you are right, op
relationships are about control and domination
instead of working together, complementing each other
everything is about power these days
and not understanding each other, loving each other, respecting each other
this starts at home in the most basic relationships and ripples out to all interactions up to political and international relationships

and with media and movements telling people how they should define themselves there isn't a lot of hope
instead people need to do their own soul searching and find out who they are
and live accordingly
without labels and assumptions and the need to judge others
before fixing themselves