i wish i was not married

Your hubby f*cked your boyfriend?

Then get a divorce and start all over. Simple.

Oh, the drama! And if you had stayed with the boyfriend you would have dumped him long ago and now you'd be with some bad boy who can give you the drama and chaos most women need.

Quit Moaning and deal with it it's all your fault, you got blinded by petty words and now you don't want to be a part of it anymore. You put yourself in this position so stop complaining and die with it.

nice catch AC

You're a fucking loser going through life like a selfish piece of shit fucking with other peoples lives.

What's this? Decisions might have consequences?

Who'da thunk it?



Typical woman. You want what you want and you want it now, consequences be damned.

When you have kids, you give up your life for them or you get in the "scumbag line" - You choose and then your kids live with that choice for the rest of their lives.

Go seek marriage counseling and try to fix your family for your kids.

And for Goodness sake, don't go listening to the people on here telling you to dump your husband. Be aware that this advice has a better than even chance of coming from a mother's basement, from a 30 something, no-family of their own, dysfunctional hermit.

My wife and I have been married for 28 years and have 2 grown kids who are now living on their own.

Marriage is tough but if you brought kids into this world, it's worth fighting to keep it together because it's more than just 2 people involved.

Welcome to the club honey!
I married my husband and I hated my life for a few years but I stuck it
out and we have been happily married for 42 years!
We are very happy and well adjusted. We have 2 wonderful children!
We now have a gorgeous granddaughter now in her first year of college and happy in her dorm. She will be helping children with special needs!
No matter who you marry to make a good marriage it takes time. You would probably feel the same with the other guy.
My husband and I are so close now that I dread the day I lose my husband. I love him and he loves me! (corny but true)

You are unhappy because you are dwelling on something better. You can divorce this husband but the next one might find you in the same situation. You have to work at having a good marriage. This means making your partner happy.

Yeah... real shame.

But the bottom line is you got kids, so cowboy up and deal.

When they're 18 you can ditch the loser and go get some young beefcake.

In the meantime you could always encourage him to fuck off... Ways and means, ways and means, be a bitch, put him down, nag him and deny him sex.

If he leaves then he'll have to cough up dough and he'll be the bad guy who walked on his family.

If you're not ruthless enough to do that then you obviously aren't suffering that much anguish so stfu whiner.

Dear Abby is back!

dear poster

you sound like a self centered immature bitch
you say you are restricted then say you have kids
so you feel restricted because you have kids?
grow up
you spread like peanut butter get knocked up and have the
nerve to only think of yourself
i feel sorry for your kids not you
and yes, you were and still are stupid

Can you please explain your situation again, really slowly?

You need to distance yourself from the ex-boyfriend.

It's like trying to diet while hanging out in a pastry store.

It will never work.

the problem and the solution lie within you. only you can change your perspective. only you can take action. i would suggest you start with having a heart to heart with your husband.

all the married people here should question their partner's commmitment? no!

He married to his husband because he fucked her boyfriend.

posts like this push me a little more in the direction of goverment provided mandatory temp sterilization till at least age 30 for both sexes

and you are an asshole who doesnt consider people at all. That is not even advice...it is a judgement....that is bullshit because it has nothing to help....just condemnation. You are an idiot. You could lose that mantle by learning to be a councellor.

I hate you op you are scum

Kinky!

THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE.

NOT

BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR YOU MIGHT GET IT.

You just hit the 7 year itch. Your previous boyfriend was not the one for you, you didnt feel the best friend connection that you did with your now husband....hence why you stuck with your best mate. You are placing crap on the now husband of doing your best girlfriend because its a way to explain your disaffection.

You love your children, that much is clear and you dont want to stuff that up BUT....you dont want to stay married.....that is fine...divorce for freedom is fine.

I think that you have forgotten that te world is full of men. You dont have to use your ex as a catalyst for change. In fact...you dont need a man at all to be happy.

Were you ever single? Could you be single with kids? Yes you could and they dont need a replacement father! String it along if you must but divorce doesnt mean having to go for a friend to protect your arse. In fact you should make it your aim to be single.....no exes, just you and the kids and visitation rights...so you can go out and date new people occassionally.

If you toss the hubby and start dating the ex.....you are just going back to square one. You need to find yourself....new spirit that doesnt include old baggage. PS the kids arent baggage....only the men are.

Definitely what ^^^this ^^^ guy says. XTC will change your relationship FOREVER. It'll open pathways of love you never dreamed possible. And it might cure you of your narcissism.

This person obviously does not have kids. When you kick the dad to the curb you mind fuck the kids for life. For what, your petty little fantasies? Those children are people, not dogs. They need a father to grow up healthy just as much as a mom. In your case the dad should get full custody. If your sloppy vagina wants to leave then go. But don't fuck the kids cause you gotta flick your bean. Selfish whores.

OP maybe this will give you some insight...

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