How do I tell my husband that I'm pregnant with another man's baby?

You're such a piece of shit...dirty slut

That's not a good scenario. He'd have a right to feel betrayed and that will lead to an angry response from him.

Still, unless abortion is an option, you have to deal with the subject.

So do it.

Yes, you'll probably lose your children. It will be hard to argue that you deserve them given this.

But you can't hide it and trying will make it all even worse.

How do you do it? I'd suggest that you pick a place that won't be to private OR open, because you do not want to shame the man in public. Doing that could lead to some very bad reactions and yes, they'd be your fault.

Once that's in place, say the words and get ready for a storm. It's one of your own making, so you kind of have to weather it.

Being pregnant isn't your problem, how are you gonna explain the babies swarthy complexion & unibrow?

You'd be nuts to tell your husband ANYTHING.

Telling him could easily make him want to seek a divorce. Even if you DO stay together, telling him could make your husband love the child less.

Is that fair to your husband or your child?

Wait until you deliver the baby, then tell him when he falls in love with that little newborn, tear his heart out.

WTF do you think?!?!?! TELL MIN IMMEDIATELLY lest you further your whore status.

Why, why, why, do you come here of all places, to ask such an important question. You know you are going to get called nasty names and get horrible advice. Have you ever thought about discussing this with a counsellor who would give you sound advice?

dude, that's awesome
"...lest you further your whore status."

sometimes I think christianity and judaism are worshipping Satin. satin,Archon,jehova,yaweh, are all the same person I think.

to save your soul, convert to another major religion that worships a different God.

your soul is all that matters. yours and your husbands.

Well how much love is the mother showing by playing this silly game, using the child as a pawn?.

Like I said, if I were the husband I would assert my LEGAL claim to the child.

Be the man.

That is the last thing the pervs want, is to loose the child to the REAL PTB, the husband.

Game over.

You don't. Get rid of it and keep your mouth and legs shut.

tear who's heart out? The husband's or the child's?

But we all know you mean BOTH.

Refer to "husband wants to fart in my mouth" post.

Tell him Jesus impregnated you.

- Sara

send him a text

By putting a bullet in your forehead you fucking slut.

Well, that is quite a pickle. I would probably assume he would not understand at all. I would advise separating from him. Tell him you don't think things are working out. move to another city, but if he wants to maintain phone contact, go ahead. After you have the baby, find out if he accepts the baby or not by phone of course, and if he wants to get back together. well there you go. Do not put yourself in danger by breaking the news to him now. Separate and move away. Think about it awhile, let us know what you decide to do.

From some place far away...

Don't listen to the baby killer. Babies are precious gifts, regardless of our own mistakes we make. Please don't consider abortion an option.

you sound like my ex wife... She just told me .

Go for it , but you husband might be more crazy then me.
First thought in a mans mind when he hears that kind of news is " I should Kill The bitch" ... Really.

True story.. so just be careful.

wow your creative...and soo bad...I like that.:)

For one, you have broken one of the Lords biggest commandments. Expect the next phases of you're life to become severely difficult. Do not abort the child, if you do you're simply a murderer. The only way its going to fix is if you Pray to our Father Jesus and ask for forgiveness or suffer a grieving future. This is not a opinion. It's a promise. Just wait. May the Lord Jesus forgive you. I will pray for you too.

HAHAHA MARRIAGE!

CLASSIC

but on another note..

your fucked..

proof of infidelity..
he gets the kids, the car, the house..

you get to squeeze out another strain on society, and hope to god some other guy is going to want your used high mileage ass.. cuz you know that dude who busted nut is NOT going to stick around.

Tell him you are the new Mary, impregnated by the supreme being.

Dear (his name)

I aint in luv wiff you no mo
so now I am a big ole ho
it's time to level you dog
I slept wiff a dude wiff a big ole hog
I just want to tell you wasup
that now I am knocked up

Baby, I fucked you in the ass hole!! no way in hell that you are pregnant with my child.

She's better off just asking for the clothes on her children's backs band nothing more. She deserves nothing

By telephone.... Preferably long distance.

You slut.

Spare him the agony. Don't tell him shit. Move out now and start a new life.
Good luck.

So you talk for all men, do you?. Happened to me and the relationship was definately dead as is the OPS. I had the sudden urge to laugh,, but I smiled and said it was all right. Shit happens. I left soon after. There was no kids in my case, big difference.

But for the OP you seem to have a desire to stay in the relationship for the kids sake? Risky biz, that. Now that you have crossed the rubicon, are you considering going with the other guy? It seems to me you should humble yourself and let your husband have the kids and start over again with your new guy. It would be a good peace offering to your husband to concede him the kids, and then you would have a good start to negotiate visits and or custody and vacations with yoru children. But please, dont take the advice of "witches" who suggest screwing him even more...

Good luck.