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Dr. Acula (OP) Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 54326 United States 09/25/2012 06:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ole Dr. Acula just found out some (personal) World Shattering news. Quoting: Dr. Acula I wont bore you with a tear fest of my own depressing ordeal. I don't feel comfortable with expressing the details of my "news" But I assure you this crippling news I received less than 40 hours ago... still is hard for me to deal with. Its hard for me to find my bearings and continue on. But I shall. I will continue on and pick myself up. I am not much for self pity... and I refuse to drag myself down with such negative ways of thinking. If you are having it hard... or if you ever have... and if you arent going through some bad things right now... You will... in the future... sooner or later... bad shit happens to everyone... Keep this in mind. No matter what happens... no matter how hard it hits you... no matter how much worse you think you got it... You can make it... If I can survive what I just found out... anyone can survive... be brave... be strong! and one foot at a time... take it slow... just live minute by minute... Know how strong you are and that no matter what... you can make it! I made it through that first night... so can you... no matter what is happening! Even though tears may fall, even if those you loved the most have turned on you... even if you feel a oppressing cloud of intolerable grief... know the sun will shine again... maybe not now... maybe not in a week... but eventually the sun will shine... and if you work through your pain and never allow it to drag you down... the sun will shine brighter than ever for you. With much love and highest regards... I wish each and everyone of you the best. -Dr. Acula So Sorry for your pain, you WILL get through this! Thank you :) _______________________ |
Dr. Acula (OP) Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 54326 United States 09/25/2012 06:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ole Dr. Acula just found out some (personal) World Shattering news. Quoting: Dr. Acula I wont bore you with a tear fest of my own depressing ordeal. I don't feel comfortable with expressing the details of my "news" But I assure you this crippling news I received less than 40 hours ago... still is hard for me to deal with. Its hard for me to find my bearings and continue on. But I shall. I will continue on and pick myself up. I am not much for self pity... and I refuse to drag myself down with such negative ways of thinking. If you are having it hard... or if you ever have... and if you arent going through some bad things right now... You will... in the future... sooner or later... bad shit happens to everyone... Keep this in mind. No matter what happens... no matter how hard it hits you... no matter how much worse you think you got it... You can make it... If I can survive what I just found out... anyone can survive... be brave... be strong! and one foot at a time... take it slow... just live minute by minute... Know how strong you are and that no matter what... you can make it! I made it through that first night... so can you... no matter what is happening! Even though tears may fall, even if those you loved the most have turned on you... even if you feel a oppressing cloud of intolerable grief... know the sun will shine again... maybe not now... maybe not in a week... but eventually the sun will shine... and if you work through your pain and never allow it to drag you down... the sun will shine brighter than ever for you. With much love and highest regards... I wish each and everyone of you the best. -Dr. Acula Its so true what you just said, more people should realise that, but they dont. its not easy... I dont have anyone in my life I can talk to right now... well anyone I feel comfortable talking to... I should say... but i'm trying to work things out as logically as I can. Thanks :) Last Edited by Dr. Acula on 09/25/2012 06:04 PM _______________________ |
Dr. Acula (OP) Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 54326 United States 09/25/2012 06:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ole Dr. Acula just found out some (personal) World Shattering news. Quoting: Dr. Acula I wont bore you with a tear fest of my own depressing ordeal. I don't feel comfortable with expressing the details of my "news" But I assure you this crippling news I received less than 40 hours ago... still is hard for me to deal with. Its hard for me to find my bearings and continue on. But I shall. I will continue on and pick myself up. I am not much for self pity... and I refuse to drag myself down with such negative ways of thinking. If you are having it hard... or if you ever have... and if you arent going through some bad things right now... You will... in the future... sooner or later... bad shit happens to everyone... Keep this in mind. No matter what happens... no matter how hard it hits you... no matter how much worse you think you got it... You can make it... If I can survive what I just found out... anyone can survive... be brave... be strong! and one foot at a time... take it slow... just live minute by minute... Know how strong you are and that no matter what... you can make it! I made it through that first night... so can you... no matter what is happening! Even though tears may fall, even if those you loved the most have turned on you... even if you feel a oppressing cloud of intolerable grief... know the sun will shine again... maybe not now... maybe not in a week... but eventually the sun will shine... and if you work through your pain and never allow it to drag you down... the sun will shine brighter than ever for you. With much love and highest regards... I wish each and everyone of you the best. -Dr. Acula I'm going through my own 'world shattering' event too. Although, a few months in, looking back in hind site. I wouldn't change a thing. Things happen for a reason. I'm sorry for your troubles But your post is based on the hope I am betting on. to look back one day and say "Damn glad that happened!" Here's to a reason! i'm not sure yet... what said reason is... but whatever it is... here's to it! _______________________ |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 24144693 United States 09/25/2012 06:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | fuck you, world shattering news my ass, there's no news in here, also "ole" is spanish, you meant to use "ol'".fuck off pleb Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24092654 you think I was talking about the actual world? Thats why I mentioned "personal" in the OP fuck you too! My event did shatter MY world... insignificant to you or anyone else... but MY world came crashing down... you need to fuck off. and i will spell Ole any damned way i please just for a mintue as you were angry at this assWHOLE it took you from your sadness. |
Dr. Acula (OP) Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 54326 United States 09/25/2012 06:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Its been almost 2 hours since I posted the OP. And I can honestly say I feel better... not 100% better. I don't feel half as dead inside as i did. I'm still hurting. but... reading my own OP... seeing the words... knowing the meaning of those words... and realizing I said them... Helped a lot. if your in some bad shit... write out the best advice you can as if you would give it to your closest friend... Then read it your self... I wasnt thinking along those lines when I did the OP. but now I realize how therapeutic doing such is. Cos I think we all know the answers to lifes hardest problems... but we would rather hear those answers from someone else... why not listen to yourself for a change? ALSO!!! The kindness of my GLP brothers and sisters is amazing. I appreciate each and everyone of you for your support in these dark times. It means a LOT! Last Edited by Dr. Acula on 09/25/2012 06:20 PM _______________________ |
Dr. Acula (OP) Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 54326 United States 09/25/2012 06:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | fuck you, world shattering news my ass, there's no news in here, also "ole" is spanish, you meant to use "ol'".fuck off pleb Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24092654 you think I was talking about the actual world? Thats why I mentioned "personal" in the OP fuck you too! My event did shatter MY world... insignificant to you or anyone else... but MY world came crashing down... you need to fuck off. and i will spell Ole any damned way i please just for a mintue as you were angry at this assWHOLE it took you from your sadness. Anger is 10 times more useful than depression lol It is true. I took out a lil vented up stress on that wholeass haha was a nice therapy _______________________ |
womanoftheworld User ID: 24412979 Canada 09/25/2012 07:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sharing joy and sorrow is what we do! It's Truth that sometimes painful experiences set us free! Several years ago I received what I refer to as a major GUT PUNCH and I can tell you the despair was DEEP! What I didn't know at the time was that it would allow me to become the person I was meant to be but was never allowed to be, full of love and joy and hope!! My life is wonderful,full of people who love and support me, I wake up excited each morning to see what the day will bring! I know that something that may be necessry for you sometimes hurts very much!(But only for a while,then you are free to be whomever you want to be!) And you will be happy again, I PROMISE!! loveslife |
Vision Thing User ID: 23462738 United States 09/25/2012 07:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That idea of taking your own advice, like you would give to a best friend, is a good one! Glad you could play it out here on GLP & get some good feedback & sharing too! Best of luck to you! My life got a lot better recently after being pretty grim for a good long stretch. |
Dr. Acula (OP) Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 54326 United States 09/25/2012 10:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That idea of taking your own advice, like you would give to a best friend, is a good one! Glad you could play it out here on GLP & get some good feedback & sharing too! Quoting: Vision Thing Best of luck to you! My life got a lot better recently after being pretty grim for a good long stretch. Thanks! Happy that things are getting better for you! :) _______________________ |
Dr. Acula (OP) Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 54326 United States 09/25/2012 10:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There's nothing anyone can say to take away the pain but it sure does help to know others care and understand. Quoting: womanoftheworld Sharing joy and sorrow is what we do! It's Truth that sometimes painful experiences set us free! Several years ago I received what I refer to as a major GUT PUNCH and I can tell you the despair was DEEP! What I didn't know at the time was that it would allow me to become the person I was meant to be but was never allowed to be, full of love and joy and hope!! My life is wonderful,full of people who love and support me, I wake up excited each morning to see what the day will bring! I know that something that may be necessry for you sometimes hurts very much!(But only for a while,then you are free to be whomever you want to be!) And you will be happy again, I PROMISE!! thanks! Glad things are better for you :) I am anxious to be in a happier time and place, but i know all in due time right? :) _______________________ |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 19510487 United States 11/04/2012 01:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | thanks. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24286305 would like to know more about what you found out. am trying to help someone in a very bad place right now. he's buckling under and going to try and get meds. YIKES. we both hate meds so much it's got to be really bad for him to do this....but it's that or 'jump off the rock.' your welcome. my "event" has to deal with my home life... but i'd rather not get into it. I just wanted people to hear it from someone in a bad place... going through bad things... that it will get better... or else thats the lie I tell myself to get through the day? If your friend needs meds... then wish him well... i am not a fan of meds! but some times people need em. I hope you and yours can work through the situation you are in! :) Neither am I a fan of meds, however, I know two people who feel better when they are on SAM-e. I know two people who felt weirded out and just "not themselves" after two days: I was one of those people who cannot take it for any good reason. |