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i stopped having sex with my fiance

 
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i stopped having sex with my fiance
I met him and he was i think 250# and not hot but we seemed to have a lot of similarities ans he is rather nice and he claimed he has been trying to lose weight.

In the last 4-5 months he stayed ~the same weight and i cant help but be a bit baffled.

My issues: i really think oral is nasty receiving but he can make me cum like that but it is useless. I want to cum on him but i cant because his fat is this huge flab it hangs over and even worse for him the fat making giving him a bj near impossible lest i suffocate.

So i keep trying to tell him to keep track of food intake, etc, and eating certain ways and he sneaks massive amounts of cheese on his carb loaded foods and that is not the best idea for weight loss. I wamt laissez-Faire. I want to have no part in his weight loss. He ignores me and i want him to hire a nutritionist and personal trainer and its just so hard for him to do that. He whines. He whines about veggies. He whines anout how salad makes him gag and he is going to die eating it and he whines about the workouts. Never have i met someone so slow to get it and he ignores me. He cares so much that im skinny and he isnt that he thinks i can just magickally fix him if he ignores me. Last night he asked why i dont give him bjs anymore and without picking on him i explained why. He sarcastically says thanks and proceeds to be grumpy moody. It is too freakin much for me. I cant sleep in the same bed as him. I want a bed! i see a chiro for his weight screwing up my back and he still whines way more about every detail and then asks me "is it ok if i eat xyz" and he should already know x is a carb and y is super bad for him. I want sex daily but cant bring myself to fuck him.

I know im a terrible person for this but i dont date fatties and this is just out of my realm of how to behave to help a person. He zones me out so i am just not important enough but he says i mean the world to him. This shit stinks and i would rather be alone than with someone that is ok with being fat. The other thing, his diet shouldve worked or health issues may be the culprit. He never went to a doc about it which told me he is lying about the diet or about the exercise. I offered to go with him to the gym and he says no and whines about how he doesnt want me to watch him? how the hell am i supposed to help him from the house if he isnt doing any challenging workouts.

This isnt a joke post btw, im literally on the fence about sticking around.
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My issues: i really think oral is nasty receiving but he can make me cum like that but it is useless. I want to cum on him but i cant because his fat is this huge flab it hangs over and even worse for him the fat making giving him a bj near impossible lest i suffocate.


This isnt a joke post btw, im literally on the fence about sticking around.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
I met him and he was i think 250# and not hot but we seemed to have a lot of similarities ans he is rather nice and he claimed he has been trying to lose weight.

In the last 4-5 months he stayed ~the same weight and i cant help but be a bit baffled.

My issues: i really think oral is nasty receiving but he can make me cum like that but it is useless. I want to cum on him but i cant because his fat is this huge flab it hangs over and even worse for him the fat making giving him a bj near impossible lest i suffocate.

So i keep trying to tell him to keep track of food intake, etc, and eating certain ways and he sneaks massive amounts of cheese on his carb loaded foods and that is not the best idea for weight loss. I wamt laissez-Faire. I want to have no part in his weight loss. He ignores me and i want him to hire a nutritionist and personal trainer and its just so hard for him to do that. He whines. He whines about veggies. He whines anout how salad makes him gag and he is going to die eating it and he whines about the workouts. Never have i met someone so slow to get it and he ignores me. He cares so much that im skinny and he isnt that he thinks i can just magickally fix him if he ignores me. Last night he asked why i dont give him bjs anymore and without picking on him i explained why. He sarcastically says thanks and proceeds to be grumpy moody. It is too freakin much for me. I cant sleep in the same bed as him. I want a bed! i see a chiro for his weight screwing up my back and he still whines way more about every detail and then asks me "is it ok if i eat xyz" and he should already know x is a carb and y is super bad for him. I want sex daily but cant bring myself to fuck him.

I know im a terrible person for this but i dont date fatties and this is just out of my realm of how to behave to help a person. He zones me out so i am just not important enough but he says i mean the world to him. This shit stinks and i would rather be alone than with someone that is ok with being fat. The other thing, his diet shouldve worked or health issues may be the culprit. He never went to a doc about it which told me he is lying about the diet or about the exercise. I offered to go with him to the gym and he says no and whines about how he doesnt want me to watch him? how the hell am i supposed to help him from the house if he isnt doing any challenging workouts.

This isnt a joke post btw, im literally on the fence about sticking around.
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I say if you hesitate at alllllllllllllll, you need to take a step back.

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My issues: i really think oral is nasty receiving but he can make me cum like that but it is useless. I want to cum on him but i cant because his fat is this huge flab it hangs over and even worse for him the fat making giving him a bj near impossible lest i suffocate.


This isnt a joke post btw, im literally on the fence about sticking around.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912




Radical honesty is ridiculously entertaining.
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i worded it a bit differently. "Your stomach fat makes it hard to breath" how else can i word that without it being like "if you dont lose weight you will never get a bj again" this isnt revenge, just disgust.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Come to Japan when you have a bit of Money,
no have fat Men (a few)
G.Y.!B.E.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Here's what you do

Every time you feed him, dip a pin in some arsenic. Just the tip. Like .5mm into the liquid arsenic

Do this 3x a week. Change it up with anti-freeze. If you do this slowly, it will be virtually untraceable and in about 9 months, he'll become deathly ill.

Death is the only solution in this case.
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umm, no.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Come to Japan when you have a bit of Money,
no have fat Men (a few)
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Im going out of the country in a few months for five months. I dont want to replace him. Just either be with him or be single.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
KEEP YOUR DEPRESSING MARRIAGE TO YOURSELF!!!
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KEEP YOUR DEPRESSING MARRIAGE TO YOURSELF!!!
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Didn't read that for a while cruise
"The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title."

Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
KEEP YOUR DEPRESSING MARRIAGE TO YOURSELF!!!
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1) Not married for a while yet

2) frustration isnt the same as depressing/depression

3) Any actual advice would be great.
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3) Any actual advice would be great.
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Not much to say. He either looses weight or you leave as it seems. Tell him. His decision.
"The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title."

Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
He is not going to change.
So either learn to love him as he is or leave him now. Otherwise you will end up very unhappy and divorced.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Come to Japan when you have a bit of Money,
no have fat Men (a few)
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I'm betting she's not willing to trade for a skinny guy with a 4 inch dick...
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Here's what you do

Every time you feed him, dip a pin in some arsenic. Just the tip. Like .5mm into the liquid arsenic

Do this 3x a week. Change it up with anti-freeze. If you do this slowly, it will be virtually untraceable and in about 9 months, he'll become deathly ill.

Death is the only solution in this case.
 Quoting: Psychobilly


Couldn't she just break up with him?
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
It seems all women want laissez-Faire. They don't want to tell men how to shape up and get good for them, they want them to be good and share with it.

But honestly, in the end, both will end up sharing, and the rest is just an act. It's about the true potential.

As for cheese master, if he's sneaking cheese, sneak "no-sex" into the situation. Which I think you already have.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Here's what you do

Every time you feed him, dip a pin in some arsenic. Just the tip. Like .5mm into the liquid arsenic

Do this 3x a week. Change it up with anti-freeze. If you do this slowly, it will be virtually untraceable and in about 9 months, he'll become deathly ill.

Death is the only solution in this case.
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Couldn't she just break up with him?
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Why would anyone do something so simple? You have to make things as complicated as possible duh!
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Here's what you do

Every time you feed him, dip a pin in some arsenic. Just the tip. Like .5mm into the liquid arsenic

Do this 3x a week. Change it up with anti-freeze. If you do this slowly, it will be virtually untraceable and in about 9 months, he'll become deathly ill.

Death is the only solution in this case.
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1rof1

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10/02/2012 11:21 AM
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Come to Japan when you have a bit of Money,
no have fat Men (a few)
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I'm betting she's not willing to trade for a skinny guy with a 4 inch dick...
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Diameter?
Welcome to Woodbury.

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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Come to Japan when you have a bit of Money,
no have fat Men (a few)
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I'm betting she's not willing to trade for a skinny guy with a 4 inch dick...
 Quoting: BRIEF


Diameter?
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Tuna can?
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Heterosexual pride!

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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Find out, ask him, decide whether you want to be with the skinny him, whether he is going to be happy and "up to par" like that with you.

Question any requirements or "up to par" ness, but don't write someone off completely.

Understand and weigh the difficulty in getting to the promised land and decide whether you have the time and patience and find out or decide whether he really wants it or is capable of keeping up.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
where do you live op?
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He is not going to change.
So either learn to love him as he is or leave him now. Otherwise you will end up very unhappy and divorced.
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this its kinda like the guy who dates and marries a stripper, then gets pissed off that his wife is a stripper.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
I met him and he was i think 250# and not hot but we seemed to have a lot of similarities ans he is rather nice and he claimed he has been trying to lose weight.

In the last 4-5 months he stayed ~the same weight and i cant help but be a bit baffled.

My issues: i really think oral is nasty receiving but he can make me cum like that but it is useless. I want to cum on him but i cant because his fat is this huge flab it hangs over and even worse for him the fat making giving him a bj near impossible lest i suffocate.

So i keep trying to tell him to keep track of food intake, etc, and eating certain ways and he sneaks massive amounts of cheese on his carb loaded foods and that is not the best idea for weight loss. I wamt laissez-Faire. I want to have no part in his weight loss. He ignores me and i want him to hire a nutritionist and personal trainer and its just so hard for him to do that. He whines. He whines about veggies. He whines anout how salad makes him gag and he is going to die eating it and he whines about the workouts. Never have i met someone so slow to get it and he ignores me. He cares so much that im skinny and he isnt that he thinks i can just magickally fix him if he ignores me. Last night he asked why i dont give him bjs anymore and without picking on him i explained why. He sarcastically says thanks and proceeds to be grumpy moody. It is too freakin much for me. I cant sleep in the same bed as him. I want a bed! i see a chiro for his weight screwing up my back and he still whines way more about every detail and then asks me "is it ok if i eat xyz" and he should already know x is a carb and y is super bad for him. I want sex daily but cant bring myself to fuck him.

I know im a terrible person for this but i dont date fatties and this is just out of my realm of how to behave to help a person. He zones me out so i am just not important enough but he says i mean the world to him. This shit stinks and i would rather be alone than with someone that is ok with being fat. The other thing, his diet shouldve worked or health issues may be the culprit. He never went to a doc about it which told me he is lying about the diet or about the exercise. I offered to go with him to the gym and he says no and whines about how he doesnt want me to watch him? how the hell am i supposed to help him from the house if he isnt doing any challenging workouts.

This isnt a joke post btw, im literally on the fence about sticking around.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


You answered your own question:
"but i dont date fatties and this is just out of my realm of how to behave to help a person."
Honestly though, if it was an issue from the beginning, you shouldn't have started anything. And fuck you for wanting to change someone LOL5a
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
I met him and he was i think 250# and not hot but we seemed to have a lot of similarities ans he is rather nice and he claimed he has been trying to lose weight.

In the last 4-5 months he stayed ~the same weight and i cant help but be a bit baffled.

My issues: i really think oral is nasty receiving but he can make me cum like that but it is useless. I want to cum on him but i cant because his fat is this huge flab it hangs over and even worse for him the fat making giving him a bj near impossible lest i suffocate.

So i keep trying to tell him to keep track of food intake, etc, and eating certain ways and he sneaks massive amounts of cheese on his carb loaded foods and that is not the best idea for weight loss. I wamt laissez-Faire. I want to have no part in his weight loss. He ignores me and i want him to hire a nutritionist and personal trainer and its just so hard for him to do that. He whines. He whines about veggies. He whines anout how salad makes him gag and he is going to die eating it and he whines about the workouts. Never have i met someone so slow to get it and he ignores me. He cares so much that im skinny and he isnt that he thinks i can just magickally fix him if he ignores me. Last night he asked why i dont give him bjs anymore and without picking on him i explained why. He sarcastically says thanks and proceeds to be grumpy moody. It is too freakin much for me. I cant sleep in the same bed as him. I want a bed! i see a chiro for his weight screwing up my back and he still whines way more about every detail and then asks me "is it ok if i eat xyz" and he should already know x is a carb and y is super bad for him. I want sex daily but cant bring myself to fuck him.

I know im a terrible person for this but i dont date fatties and this is just out of my realm of how to behave to help a person. He zones me out so i am just not important enough but he says i mean the world to him. This shit stinks and i would rather be alone than with someone that is ok with being fat. The other thing, his diet shouldve worked or health issues may be the culprit. He never went to a doc about it which told me he is lying about the diet or about the exercise. I offered to go with him to the gym and he says no and whines about how he doesnt want me to watch him? how the hell am i supposed to help him from the house if he isnt doing any challenging workouts.

This isnt a joke post btw, im literally on the fence about sticking around.
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I say if you hesitate at alllllllllllllll, you need to take a step back.

my 0.02
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More hotties on GLP....awesome.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
It seems all women want laissez-Faire. They don't want to tell men how to shape up and get good for them, they want them to be good and share with it.

But honestly, in the end, both will end up sharing, and the rest is just an act. It's about the true potential.

As for cheese master, if he's sneaking cheese, sneak "no-sex" into the situation. Which I think you already have.
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Well i tell him what he needs to do but damnit does he whine like a bitch. It is all so difficult for him to nut up and eat healthier. There were some pretty bad arguments we had toward the beginning and still a few here and there now about how he has this entitlement mindset (entitled to cheeseburgers) etc. He thinks if he is strict on his diet he can sucker me into going out to eat where he can eat whatever he wants (within reason because i actually have dietary restrictions, so he is stuck going to restaurants i can eat at) but that doesnt mean uber healthy food.

I havent asked to go out to eat in a while now and actually told him success is the only factor in us going out to eat.

I cant babysit him, nor does he want that, but he wants me to help him lose weight and then whines about what i tell him. He knows i wont stick around if he doesnt lose weight. At least he shouldve gone to a doc by now to get his blood sugar checked And kidney function checked and thats at a minimum.

I cant help him because he ignores me.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Do him and yourself a favor and break up.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Come to Japan when you have a bit of Money,
no have fat Men (a few)
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I'm betting she's not willing to trade for a skinny guy with a 4 inch dick...
 Quoting: BRIEF


Diameter?
 Quoting: The Governor


Tuna can?
 Quoting: BRIEF


Cheese wheel?
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
It seems all women want laissez-Faire. They don't want to tell men how to shape up and get good for them, they want them to be good and share with it.

But honestly, in the end, both will end up sharing, and the rest is just an act. It's about the true potential.

As for cheese master, if he's sneaking cheese, sneak "no-sex" into the situation. Which I think you already have.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20931983


Well i tell him what he needs to do but damnit does he whine like a bitch. It is all so difficult for him to nut up and eat healthier. There were some pretty bad arguments we had toward the beginning and still a few here and there now about how he has this entitlement mindset (entitled to cheeseburgers) etc. He thinks if he is strict on his diet he can sucker me into going out to eat where he can eat whatever he wants (within reason because i actually have dietary restrictions, so he is stuck going to restaurants i can eat at) but that doesnt mean uber healthy food.

I havent asked to go out to eat in a while now and actually told him success is the only factor in us going out to eat.

I cant babysit him, nor does he want that, but he wants me to help him lose weight and then whines about what i tell him. He knows i wont stick around if he doesnt lose weight. At least he shouldve gone to a doc by now to get his blood sugar checked And kidney function checked and thats at a minimum.

I cant help him because he ignores me.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


That's because you bitch too much...
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Heterosexual pride!

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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
The perfect relationship:


His: I hope she never changes.

Hers: let's change this & this and that and this...


Advice - move on.
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Do him and yourself a favor and break up.
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he ignores me when i say that too.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Read your title.. you stopped having sex with your fiance.

If you go through it.. we will have a thread "I never have sex with my husband".

Then what are you going to do?
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