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i wish i was not married

 
WHY ME?
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09/20/2012 07:19 AM
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i wish i was not married
I wish i did not marry so young 0R CHOOSE my (now husband) who was my bestfriend over my boyfriend back in those years. I was blinded,confused, and STUPID.

I married the guy, who fucked my bestfriend. Who critisizes me. He "WAS" everything to me, he was sweet, kindhearted and he was what I thought , was the one.

I wish i had married my boyfriend instead of my bestfriend. Because now my boyfriend is my bestfriend.

So many times I want to kiss him, hug him but im restricted. IM MARRIED!! AND HAVE 2 KIDS.

HELP!
i am not happy. but i do not want to hurt my children. They are still young. and need us as parents.

I HATE MY LIFE.

THE END!!!
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09/20/2012 07:22 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
Your hubby f*cked your boyfriend?
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09/20/2012 07:27 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
I HATE MY LIFE.
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Then get a divorce and start all over. Simple.
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09/20/2012 07:30 AM
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awhore

Oh, the drama! And if you had stayed with the boyfriend you would have dumped him long ago and now you'd be with some bad boy who can give you the drama and chaos most women need.
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09/20/2012 07:30 AM
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Quit Moaning and deal with it it's all your fault, you got blinded by petty words and now you don't want to be a part of it anymore. You put yourself in this position so stop complaining and die with it.
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09/20/2012 07:32 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
Your hubby f*cked your boyfriend?
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rofl
boilerbengal

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09/20/2012 07:33 AM

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Your hubby f*cked your boyfriend?
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laugh nice catch AC
A Clear Choice Is Upon US.
Communists VS. Capitalists
the mighty Atom

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09/20/2012 07:35 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
Try kind of a Independent Therapy with XTC. (MDMA)

This will open the (last?) Emergency Exit,
when you are unable to safe your Relationship
try something new!

G.Y.!B.E.
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09/20/2012 07:39 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
You're a fucking loser going through life like a selfish piece of shit fucking with other peoples lives.
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09/20/2012 07:40 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
What's this? Decisions might have consequences?

Who'da thunk it?

weirdo

Typical woman. You want what you want and you want it now, consequences be damned.
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09/20/2012 07:55 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
When you have kids, you give up your life for them or you get in the "scumbag line" - You choose and then your kids live with that choice for the rest of their lives.

Go seek marriage counseling and try to fix your family for your kids.

And for Goodness sake, don't go listening to the people on here telling you to dump your husband. Be aware that this advice has a better than even chance of coming from a mother's basement, from a 30 something, no-family of their own, dysfunctional hermit.

My wife and I have been married for 28 years and have 2 grown kids who are now living on their own.

Marriage is tough but if you brought kids into this world, it's worth fighting to keep it together because it's more than just 2 people involved.
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09/20/2012 07:58 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
I wish i did not marry so young 0R CHOOSE my (now husband) who was my bestfriend over my boyfriend back in those years. I was blinded,confused, and STUPID.

I married the guy, who fucked my bestfriend. Who critisizes me. He "WAS" everything to me, he was sweet, kindhearted and he was what I thought , was the one.

I wish i had married my boyfriend instead of my bestfriend. Because now my boyfriend is my bestfriend.

So many times I want to kiss him, hug him but im restricted. IM MARRIED!! AND HAVE 2 KIDS.

HELP!
i am not happy. but i do not want to hurt my children. They are still young. and need us as parents.

I HATE MY LIFE.

THE END!!!
 Quoting: WHY ME? 10936183


Welcome to the club honey!
I married my husband and I hated my life for a few years but I stuck it
out and we have been happily married for 42 years!
We are very happy and well adjusted. We have 2 wonderful children!
We now have a gorgeous granddaughter now in her first year of college and happy in her dorm. She will be helping children with special needs!
No matter who you marry to make a good marriage it takes time. You would probably feel the same with the other guy.
My husband and I are so close now that I dread the day I lose my husband. I love him and he loves me! (corny but true)

You are unhappy because you are dwelling on something better. You can divorce this husband but the next one might find you in the same situation. You have to work at having a good marriage. This means making your partner happy.
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09/20/2012 07:59 AM
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Yeah... real shame.

But the bottom line is you got kids, so cowboy up and deal.

When they're 18 you can ditch the loser and go get some young beefcake.

In the meantime you could always encourage him to fuck off... Ways and means, ways and means, be a bitch, put him down, nag him and deny him sex.

If he leaves then he'll have to cough up dough and he'll be the bad guy who walked on his family.

If you're not ruthless enough to do that then you obviously aren't suffering that much anguish so stfu whiner.
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09/20/2012 07:59 AM
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You're a fucking loser going through life like a selfish piece of shit fucking with other peoples lives.
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Dear Abby is back!

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09/20/2012 08:13 AM
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dear poster

you sound like a self centered immature bitch
you say you are restricted then say you have kids
so you feel restricted because you have kids?
grow up
you spread like peanut butter get knocked up and have the
nerve to only think of yourself
i feel sorry for your kids not you
and yes, you were and still are stupid

dumbass
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09/20/2012 08:19 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
"I wish I wasn't so stupid. My husband was my bestfriend, and he fucked my bestfriend, so I married him. I should have married my boyfriend instead, because he is my bestfriend. Damn, how I hate being so dumb!"
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Can you please explain your situation again, really slowly?
Just A Thought

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09/20/2012 08:21 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
You need to distance yourself from the ex-boyfriend.

It's like trying to diet while hanging out in a pastry store.

It will never work.
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09/20/2012 08:23 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
the problem and the solution lie within you. only you can change your perspective. only you can take action. i would suggest you start with having a heart to heart with your husband.
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09/20/2012 08:26 AM
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all the married people here should question their partner's commmitment? no!
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09/20/2012 08:29 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
"I wish I wasn't so stupid. My husband was my bestfriend, and he fucked my bestfriend, so I married him. I should have married my boyfriend instead, because he is my bestfriend. Damn, how I hate being so dumb!"
 Quoting: WHY ME? 10936183


Can you please explain your situation again, really slowly?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 300884


He married to his husband because he fucked her boyfriend.
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09/20/2012 08:31 AM
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posts like this push me a little more in the direction of goverment provided mandatory temp sterilization till at least age 30 for both sexes
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09/20/2012 08:39 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
You're a fucking loser going through life like a selfish piece of shit fucking with other peoples lives.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23812935


and you are an asshole who doesnt consider people at all. That is not even advice...it is a judgement....that is bullshit because it has nothing to help....just condemnation. You are an idiot. You could lose that mantle by learning to be a councellor.
one with the sun
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09/20/2012 08:44 AM
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I hate you op you are scum
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09/20/2012 08:45 AM
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You need to distance yourself from the ex-boyfriend.

It's like trying to diet while hanging out in a pastry store.

It will never work.
 Quoting: Just A Thought
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09/20/2012 08:50 AM
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Your hubby f*cked your boyfriend?
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spock

Kinky!
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09/20/2012 08:51 AM
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THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE.

NOT

BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR YOU MIGHT GET IT.
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09/20/2012 08:55 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
You just hit the 7 year itch. Your previous boyfriend was not the one for you, you didnt feel the best friend connection that you did with your now husband....hence why you stuck with your best mate. You are placing crap on the now husband of doing your best girlfriend because its a way to explain your disaffection.

You love your children, that much is clear and you dont want to stuff that up BUT....you dont want to stay married.....that is fine...divorce for freedom is fine.

I think that you have forgotten that te world is full of men. You dont have to use your ex as a catalyst for change. In fact...you dont need a man at all to be happy.

Were you ever single? Could you be single with kids? Yes you could and they dont need a replacement father! String it along if you must but divorce doesnt mean having to go for a friend to protect your arse. In fact you should make it your aim to be single.....no exes, just you and the kids and visitation rights...so you can go out and date new people occassionally.

If you toss the hubby and start dating the ex.....you are just going back to square one. You need to find yourself....new spirit that doesnt include old baggage. PS the kids arent baggage....only the men are.
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09/20/2012 09:08 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
Try kind of a Independent Therapy with XTC. (MDMA)

This will open the (last?) Emergency Exit,
when you are unable to safe your Relationship
try something new!

 Quoting: the mighty Atom


Definitely what ^^^this ^^^ guy says. XTC will change your relationship FOREVER. It'll open pathways of love you never dreamed possible. And it might cure you of your narcissism.
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09/20/2012 09:21 AM
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You just hit the 7 year itch. Your previous boyfriend was not the one for you, you didnt feel the best friend connection that you did with your now husband....hence why you stuck with your best mate. You are placing crap on the now husband of doing your best girlfriend because its a way to explain your disaffection.

You love your children, that much is clear and you dont want to stuff that up BUT....you dont want to stay married.....that is fine...divorce for freedom is fine.

I think that you have forgotten that te world is full of men. You dont have to use your ex as a catalyst for change. In fact...you dont need a man at all to be happy.

Were you ever single? Could you be single with kids? Yes you could and they dont need a replacement father! String it along if you must but divorce doesnt mean having to go for a friend to protect your arse. In fact you should make it your aim to be single.....no exes, just you and the kids and visitation rights...so you can go out and date new people occassionally.

If you toss the hubby and start dating the ex.....you are just going back to square one. You need to find yourself....new spirit that doesnt include old baggage. PS the kids arent baggage....only the men are.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13250526


This person obviously does not have kids. When you kick the dad to the curb you mind fuck the kids for life. For what, your petty little fantasies? Those children are people, not dogs. They need a father to grow up healthy just as much as a mom. In your case the dad should get full custody. If your sloppy vagina wants to leave then go. But don't fuck the kids cause you gotta flick your bean. Selfish whores.
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09/20/2012 09:36 AM
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OP maybe this will give you some insight...

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09/20/2012 09:41 AM
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Re: i wish i was not married
peeps on here are assholes

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