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09/18/2012 08:41 PM
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I need spiritual help!
*SWIM: some one who i met.*

I have a circumstance that appears to be repeating itself and i am unable to work out what it is i am supposed to do.
I presume it is repeating itself because i failed to learn my lesson last time, but i am have trouble working out the solution.

Im hesitant to ask for advice on here, due to the trolling i'm about to recieve, but thought id give it ago in the chance a genuine person with sound advice will respond.

So here it is.

I had a previous relationship that lasted about 3 years. I was young and immature and probably wasn't the best partner around.
In the last year, SWIM started to develop a close friendship with a good friend, after a while they started spending the night at each others house and alot of time together.

I thought nothing of it as i trusted them both and they assured me nothing was going on.

Then i went through SWIMS phone and found msg's 'I love you so much" etc. so i broke it off.


years later i meet a new partner. We have been together for almost 3 years as well. We have had many differences and SWIM has had a horrible upbringing. I have given SWIM more than any person has to offer, i have given her all the things SWIM has never received before.

So the past few months SWIM has met some new friends and has spending alot of time texting and going out with one particular person. Eventually leading to SWIM spending the night their on a regular basis.

I am once again assured that nothing is going on. As much as i believe SWIM, i very uncomfortable with this situation. They seem very close, and more time is spent talking to this person than me now (i believe).

I am told that i'm just insecure and to stop being jealous. Well yes i may be a little insecure, but for good reasons. I am aware of this and i think SWIM is using it as an excuse for the their actions.

SWIM doesn't seem to respect my feelings about this situation and gets extremely agitated every time its brought up. Yet SWIM assures me how much love they have for me, and still does some sweet things.

I do not think all these circumstances are fair on my behalf, i am a very fair person and often compromise at my own expense to make others happy. But now i am tired and worn out.

It appears to be almost the exact same situation as last time. This feels like the last problem i have to progress spiritually so i am determined to do so.

The only thing is, i dont know whether:

- To grow the courage to break it off.
- To rid of my insecurities and let it go.

I told SWIM last night that this is not acceptable and you better decide whats important to you a you are gonna have a big decision to make.

SWIMS response: "I dont know what to do. Im sorry about last night, I am! i cant figure out why im still letting everything get in the of us, i guess im just still scared."

As i said before, SWIM has had some horrific things happen to them, And i give SWIM more chances than i would to another person. But now i am stuck. If SWIM cant learn her lesson what is mine....?

Any genuine help would be greatly appreciated, thanks for reading.
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09/19/2012 08:33 AM
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Re: I need spiritual help!
Work thru your insecurities and let her go.
You have to listen to your gut feelings.....you ALREADY know this is a repeat of last time and she is cheating. Is this the kind of person you want?
If not you better find the courage to move on because she obviously doesn't care about your feelings and that she is hurting you.
It doesn't get better.
When you are in the middle of it, its hard to see, but when you are on the outside looking in it is obvious.
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09/19/2012 08:52 AM
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Even if SWIM wasnt cheating (which she is), its still unacceptable that he/she be spending more time with someone else.

Move on
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09/19/2012 08:52 AM
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It's hard for me to see how this is a spiritual question. This is a relationship problem. If it was a spiritual question the answer is easy - true love is unconditional.

Of course 99% are not able to get to that spiritual level.
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09/19/2012 08:56 AM

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As a woman I say she has emotionally disconnected and that is the beginning of the end for this relationship. I have no tolerance for any of this behavior in my world and see it as blatant disrespect. If someone can be so careless with your feelings do you really want them to be apart of your world?? hf Good luck OP!
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09/19/2012 09:19 AM
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It's hard for me to see how this is a spiritual question. This is a relationship problem. If it was a spiritual question the answer is easy - true love is unconditional.

Of course 99% are not able to get to that spiritual level.
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Well its abit of both, i can work the relationship side of things out for myself. But the fact thats its a almost the same situation repeated makes me wonder what i missed last time.
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09/19/2012 09:20 AM
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Thank you everyone for your input, very much appreciated.

Although i already made the decision to kick SWIM out of my home before reading the comments. To a new life it is!

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09/19/2012 09:30 AM
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Re: I need spiritual help!
*SWIM: some one who i met.*

I have a circumstance that appears to be repeating itself and i am unable to work out what it is i am supposed to do.
I presume it is repeating itself because i failed to learn my lesson last time, but i am have trouble working out the solution.

Im hesitant to ask for advice on here, due to the trolling i'm about to recieve, but thought id give it ago in the chance a genuine person with sound advice will respond.

So here it is.

I had a previous relationship that lasted about 3 years. I was young and immature and probably wasn't the best partner around.
In the last year, SWIM started to develop a close friendship with a good friend, after a while they started spending the night at each others house and alot of time together.

I thought nothing of it as i trusted them both and they assured me nothing was going on.

Then i went through SWIMS phone and found msg's 'I love you so much" etc. so i broke it off.


years later i meet a new partner. We have been together for almost 3 years as well. We have had many differences and SWIM has had a horrible upbringing. I have given SWIM more than any person has to offer, i have given her all the things SWIM has never received before.

So the past few months SWIM has met some new friends and has spending alot of time texting and going out with one particular person. Eventually leading to SWIM spending the night their on a regular basis.

I am once again assured that nothing is going on. As much as i believe SWIM, i very uncomfortable with this situation. They seem very close, and more time is spent talking to this person than me now (i believe).

I am told that i'm just insecure and to stop being jealous. Well yes i may be a little insecure, but for good reasons. I am aware of this and i think SWIM is using it as an excuse for the their actions.

SWIM doesn't seem to respect my feelings about this situation and gets extremely agitated every time its brought up. Yet SWIM assures me how much love they have for me, and still does some sweet things.

I do not think all these circumstances are fair on my behalf, i am a very fair person and often compromise at my own expense to make others happy. But now i am tired and worn out.

It appears to be almost the exact same situation as last time. This feels like the last problem i have to progress spiritually so i am determined to do so.

The only thing is, i dont know whether:

- To grow the courage to break it off.
- To rid of my insecurities and let it go.

I told SWIM last night that this is not acceptable and you better decide whats important to you a you are gonna have a big decision to make.

SWIMS response: "I dont know what to do. Im sorry about last night, I am! i cant figure out why im still letting everything get in the of us, i guess im just still scared."

As i said before, SWIM has had some horrific things happen to them, And i give SWIM more chances than i would to another person. But now i am stuck. If SWIM cant learn her lesson what is mine....?

Any genuine help would be greatly appreciated, thanks for reading.
 Quoting: sssss


OK..here goes. You give to someone and should not expect anything in return. You have this unvailing quality about yourself. You cannot judge. No human has had a perfect life. Our experiences are teachers and your girlfriend has a choice of choosing harmony or choas. Don't get lost in her learning, she has every right to make her own choices..if her choice is not being with you, so be it. You must learn to be secure with yourself..and love yourself. No one can make you happy but yourself.
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09/19/2012 09:36 AM

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SWIM is a cunt.
"The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title."

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09/19/2012 10:24 PM
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OK..here goes. You give to someone and should not expect anything in return. You have this unvailing quality about yourself. You cannot judge. No human has had a perfect life. Our experiences are teachers and your girlfriend has a choice of choosing harmony or choas. Don't get lost in her learning, she has every right to make her own choices..if her choice is not being with you, so be it. You must learn to be secure with yourself..and love yourself. No one can make you happy but yourself.
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Thankyou! this is the response i was after, really makes sence.

Last Edited by sssss on 09/19/2012 10:26 PM
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09/19/2012 10:26 PM
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SWIM is a cunt.
 Quoting: Face Palmer


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10/17/2012 02:47 AM
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Three weeks ago my boyfriend broke up with me. it all started when i Travel to UK to spend my holiday with my friend,i was trying to contact him but it was not going through. So when i came back from UK i saw him with a lady kissing, i was frustrated and it gives me sleepless night. I called my friend told her what happened and she introduce me to a spell cater who helped her long time ago. Which i contact him and i never believed that the spell will work so easily because i have contacted many spell casters to get him back all they do is to take my money with no result. I am happy to tell you all that my boyfriend is back and committed to me alone and he do whatever i ask him to do with love and care. All thanks to DR,TUBE the great magician who helped me to restore my boy friend to me:goodspelltemple@gmail.com , .. Email this powerful and authentic spell caster via email now goodspelltemple@gmail.com ,
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10/17/2012 03:08 AM
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SWIM is a cunt.
 Quoting: Face Palmer


hf
 Quoting: sssss


I would not have put it like that, but Yes!

You expect people to be as honourable as you. That is your only problem. They suck not you.

Trouble is, they are ruining you for the 'right' person when they come along soon.

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