remotely spiritual.

Nature and the universe cant speak. The Bible says, that it is sexual immorality and wrong. Sexual relations are for only between a married man and women.

Maybe you should have thought about that before getting married and having children...

In nature it's the more DNA you spread the better so go and put ur penis in a beautiful blonde! Do it for doom do it for glp.

yes, Hell.

Well... Yeah

OP, why do you believe the bible is BS? if your asking if it is wrong or not???? makes no sense.

i think the bad karma comes from the deceit and not from being with more than one person.

Let me guess, you believe in the exact word of the bible?
Do us all a favor and kill yourself. Quick quick.

I think if you've promised to someone, you stick with that someone, until you've both agreed to end the relationship.

Well, it sounds like you're ready for a divorce.


You can take what's known as the "Short Cut" divorce...


The one where you're honest with your spouse regarding your need to move on sexually (and subconsciously in so many other ways) with your life. The one where you get a relatively smooth break, less hard feelings, and less wasted time.


Or you can do the long version...


Battle with your dick until you can't resist fucking some random chick... fastforward weeks or months when your wife finds out. Fastforward weeks or months, a new wardrobe to replace your shredded one, new car windows, and hearing aids... then you're finally setting the divorce into action.


Your choice.

I believe that, too.

We aren't married. But still, I love her and I would never do anything to hurt her. I guess I should talk to her about my hornyness.

She's pretty open minded. In the best case I might arrange a threesome, who knows ;)

You're a fucking tool...

What the fuck?


Why are you even asking us then?


Dump her and get some other pussy.


She's a female...


She requires your 1000% personal devotion...


Even if she acts like she thinks it's okay you want someone else, she will immediately emotionally detach from you and you will lose her forever.


This is true with 99.8% of females, all varying degrees.


If you express this to her, chances are pretty good you're totally screwed, and the relationship is doomed... the long way, or the short way, your choice.


The truth and honesty always leads to the short way... the way that ruins your memories of each other the least.


Be a real man. Be honest.

Really? Although i honestly love her and just want to have exciting sex with a stranger?

I guess, that's not worth it, then.

Very selfish

Well she wants exciting sex with a stranger way hotter and better hung than you, but I mean...


It ain't all dolphins and rainbows there babe.


Eventually you'll either end up fucking another chick, OR you'll persevere to your standards of love / what you would want her to do in your situation.


As some wise GLPer once said, 'Keep it to yourself and know she's done the same thing.'

She should throw you out, you stupid slut

You don't even deserve one woman

Spirituality, you will be divided, you won't be a whole man, as you would be with just your wife.

If you go with other women, parts of you is left with these other women. So, you won't be much of a man.

How do you say "trailer park" in German?

You're so fucking redneck you should be living in the US.

Why are you bringing the bible into a thread about spirituality? The two are vastly different, even if occasionally intertwined.

THIS^^^^^^^^
And living with guilt n self loathing makes you lose all your hair and happiness!

I don't know if I would be called a spiritualist but I would probably put myself under that category if anything. Yes I think it would be hurtful to yourself if you were to do what you say. Of course nothing can be proved in these circumstances so its just my own opinion. But yes you are already with another woman and more importantly you have a child, which doing anything unfaithful to your woman reflects on your child, and the way you worded "Still, there are so many perfect beautiful girls in the world, it would be a shame to let them go to waste. I always wanted to put my dick inside a blonde girl" just shows that you have the wrong frame of mind. I think the more you sleep around with people just because they are good looking and/or you want to have sex, the more you lose who you are and morally die a little inside. I'm not a Christian either but I have my own morals I live by, and society in this day and age is growing up with too much sex/nudity and gay stuff in bad taste on TV and everywhere.

Don't let these morans change the topic and add a bunch of non-sense, they've been brainwashed by this toxic failed culture known as the western world centered in the United States.


Here's the facts:

1. At the very core of a mans responsibility in life is to plant his seed in as many holes as possible, hoping that one or more will continue his line. If not for this basic trait, not one of us would be here today, humanity would have failed thousands of years ago.

2. Practically anywhere you go outside of the western world, be it South America, Africa, or anywhere in Asia, it is pretty much expected that the man has girlfriends. This isn't to say that men don't love their wives and family -- quite the contrary. The wife is the ONLY women who has his full support, has a roof provided, and the family is cared for.

Sure, he may go and poke this or that once in awhile, but there's only one true love. You didn't start this thread and say I love this chick, I wanna go have an affair. No, you just wanna try some new flavors, doesn't mean you're going to quit loving chocolate cause you tried strawberry.

On a recent trip to south east asia a cab driver was telling me about his wife and his girlfriend, and I asked "Oh well your wife must not know about her", no he said, she knows and shes fine with it because we've only got one shot at this life and she wants me to be happy, and as long as i always love her first, and provide for her and keep our family together why should she be mad?

3. As the man said, as far as we all know, we've only got one shot at this and although I have done a lot of dumb things in my life, suffered catastrophic failures, catastrophic losses, been financially wiped to negative half a dozen times, lost those I loved most, I am now glad that all of it happened because it made me who I am. The only thing I would REGRET if I died today is all the things I HAVEN'T done, and HAVEN'T experienced.

4. The old saying "what you don't know won't hurt you" in your case, is very true. As long as you never let this women you love find out, she will never be hurt. As long as you don't turn a quick night of experience into an affair, you will never hurt her. On the same token, it is your responsibility to not let your fun and games destroy your family unit, and if she found out it would.


Go and roll around and play in the neighbors grass, but don't just think its greener cause it looks better from a far, or at first glance. You've spent a long time working on your beautiful lawn, don't let it go brown cause you were too busy watering the neighbors lawn.

Humanly speaking:

Is it ok for you to stick your dick in every hole you find?



Do you really need spiritual advice on this subject?

Beacuse OP said in his intial post, i dont want to hear " Thou shalt not" thats why. I was asking if he was asking on a spiritual level if it was okay. The bible is spiritual.

Just have a fuck and get it out of your system.

Your bound to find the casual fuck not to your liking and go back to wifie all happy.
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Very true and well said. Nobody cheats the cosmic mirror,as it reflects back whatever is put out. What your talking about would be a misqualification of spiritual energy. Be happy with what you have, and seek to build up your partners spirituality. Because the deeper a couple builds up each others spirituality, the less you'll have carnal feelings for members of the opposite sex. When you perfect the inner soul relationship, the outer carnal desires won't have any power over you. Self mastery is ultimately what you can achieve.