When you only see the bad side of others, not only do you attract it but it is magnified in you
"Science has discovered the movement of waves in space. But thoughts, feelings and actions also produce waves that spread. It follows from this that there is a kind of magnetic connection between humans, and if you are forever thinking about other people’s faults and talking about them and harbouring bad feelings about them, you begin to resemble them. Why, yes, when you only see the bad side of others, not only do you attract it but it is magnified in you. If you do not wish to see a particular character trait or behaviour you dislike in others appear in you, do not dwell on it. Or else, the day will come when you will do the same as they do, and even worse. Think instead about their good qualities, and one day you will discover you are beginning to take those on, too."