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| Conveyor1138 User ID: 1549621 09/20/2012 09:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The synopsis of this relationship is so vague and childish, how can you can you be so selfish when millions of others are going through the same thing, thus why I will not get married until women acquire some sort of higher thinking skills. Last Edited by Conveyor1138 on 09/20/2012 09:57 AM Moving forward. Memories left behind. A new life, a new journey. I've built anew. For mankind... for my kind. The vessel stares back at me. From every angle, the menacing smile latches on. Talking walls speak and spell my life story. My past life. The vessel sleeps beside me... the comfort breath. Morning skin of machines, of humanity's beginnings. Am I God? I've been called worse... drift in and out. This vessel brings me sleep. Hyper Sleep |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 13250526 09/20/2012 10:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You just hit the 7 year itch. Your previous boyfriend was not the one for you, you didnt feel the best friend connection that you did with your now husband....hence why you stuck with your best mate. You are placing crap on the now husband of doing your best girlfriend because its a way to explain your disaffection. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13250526 You love your children, that much is clear and you dont want to stuff that up BUT....you dont want to stay married.....that is fine...divorce for freedom is fine. I think that you have forgotten that te world is full of men. You dont have to use your ex as a catalyst for change. In fact...you dont need a man at all to be happy. Were you ever single? Could you be single with kids? Yes you could and they dont need a replacement father! String it along if you must but divorce doesnt mean having to go for a friend to protect your arse. In fact you should make it your aim to be single.....no exes, just you and the kids and visitation rights...so you can go out and date new people occassionally. If you toss the hubby and start dating the ex.....you are just going back to square one. You need to find yourself....new spirit that doesnt include old baggage. PS the kids arent baggage....only the men are. This person obviously does not have kids. When you kick the dad to the curb you mind fuck the kids for life. For what, your petty little fantasies? Those children are people, not dogs. They need a father to grow up healthy just as much as a mom. In your case the dad should get full custody. If your sloppy vagina wants to leave then go. But don't fuck the kids cause you gotta flick your bean. Selfish whores. Actually you are right in a way. But I do have kids....grown now. I fessed up that I loved someone else and my husband killed himself. I did offer him full custody of the children. He chose to off himself because he couldnt have me. The children...think he didnt love them enough to stay around....which would be sort of correct except he probably wasnt thinking of them when he made his decision. Women fantasies are no different to mens fantasies. I think it comes down to who meets the other fantasy person first. If its the guy...he gets to feel bad and moves on with glee. If its the girl....she bows down and asks for forgiveness and gets kicked in the teeth, even if she moves on its with major guilt...or the man suicides and then she guilts out about that too. No rest for the wicked even if its the guy that causes the pain in the first place. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 13250526 09/20/2012 10:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And btw....what is wrong for people wanting true love? Sometimes we settle for a person before we know what is out there. Men do it, women do it. What is so wonderful about being with a person you dont even like, let alone love....for your whole life? Kids get over shit eventually. They know when parents dont like each other. They know when people are inlove. They prefer parental models actually love each other even if its not the ones they started with pretending to tolerate...... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 19656291 09/20/2012 10:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The synopsis of this relationship is so vague and childish, how can you can you be so selfish when millions of others are going through the same thing, thus why I will not get married until women acquire some sort of higher thinking skills. Quoting: Conveyor1138 So a bachelor for life then? Lot's of good woman in this big O world and each one as different as a snowflake. Don't get into stereotyping females based upon what your braincells know about them. Trust me, most of us know very little about anything. (Not an insult BTW, just a fact.) Keep your heart open and on the lookout for love. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 23773057 09/20/2012 10:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here's the fucking problem, inherent to humans. Like it or not, you are part of the planet. You are, in essence, a part of nature. Now do you see any other species on the planet claiming ownership of another? Rarely. What do male bears do after they mate? They fucking run as fast as they can in the opposite direction. What happens when a female bear tries to bring her offspring around the father bear? The father bear eats them. Do bears pay child support? No. But people have this idea that they are to claim ownership over another. Life gets in the way of sex and communication and that's a problem inherent to most relationsips in that order 1. Communication which is synonymous with 2. Sex. Those are the two big problems. Women, need to be felt like they matter and needed. So, you stupid guys, put in your 15 fucking minutes per day. That's all it takes and you'll be getting more pussy than you can handle. 15 minutes. What do I mean? After the dinner is eaten, kids are in bed, work is down. Sit down with your lady and ask her how her day was and shut the fuck up and listen. 15 minutes. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 24114452 09/20/2012 10:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And btw....what is wrong for people wanting true love? Sometimes we settle for a person before we know what is out there. Men do it, women do it. What is so wonderful about being with a person you dont even like, let alone love....for your whole life? Kids get over shit eventually. They know when parents dont like each other. They know when people are inlove. They prefer parental models actually love each other even if its not the ones they started with pretending to tolerate...... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13250526 The whole point of marriage is to not take it so lightly. To be mature and make a smart choice from the get go. Not just marry some loser on a whim then shit out some kids like you had a long night of drinking. Marriage is for kids. Its not to fulfill some childhood fantasy of a little girl and a white dress only to change your mind a few short years later. Thats a sure sign of being unevolved and narcissistic. And no the kids don't just get over it. Kids are devastated. It consumes their entire childhood and robs them of life. For what? So some homcan have her vagina stretched by a different guy? Thats the epitomy of narcissism. Destroy innocent lives forever to fulfill a sexual or emotional whim. That type of mentality is karmically punishable by eons of cancer and blindness. The universe leaves no stone unturned and no act of cruelty, no matter how ignorant, goes unbalanced. |
| Conveyor1138 User ID: 1549621 09/20/2012 10:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The synopsis of this relationship is so vague and childish, how can you can you be so selfish when millions of others are going through the same thing, thus why I will not get married until women acquire some sort of higher thinking skills. Quoting: Conveyor1138 So a bachelor for life then? Lot's of good woman in this big O world and each one as different as a snowflake. Don't get into stereotyping females based upon what your braincells know about them. Trust me, most of us know very little about anything. (Not an insult BTW, just a fact.) Keep your heart open and on the lookout for love. no you're right, I think when I said women stereotypically grouped like that, I really just meant the women who devote their life to getting a ring on their finger. I believe two loving souls can connect psychically that would surpass any legal binding papers. Moving forward. Memories left behind. A new life, a new journey. I've built anew. For mankind... for my kind. The vessel stares back at me. From every angle, the menacing smile latches on. Talking walls speak and spell my life story. My past life. The vessel sleeps beside me... the comfort breath. Morning skin of machines, of humanity's beginnings. Am I God? I've been called worse... drift in and out. This vessel brings me sleep. Hyper Sleep |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 23743583 09/20/2012 11:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And btw....what is wrong for people wanting true love? Sometimes we settle for a person before we know what is out there. Men do it, women do it. What is so wonderful about being with a person you dont even like, let alone love....for your whole life? Kids get over shit eventually. They know when parents dont like each other. They know when people are inlove. They prefer parental models actually love each other even if its not the ones they started with pretending to tolerate...... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13250526 The whole point of marriage is to not take it so lightly. To be mature and make a smart choice from the get go. Not just marry some loser on a whim then shit out some kids like you had a long night of drinking. Marriage is for kids. Its not to fulfill some childhood fantasy of a little girl and a white dress only to change your mind a few short years later. Thats a sure sign of being unevolved and narcissistic. And no the kids don't just get over it. Kids are devastated. It consumes their entire childhood and robs them of life. For what? So some homcan have her vagina stretched by a different guy? Thats the epitomy of narcissism. Destroy innocent lives forever to fulfill a sexual or emotional whim. That type of mentality is karmically punishable by eons of cancer and blindness. The universe leaves no stone unturned and no act of cruelty, no matter how ignorant, goes unbalanced. ffs who the fuck are you, narcissist!!!!!!!! moron |
| Eimaj User ID: 10601066 09/20/2012 11:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wish i did not marry so young 0R CHOOSE my (now husband) who was my bestfriend over my boyfriend back in those years. I was blinded,confused, and STUPID. Quoting: WHY ME? 10936183 I married the guy, who fucked my bestfriend. Who critisizes me. He "WAS" everything to me, he was sweet, kindhearted and he was what I thought , was the one. I wish i had married my boyfriend instead of my bestfriend. Because now my boyfriend is my bestfriend. So many times I want to kiss him, hug him but im restricted. IM MARRIED!! AND HAVE 2 KIDS. HELP! i am not happy. but i do not want to hurt my children. They are still young. and need us as parents. I HATE MY LIFE. THE END!!! HELP YOURSELF!!! This time I feel lost in a world so cold and lonely. This time I feel broke and if I left no one would even know me ... |