Battle of the sexes: Are women more socially aggressive? | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 20793638 United States 09/30/2012 09:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They do this because they are sexed up at an early age by television, movies, schools and their parents. Last halloween I had several prepubescent girls dressed up as Hooters girls. This behavior is against the female sexual nature and is artificially induced. Men look at porn.....women do not ( maybe a few out of curiosity). They certainly don't pay for it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9204251 Australia 09/30/2012 09:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They do this because they are sexed up at an early age by television, movies, schools and their parents. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20793638 They feel that having sex is the only thing they can aspire to. And if they are not having sex, they are worthless perhaps. Least, that is what they are trained to think. |
BlondeDramaQueen (OP) User ID: 23843226 Germany 09/30/2012 09:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They do this because they are sexed up at an early age by television, movies, schools and their parents. Last halloween I had several prepubescent girls dressed up as Hooters girls. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20793638 This behavior is against the female sexual nature and is artificially induced. Men look at porn.....women do not ( maybe a few out of curiosity). They certainly don't pay for it. I honestly do look at porn. Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 20793638 United States 09/30/2012 09:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They do this because they are sexed up at an early age by television, movies, schools and their parents. Last halloween I had several prepubescent girls dressed up as Hooters girls. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20793638 This behavior is against the female sexual nature and is artificially induced. Men look at porn.....women do not ( maybe a few out of curiosity). They certainly don't pay for it. I honestly do look at porn. Very sad. |
BlondeDramaQueen (OP) User ID: 23843226 Germany 09/30/2012 09:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They do this because they are sexed up at an early age by television, movies, schools and their parents. Last halloween I had several prepubescent girls dressed up as Hooters girls. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20793638 This behavior is against the female sexual nature and is artificially induced. Men look at porn.....women do not ( maybe a few out of curiosity). They certainly don't pay for it. I honestly do look at porn. Very sad. How is it sad when a women looks at porn but when a man does it, well that's normal behavior? As human beings we have sexual desires. I think it's sad when people are to ashamed to talk about it. Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring. |
~Ocean~ User ID: 14596164 Canada 09/30/2012 09:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think Girls are more aggressive, maybe that's why I always hug out with guys, I'm not interested in competition what so ever. I have always been more on the quiet side. I do love to chat, but I'm not one for arguing or spreading lies etc, that stuff just does not appeal to me at all. Women are jealous creatures and some can't stand it when someone else is getting more attention, or more guys etc, so they then start to play the Evil Card. I wouldn't classify myself as gorgeous, but I think I'm above average, maybe......lol Anyways, I have lost a lot of friendships over girls being jealous of me, and I must say, it's really painful, and maybe that's why I gave up on girls when I was in school, I hated the drama! Now being out of school, things are little different, but I still find myself being judged by women, mostly in the work force. They are just Caddy Bitches! I think it's a self esteem thing too. The less self esteem a girl has, the more of a Bitch they are. There's my little rant for the day! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1342948 United States 09/30/2012 09:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They do this because they are sexed up at an early age by television, movies, schools and their parents. Last halloween I had several prepubescent girls dressed up as Hooters girls. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20793638 This behavior is against the female sexual nature and is artificially induced. Men look at porn.....women do not ( maybe a few out of curiosity). They certainly don't pay for it. I honestly do look at porn. Very sad. How is it sad when a women looks at porn but when a man does it, well that's normal behavior? As human beings we have sexual desires. I think it's sad when people are to ashamed to talk about it. Not only do I find socially aggressive women attractive, but bold honest women are desirable as well. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 23395194 Canada 09/30/2012 09:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think Girls are more aggressive, maybe that's why I always hug out with guys, I'm not interested in competition what so ever. Quoting: ~Ocean~ 14596164 I have always been more on the quiet side. I do love to chat, but I'm not one for arguing or spreading lies etc, that stuff just does not appeal to me at all. Women are jealous creatures and some can't stand it when someone else is getting more attention, or more guys etc, so they then start to play the Evil Card. I wouldn't classify myself as gorgeous, but I think I'm above average, maybe......lol Anyways, I have lost a lot of friendships over girls being jealous of me, and I must say, it's really painful, and maybe that's why I gave up on girls when I was in school, I hated the drama! Now being out of school, things are little different, but I still find myself being judged by women, mostly in the work force. They are just Caddy Bitches! I think it's a self esteem thing too. The less self esteem a girl has, the more of a Bitch they are. There's my little rant for the day! When women are with a group of women, they get along great and have a really good time... But, when they are attracting men, they are fighting with each other... Just an observation!!! |
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dirkdedaring User ID: 19450551 Canada 09/30/2012 09:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | NA met this one girl and she sounded and acted like what she saw on T.V. And "WHAT THE KICKER WAS " It was like a walking, talking Lisa Simpson, (from the Simpsons cartoon) I pointed it out and boy did she get real quiet. And the funny thing was she really loved that show as a young girl and modeled herself after a artists rendition of an feminists wet dream. Watch the cartoons that are out now and a lot of them portray young girls as incredibly brilliant but aggressive as hell and usually the character is white. Graceless and Skeptical as hell!!! "Self discipline gets things done. Making a plan and then sticking to that plan despite our inner weaknesses and apprehensions gives greater returns in the long run. This method not only earns the respect we hold for ourselves, but also the respect others hold for us. The flaky and indecisive cannot be relied upon." " Belief is just a word for something one refuses to study the origins of, or reason out!!! |
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BlondeDramaQueen (OP) User ID: 23843226 Germany 09/30/2012 10:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think Girls are more aggressive, maybe that's why I always hug out with guys, I'm not interested in competition what so ever. Quoting: ~Ocean~ 14596164 I have always been more on the quiet side. I do love to chat, but I'm not one for arguing or spreading lies etc, that stuff just does not appeal to me at all. Women are jealous creatures and some can't stand it when someone else is getting more attention, or more guys etc, so they then start to play the Evil Card. I wouldn't classify myself as gorgeous, but I think I'm above average, maybe......lol Anyways, I have lost a lot of friendships over girls being jealous of me, and I must say, it's really painful, and maybe that's why I gave up on girls when I was in school, I hated the drama! Now being out of school, things are little different, but I still find myself being judged by women, mostly in the work force. They are just Caddy Bitches! I think it's a self esteem thing too. The less self esteem a girl has, the more of a Bitch they are. There's my little rant for the day! When women are with a group of women, they get along great and have a really good time... But, when they are attracting men, they are fighting with each other... Just an observation!!! Ehhhh I have to disagree. I work with ALL women, there's still just as much drama. It's not because they are looking for male attention it's because they are looking for all the attention. They want to look the best to our boss. They will be catty to try to rise to the top. I think when men do get involved women get more catty. They feel as though they have to get the most male attention. Also people say women 'dress' for other women not for men. Which is so untrue. Women dress for men. They want men to look at them, the ones that care anyways. Why have fashion trends became more and more sexy? Because men are controlling the fashion industry. Women like clothes that get them attention. Attention seeking clothes sell. Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 300884 Sweden 09/30/2012 04:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Are women more socially aggressive? Quoting: BlondeDramaQueen I believe women are more aggressive in a social situation. It's a mental aggressiveness not a physical one. I think it's because girls are taught to be critical about each other from adolescence. It's so engrained in our brains from a young age to be the "prettiest" or have the "best body". Samantha Brick, a British journalist, wrote a story titled: ‘There are downsides to looking this pretty’: Why women hate me for being beautiful. ‘ This is what passes for beauty in the UK? [link to www.dailymail.co.uk] |
SmuRidley User ID: 591627 Canada 09/30/2012 04:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | FUCK YEAH. Scenario 1. Man cheats on woman. Scenario 2. Woman cheats on man. In which scenario does all of ones personal belongings get ejected (mostly on fire) onto the front lawn in the middle of the night? |
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BlondeDramaQueen (OP) User ID: 23843226 Germany 09/30/2012 04:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women also complain about their weight. Like they are obssessed with it to an unhealthy degree. All they talk about is weight, food and going toto the gym. These health weight obssessed freaks are mostly women Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24505428 Because men don't like 'bigger' women. Some do but they go around calling us fat and lazy if we have some meat on our bones. Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring. |
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snark Forum Administrator User ID: 1050548 United States 09/30/2012 04:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I get along better with men, and I do think it has something to do with women being jealous. I'm smart and attractive and I run our company...I don't have much time for women's drama. I hate that shit, and I just ended a long-time friendship because her life was so full of drama and I finally had enough of it. Poison. T For Texas, T For Tennessee! The virtue of courage is a prerequisite for the practice of all other virtues, because otherwise one is virtuous only when virtue has no cost. There are times when something needs to be done, and yet we know that if we step up and do this needful thing, we will pay a heavy personal price. -C.S. Lewis |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1926312 Canada 09/30/2012 04:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is so fantastic to work within a group of supportive women. Everyone gets things done on time, and done well. I do think the title of this thread is unfortunate. At first I thought it was another "women hating threads" that are so prevalent on this forum. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24492505 Canada 09/30/2012 05:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My lady is very fiesty, has no problem showing her anger. More of a class act than most women who pretend to be kittens, if you ask me. Men are more violent and do the really stupid crimes but women make things way too complicated for themselves and I can't stand it. Just be yourself. when you're mad...show it. Easy. You and the rest of the world will survive your anger. |
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BlondeDramaQueen (OP) User ID: 23843226 Germany 09/30/2012 05:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Op, you are referrimg to a specific kind of woman. I have almost exclusively with women in non profits, and they are nothing like what you have posted. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1926312 It is so fantastic to work within a group of supportive women. Everyone gets things done on time, and done well. I do think the title of this thread is unfortunate. At first I thought it was another "women hating threads" that are so prevalent on this forum. It's not a 'woman hating thread' it's a type of woman hating thread. Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring. |
snark Forum Administrator User ID: 1050548 United States 09/30/2012 05:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Op, you are referrimg to a specific kind of woman. I have almost exclusively with women in non profits, and they are nothing like what you have posted. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1926312 It is so fantastic to work within a group of supportive women. Everyone gets things done on time, and done well. I do think the title of this thread is unfortunate. At first I thought it was another "women hating threads" that are so prevalent on this forum. It's not a 'woman hating thread' it's a type of woman hating thread. Amen! Exactly- it's a type of woman hating thread. Last Edited by snark on 09/30/2012 05:32 PM T For Texas, T For Tennessee! The virtue of courage is a prerequisite for the practice of all other virtues, because otherwise one is virtuous only when virtue has no cost. There are times when something needs to be done, and yet we know that if we step up and do this needful thing, we will pay a heavy personal price. -C.S. Lewis |
Elzop User ID: 1582303 United States 09/30/2012 05:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The Female of the Species WHEN the Himalayan peasant meets the he-bear in his pride, He shouts to scare the monster, who will often turn aside. But the she-bear thus accosted rends the peasant tooth and nail. For the female of the species is more deadly than the male. When Nag the basking cobra hears the careless foot of man, He will sometimes wriggle sideways and avoid it if he can. But his mate makes no such motion where she camps beside the trail. For the female of the species is more deadly than the male. When the early Jesuit fathers preached to Hurons and Choctaws, They prayed to be delivered from the vengeance of the squaws. 'Twas the women, not the warriors, turned those stark enthusiasts pale. For the female of the species is more deadly than the male. Man's timid heart is bursting with the things he must not say, For the Woman that God gave him isn't his to give away; But when hunter meets with husbands, each confirms the other's tale— The female of the species is more deadly than the male. Man, a bear in most relations—worm and savage otherwise,— Man propounds negotiations, Man accepts the compromise. Very rarely will he squarely push the logic of a fact To its ultimate conclusion in unmitigated act. Fear, or foolishness, impels him, ere he lay the wicked low, To concede some form of trial even to his fiercest foe. Mirth obscene diverts his anger—Doubt and Pity oft perplex Him in dealing with an issue—to the scandal of The Sex! But the Woman that God gave him, every fibre of her frame Proves her launched for one sole issue, armed and engined for the same; And to serve that single issue, lest the generations fail, The female of the species must be deadlier than the male. She who faces Death by torture for each life beneath her breast May not deal in doubt or pity—must not swerve for fact or jest. These be purely male diversions—not in these her honour dwells— She the Other Law we live by, is that Law and nothing else. She can bring no more to living than the powers that make her great As the Mother of the Infant and the Mistress of the Mate. And when Babe and Man are lacking and she strides unclaimed to claim Her right as femme (and baron), her equipment is the same. She is wedded to convictions—in default of grosser ties; Her contentions are her children, Heaven help him who denies!— He will meet no suave discussion, but the instant, white-hot, wild, Wakened female of the species warring as for spouse and child. Unprovoked and awful charges—even so the she-bear fights, Speech that drips, corrodes, and poisons—even so the cobra bites, Scientific vivisection of one nerve till it is raw And the victim writhes in anguish—like the Jesuit with the squaw! So it comes that Man, the coward, when he gathers to confer With his fellow-braves in council, dare not leave a place for her Where, at war with Life and Conscience, he uplifts his erring hands To some God of Abstract Justice—which no woman understands. And Man knows it! Knows, moreover, that the Woman that God gave him Must command but may not govern—shall enthral but not enslave him. And She knows, because She warns him, and Her instincts never fail, That the Female of Her Species is more deadly than the Male. |
Turtles Voice User ID: 15791612 United States 09/30/2012 05:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They do this because they are sexed up at an early age by television, movies, schools and their parents. Last halloween I had several prepubescent girls dressed up as Hooters girls. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20793638 This behavior is against the female sexual nature and is artificially induced. Men look at porn.....women do not ( maybe a few out of curiosity). They certainly don't pay for it. I honestly do look at porn. Very sad. How is it sad when a women looks at porn but when a man does it, well that's normal behavior? As human beings we have sexual desires. I think it's sad when people are to ashamed to talk about it. I think it's sad that folks have to look at porn. Especially married folks, there is something wrong when you need to be stimulated by a big screen before you accept stimulation from your partner. "In order to arrive at what you are not, You must go through the way in which you are not." -TS Eliot [link to www.turtlesvoice.com] Momma Said Write A Book About It - New novel [link to www.amazon.com (secure)] [link to www.facebook.com (secure)] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 22315288 United States 09/30/2012 06:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think the term is actually passive aggressive. aggressive would be in your face, passive is sneaky and backsliding. Womens' character has nothing to do with watching porn or not. That is preposterous. Women do not have an innate honor code like a well adjusted male does. They avoid outright confrontation because the female psyche revolves around this effort to maintain emotional equilibrium at all costs. At least on the surface. The only thing more wretched than a sneaky shit talking bitch is the woman who surrounds herself with guys that she calls friends. They aren't actually friends, they are just guys who tolerate her because there is potential for banging that vagina out. It's why you'll never see a guy who is friends with an unattractive woman unless he is queer. And the woman with male friends is either a failure in life, an unquenchable dumb slut, or she knows full well the male intention and proceeds to live a lie by leading them on. Women do mature faster then men and this may account for some of the problem. I suspect the other half of the problem is that women stop maturing shortly after puberty or during puberty where their brain stops developing white brain matter. Men continue developing brain matter later into life. The halt in brain matter may be an evolutionary trick to allow them to maintain a childlike cuteness through their years. Possibly allowing a more structured relationship with a man. But at the same time keeping them stuck in a juvenile mindset. Good thread though. Interesting topic. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 11698818 Canada 09/30/2012 06:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think the term is actually passive aggressive. aggressive would be in your face, passive is sneaky and backsliding. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22315288 Womens' character has nothing to do with watching porn or not. That is preposterous. Women do not have an innate honor code like a well adjusted male does. They avoid outright confrontation because the female psyche revolves around this effort to maintain emotional equilibrium at all costs. At least on the surface. The only thing more wretched than a sneaky shit talking bitch is the woman who surrounds herself with guys that she calls friends. They aren't actually friends, they are just guys who tolerate her because there is potential for banging that vagina out. It's why you'll never see a guy who is friends with an unattractive woman unless he is queer. And the woman with male friends is either a failure in life, an unquenchable dumb slut, or she knows full well the male intention and proceeds to live a lie by leading them on. Women do mature faster then men and this may account for some of the problem. I suspect the other half of the problem is that women stop maturing shortly after puberty or during puberty where their brain stops developing white brain matter. Men continue developing brain matter later into life. The halt in brain matter may be an evolutionary trick to allow them to maintain a childlike cuteness through their years. Possibly allowing a more structured relationship with a man. But at the same time keeping them stuck in a juvenile mindset. Good thread though. Interesting topic. Could you generalize more? lol I could say that women have an innate compassionate heart, unlike men. Would that be true? You might want to consider re-evaluating your post for its 'innate sexism'. |
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