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Anonymous Coward User ID: 24340705 Portugal 09/24/2012 09:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I really like a girl, but I have no idea how to talk to her. I end up acting like a complete moron. I'd really like some advice please, TIA. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18236520 Seriously, just go and act like a moron. That's how you are. Are you trying to fool here? No! Act awkwardly if that's how things will go. If she's anything to go for, you might even get lucky by doing that. |
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hcc Deplorable CatRWall User ID: 6493463 United States 09/24/2012 09:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I really like a girl, but I have no idea how to talk to her. I end up acting like a complete moron. I'd really like some advice please, TIA. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18236520 Best way to win a girl's heart is to make her laugh. Preferably not AT you, but sometimes that works. Also important to be humble. Good luck. IT's tough I know. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24371315 United States 09/24/2012 09:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | best way to go about id say send someone over to tell her you wanna talk to her.. now be cool when she decided to come over just start with saying 'hi' and then let her know that you like her and would like to get to know her better.. now be confident and all along know that one day you will be fucking her and look in her eyes and let her know how you feel.. im guessing shell be into you and telling you this i hope shes not out of your league cause then you will have to go about it a whole different way but lets just presume you are a cool lil guy and everybody likes you.. tell her after your done talking and exchanging facebooks and so on to call you and that youd like to hang out or do something sometime.. once you got her to hang out with you in private all il say is at the right time go in with a kiss and that will eventually lead to getting some action.. anyway as you give her your phone number tell her call me when ever id love to hear from you and just be cool and let her be on her way.. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 927602 United States 09/24/2012 09:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Walk up to her, look her straight in the eye ans ask if she has a boyfriend. If she says no, take that as an invitation to ask her out on a date. It doesn't have to be a big deal, coffee or something is fine. Ten bucks tops. If she says no, then blush a bit and tell her that's too bad, for you, but that you respect that, then walk away. If you're interested in her you won't gain by hanging back. If she's already with someone else, it won't help you to act hurt about it either. If you just want to be her friend, then you still need to know that kind of thing. Then promptly chat her up about her school work and social projects, never bringing up the fact that you want to have sex with her. (That's the power route to the "friendzone" If you don't want to go there, don't try to be the girls friend. Which doesn't mean don't be nice, it just means that you can afford to be a little more direct than you probably think will work.) The best thing to do though is to go and make a fool of yourself. Try your hardest and know you;ll probably fail. Eventually you won't care anymore and it will all suddenly come together for you. |
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Psychobilly User ID: 23773057 United States 09/24/2012 09:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Pretend to be something different, females will smell it. Tell her about your dreams, goals and aspirations. Try to find some commonalities between her and you. Keep in mind. Women love to imagine. Only give her so much info and let her fill in the rest. Give her too much and POOF!! Watch her fly away. Think of a romance novel and try to incorporate that mindset into your dialog. But don't be anything but yourself. Unless your an expert sociopath, or an expert with NLP, just be yourself. The only thing that burns in Hell is the part of you that won't let go of life |
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BoboTheHobo User ID: 22607002 United States 09/24/2012 09:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Girls that age are only interested in one thing... themselves. Keep her talking about herself the the whole time and odds are she will walk away thinking you're a great guy. An expert is someone who knows more and more about less and less until eventually they know everything about nothing ~ Anonymous |
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strgzr User ID: 24363408 United States 09/24/2012 09:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | First off be straight forward and respectful. Tell her you like her and would like to get to know her. If she doesn't spit in your face and laugh at you you are half way there. Second if you are looking to just get in her pants spare her the discomfort of your company. Third don't be afraid of looking like a fool, just get used to it. Where women are concerned you will never be anything else. Lastly if you get the chance to get to know her be patient. It's not the first day of a relationship that is important, it's the last. :) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1447583 United States 09/24/2012 09:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Inform her that you lost your number and that you'll be needing hers. Ask her if she's tired and when she wants to know why you ask, let her know that she's been running through your mind all day. Or you could always try the direct approach. "I'm not particularly interesting but I think you look nice and have a good personality and would like to get a chance to know you." |
cebu4u User ID: 24370908 Canada 09/24/2012 09:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I really like a girl, but I have no idea how to talk to her. I end up acting like a complete moron. I'd really like some advice please, TIA. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18236520 I think you've actually received excellent advice so far OP. This is from someone your mom's age with 4 grown kids, who has seen it all. Take a little bit of advice from each post so far.. I would emphasize the advice to listen.. these days everyone has issues. If you want her to know you care.. tell her you care... and then listen. good luck OP. ~kick at the darkness til it bleeds daylight |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 18236520 United States 09/24/2012 09:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I really like a girl, but I have no idea how to talk to her. I end up acting like a complete moron. I'd really like some advice please, TIA. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18236520 I think you've actually received excellent advice so far OP. This is from someone your mom's age with 4 grown kids, who has seen it all. Take a little bit of advice from each post so far.. I would emphasize the advice to listen.. these days everyone has issues. If you want her to know you care.. tell her you care... and then listen. good luck OP. Thank you all, nice to get good answers and not sarcastic asnwers. |