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i stopped having sex with my fiance

 
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10/02/2012 11:37 AM
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
The perfect relationship:


His: I hope she never changes.

Hers: let's change this & this and that and this...


Advice - move on.
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Nah, he said when we started dating that he is trying to lose weight. so either he lied, because im not trying to help him do something he never said he was trying to do, or he has a health issue. Im not trying to change anything he hadnt already been trying to change (or so he said)
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10/02/2012 11:39 AM
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Do him and yourself a favor and break up.
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he ignores me when i say that too.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


Take some advice from NiKE and "just do it". You don't need his permission and acknowledgement to break up. Just say you are breaking up and walk away.
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10/02/2012 11:40 AM
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Read your title.. you stopped having sex with your fiance.

If you go through it.. we will have a thread "I never have sex with my husband".

Then what are you going to do?
 Quoting: Agent Tray


id just resurrect this thread. He knows i wont marry him until he thins out. So there would be some sex if we did get married, unless he gained it back overnight.
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10/02/2012 11:45 AM
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Op, he needs to go on a healthy eating plan. No processed food or drink. They contain chemicals that are addicting and make you fat.

That includes standard cheese and bread.

Tell him to see a good sports/weight loss doctor that understands nutrition.
The weight will come off fast.

All the processed crap is addicting and designed to cause fatty liver. So it is hard without the proper supplements.

The weight loss doctor should know how to do this. Mine did.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
The perfect relationship:


His: I hope she never changes.

Hers: let's change this & this and that and this...


Advice - move on.
 Quoting: Lemon


Nah, he said when we started dating that he is trying to lose weight. so either he lied, because im not trying to help him do something he never said he was trying to do, or he has a health issue. Im not trying to change anything he hadnt already been trying to change (or so he said)
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Have him try Paleo. Eat all you want, but only meat & greens (No Carbs). (theres more to it than my sentance, google if you / he want).
**I'm all out of bubblegum
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
If it is this bad now.. it will only be a disaster if you continue..unless he has lots of money lol...

Fat ass needs a heartbreak to motivate him..

If you marry him like he is, he will weigh 350 within 10 years... and you will get board of pleasuring yourself.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Op, he needs to go on a healthy eating plan. No processed food or drink. They contain chemicals that are addicting and make you fat.

That includes standard cheese and bread.

Tell him to see a good sports/weight loss doctor that understands nutrition.
The weight will come off fast.

All the processed crap is addicting and designed to cause fatty liver. So it is hard without the proper supplements.

The weight loss doctor should know how to do this. Mine did.
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He claims it is too expensive, but yes ive told him all of this and about the paleo diet (homo optimus diet is the most spelled out version of paleo) and ive told him the chemicals are bad in processed foods but if he is forced to eat more veggies, thatd be the end of the world for him.
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Leave him and find someone you don't have to change.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
I met him and he was i think 250# and not hot but we seemed to have a lot of similarities ans he is rather nice and he claimed he has been trying to lose weight.

In the last 4-5 months he stayed ~the same weight and i cant help but be a bit baffled.

My issues: i really think oral is nasty receiving but he can make me cum like that but it is useless. I want to cum on him but i cant because his fat is this huge flab it hangs over and even worse for him the fat making giving him a bj near impossible lest i suffocate.

So i keep trying to tell him to keep track of food intake, etc, and eating certain ways and he sneaks massive amounts of cheese on his carb loaded foods and that is not the best idea for weight loss. I wamt laissez-Faire. I want to have no part in his weight loss. He ignores me and i want him to hire a nutritionist and personal trainer and its just so hard for him to do that. He whines. He whines about veggies. He whines anout how salad makes him gag and he is going to die eating it and he whines about the workouts. Never have i met someone so slow to get it and he ignores me. He cares so much that im skinny and he isnt that he thinks i can just magickally fix him if he ignores me. Last night he asked why i dont give him bjs anymore and without picking on him i explained why. He sarcastically says thanks and proceeds to be grumpy moody. It is too freakin much for me. I cant sleep in the same bed as him. I want a bed! i see a chiro for his weight screwing up my back and he still whines way more about every detail and then asks me "is it ok if i eat xyz" and he should already know x is a carb and y is super bad for him. I want sex daily but cant bring myself to fuck him.

I know im a terrible person for this but i dont date fatties and this is just out of my realm of how to behave to help a person. He zones me out so i am just not important enough but he says i mean the world to him. This shit stinks and i would rather be alone than with someone that is ok with being fat. The other thing, his diet shouldve worked or health issues may be the culprit. He never went to a doc about it which told me he is lying about the diet or about the exercise. I offered to go with him to the gym and he says no and whines about how he doesnt want me to watch him? how the hell am i supposed to help him from the house if he isnt doing any challenging workouts.

This isnt a joke post btw, im literally on the fence about sticking around.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


Hun,
The very fact that you felt strongly enough about this to ask GLP for relationship advice, shows that you are already considering leaving this man. If you are not happy leave, he sounds like a fat pussy anyways, always bitching and whining, and that excuse about gagging on salad, thats fucking ridiculous, leave him to his fate, and find a nice guy.
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I met him and he was i think 250# and not hot but we seemed to have a lot of similarities ans he is rather nice and he claimed he has been trying to lose weight.

In the last 4-5 months he stayed ~the same weight and i cant help but be a bit baffled.

My issues: i really think oral is nasty receiving but he can make me cum like that but it is useless. I want to cum on him but i cant because his fat is this huge flab it hangs over and even worse for him the fat making giving him a bj near impossible lest i suffocate.

So i keep trying to tell him to keep track of food intake, etc, and eating certain ways and he sneaks massive amounts of cheese on his carb loaded foods and that is not the best idea for weight loss. I wamt laissez-Faire. I want to have no part in his weight loss. He ignores me and i want him to hire a nutritionist and personal trainer and its just so hard for him to do that. He whines. He whines about veggies. He whines anout how salad makes him gag and he is going to die eating it and he whines about the workouts. Never have i met someone so slow to get it and he ignores me. He cares so much that im skinny and he isnt that he thinks i can just magickally fix him if he ignores me. Last night he asked why i dont give him bjs anymore and without picking on him i explained why. He sarcastically says thanks and proceeds to be grumpy moody. It is too freakin much for me. I cant sleep in the same bed as him. I want a bed! i see a chiro for his weight screwing up my back and he still whines way more about every detail and then asks me "is it ok if i eat xyz" and he should already know x is a carb and y is super bad for him. I want sex daily but cant bring myself to fuck him.

I know im a terrible person for this but i dont date fatties and this is just out of my realm of how to behave to help a person. He zones me out so i am just not important enough but he says i mean the world to him. This shit stinks and i would rather be alone than with someone that is ok with being fat. The other thing, his diet shouldve worked or health issues may be the culprit. He never went to a doc about it which told me he is lying about the diet or about the exercise. I offered to go with him to the gym and he says no and whines about how he doesnt want me to watch him? how the hell am i supposed to help him from the house if he isnt doing any challenging workouts.

This isnt a joke post btw, im literally on the fence about sticking around.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


Hun,
The very fact that you felt strongly enough about this to ask GLP for relationship advice, shows that you are already considering leaving this man. If you are not happy leave, he sounds like a fat pussy anyways, always bitching and whining, and that excuse about gagging on salad, thats fucking ridiculous, leave him to his fate, and find a nice guy.
 Quoting: Korrosive


To add to this, I weigh 220, im 6'2", I work hard to stay fit, I do it for my wife, yes, but mostly I do it for myself, this man seems depressed and he probly needs someone to push him, but if you nag, then he will probly just push you farther away. But i still stick to my original advice column above churchlady
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10/02/2012 12:19 PM

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Leave him and find someone you don't have to change.
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Yeah, like a tattooed drug user...get rid of that fat slob!






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10/02/2012 12:21 PM
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Read your title.. you stopped having sex with your fiance.

If you go through it.. we will have a thread "I never have sex with my husband".

Then what are you going to do?
 Quoting: Agent Tray


id just resurrect this thread. He knows i wont marry him until he thins out. So there would be some sex if we did get married, unless he gained it back overnight.
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OP, you get a special award for Most Fucked Up Use of GLP.

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Leave him and find someone you don't have to change.
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Yeah, like a tattooed drug user...get rid of that fat slob!






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Those guys make awesome lampshades.
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10/02/2012 12:28 PM
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Postpone the wedding. Tell him he has six months to drop 70 pounds or you'll leave him.

You will be saving his life. True love hurts sometimes.
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10/02/2012 12:31 PM
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Read your title.. you stopped having sex with your fiance.

If you go through it.. we will have a thread "I never have sex with my husband".

Then what are you going to do?
 Quoting: Agent Tray


id just resurrect this thread. He knows i wont marry him until he thins out. So there would be some sex if we did get married, unless he gained it back overnight.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


OP, you get a special award for Most Fucked Up Use of GLP.

clappa
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Aww, gee thanks mr. The Governor! i always wanted to win this award. *Takes a bow*
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Postpone the wedding. Tell him he has six months to drop 70 pounds or you'll leave him.

You will be saving his life. True love hurts sometimes.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24807126


im going to be out of the country for 5 months, and he says im going to be shocked at how skinny he is when i get home. I have my doubts but thank goodness i wont have to deal with him like this for too long.

He doesnt have to be 170 but 185 would be realistic. i dont need him to be stick skinny. Ive dated pudgy guys but a beer gut bigger than my ass is a bit over the top.
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Another troll thread. They all have the same sperm icon...

Last Edited by ANHEDONIC on 10/02/2012 12:51 PM

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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Already plotting out the justification for cheating on the poor fat guy while she is overseas...

All women do this shit.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Join the process with him, make it a couples thing- work out together, eat better together, embark on a journey together- perhaps its difficult for him to do it on his own in your circumstances whatever they may be. offer support and love rather than judgement and hate.
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Already plotting out the justification for cheating on the poor fat guy while she is overseas...

All women do this shit.
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I dont cheat, i masturbate. There is no justifying cheating. If i wanted sex that bad id fuck him or id leave him. Im not 18 dude.
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OP either lace up running shoes tomorrow am and go running with him or...

Make him a sandwich and STFU!
For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring. -Carl Sagan.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Join the process with him, make it a couples thing- work out together, eat better together, embark on a journey together- perhaps its difficult for him to do it on his own in your circumstances whatever they may be. offer support and love rather than judgement and hate.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16131912


I offered to go to the gym with him. He used to be all for it but the last month now he doesnt want me going with him which gets me all suspicious.
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OP either lace up running shoes tomorrow am and go running with him or...

Make him a sandwich and STFU!
 Quoting: Saltyflats


He has always been afraid to go running with me. I needed a military base id and now i can get one and he doesnt want me going to the gym on base with him or anything. Shut down what help he expects me to pull out of a magic hat. If i cant be there in the gym he needs a personal trainer but omg that would be sooooo expensive. When im stateside after my volunteer trip he better watch out. Ill have my bills paid and ill hire a personal trainer my damned self.
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Already plotting out the justification for cheating on the poor fat guy while she is overseas...

All women do this shit.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1953737


I dont cheat, i masturbate. There is no justifying cheating. If i wanted sex that bad id fuck him or id leave him. Im not 18 dude.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


Right, I can hear the conversation upon your return now. "I wouldn't have had to gangbang those 18 Japanese business men if only you'd lost 20 pounds."

Of course it will ALL be his fault.

I've heard conniving shit like this before. If you two stick together and end up having a child, I hope he rides your post pregnancy ass hard about getting back to an ideal weight. Bet then he will be an insensitive prick huh.
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OP either lace up running shoes tomorrow am and go running with him or...

Make him a sandwich and STFU!
 Quoting: Saltyflats


I do make his dinner and plan all other meals but theres this table at his work full of donuts and coffee cakes and sweet treats. I cant babysit him at his job.

The flip side of that coin is he thinks starving himself will help him lose weight and ignores when i tell him not to do that.
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I cant help him because he ignores me.
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That's because you bitch too much...
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Already plotting out the justification for cheating on the poor fat guy while she is overseas...

All women do this shit.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1953737


I dont cheat, i masturbate. There is no justifying cheating. If i wanted sex that bad id fuck him or id leave him. Im not 18 dude.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


Right, I can hear the conversation upon your return now. "I wouldn't have had to gangbang those 18 Japanese business men if only you'd lost 20 pounds."

Of course it will ALL be his fault.

I've heard conniving shit like this before. If you two stick together and end up having a child, I hope he rides your post pregnancy ass hard about getting back to an ideal weight. Bet then he will be an insensitive prick huh.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1953737


O.o O'rly?
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Re: i stopped having sex with my fiance
Already plotting out the justification for cheating on the poor fat guy while she is overseas...

All women do this shit.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1953737


I dont cheat, i masturbate. There is no justifying cheating. If i wanted sex that bad id fuck him or id leave him. Im not 18 dude.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


Right, I can hear the conversation upon your return now. "I wouldn't have had to gangbang those 18 Japanese business men if only you'd lost 20 pounds."

Of course it will ALL be his fault.

I've heard conniving shit like this before. If you two stick together and end up having a child, I hope he rides your post pregnancy ass hard about getting back to an ideal weight. Bet then he will be an insensitive prick huh.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1953737


O.o O'rly?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


I have never been "fat" and barring gestational diabetes, intend to keep it that way.
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OP please post a picture of yourself.
For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring. -Carl Sagan.
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3) Any actual advice would be great.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912


Not much to say. He either looses weight or you leave as it seems. Tell him. His decision.
 Quoting: Face Palmer


Not fair FACEPALMER.

How come women are advised to talk to their man directly about their weight, but us men have to resort to dastardly tactics like asking your friends or mother to talk to you.

Not fair, if a guy asks his wife or girlfriend to lose weight, we get a fucking fork stuck in our forehead. WTF?

I wish some woman famous would come out and just call American women out : you are too fucking fat, and your man is gonna leave you if you continue to look like a potato.

Women are supposed to have an hour glass figure, not a PEAR shape for God's sake!!!

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