why so judgmental? I admit I'm not interested that much in partying and random gossip and small talk but to each their own. It's never been easier to get some great sex either, all you have to do is work out and be a good listener.... and open minded somewhat and not harsh and critical. Read 'how to win friends and influence people' and the world can be your oyster, as long as you don't get her pregnant.

I must admit I probably sound as if I advocate manipulating people. I do not, but if that's what floats your boat... I advocate tolerance and not thinking you are too 'superior' to the "sheep" because you are not. You trap yourself by thinking you are.