Op, of course men are going to be in denial.
1. They are addicted.
2. Porn has warped their brains and perspective of women, so they cant have open, loving relationships with women.
3. They dont want to admit that their addiction is responsible for the abuse of women. This abuse has a direct impact in that these women wont trust men, and it will mess up their relationships with men.

In the same eay that people addicted to driving their cars with cheap gas has a direct relationship to unrest inthe middle east, or being addicted to cheap stuff from ealmart is directly related to people working in sweat shops, men addicted to porn have a direct relationship with women being severely abused.