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I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."

 
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10/04/2012 01:11 AM
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Kangol

i would not have made an issue if she had not complimented me on my hat. The compliment plus "bigboy" remark alerted me.


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You tell me what the big deal is Op? Maybe you are making the issue about her when it's you. does that make sense to you?
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What kind of hat was this anyway?
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baseball?
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10/04/2012 01:18 AM

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what sounds tasty?
sounds tasty
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10/04/2012 01:19 AM

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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
no, the one that looks like a golf hat.

Kangol

i would not have made an issue if she had not complimented me on my hat. The compliment plus "bigboy" remark alerted me.


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What kind of hat was this anyway?
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baseball?
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Anonymous Coward
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10/04/2012 01:21 AM
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no, the one that looks like a golf hat.

Kangol

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What kind of hat was this anyway?
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baseball?
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Well, she may have been just pulling your leg on that.
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10/04/2012 01:23 AM

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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
she was sincere with the compliment. And I thanked her. She went out of her way to tell me how she liked it.


no, the one that looks like a golf hat.

Kangol

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baseball?
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Well, she may have been just pulling your leg on that.
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10/04/2012 01:24 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
she was sincere with the compliment. And I thanked her. She went out of her way to tell me how she liked it.


no, the one that looks like a golf hat.

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baseball?
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Well, she may have been just pulling your leg on that.
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What do you mean out of her way?
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10/04/2012 01:25 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
she was sincere with the compliment. And I thanked her. She went out of her way to tell me how she liked it.


no, the one that looks like a golf hat.

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baseball?
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Well, she may have been just pulling your leg on that.
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Look.
What do you think she meant by all this?
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10/04/2012 01:26 AM

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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
when she made the compliment she made sure I heard it. Also, she goes out of her way to greet me. If she sees me down the hall she will come to me to greet me.

she was sincere with the compliment. And I thanked her. She went out of her way to tell me how she liked it.


no, the one that looks like a golf hat.

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Well, she may have been just pulling your leg on that.
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What do you mean out of her way?
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10/04/2012 01:26 AM
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You should all vote for the one that gets lucky with you, collect some notes in a hat in the classroom.
Next month is lucky number day
Good luck
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10/04/2012 01:27 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
when she made the compliment she made sure I heard it. Also, she goes out of her way to greet me. If she sees me down the hall she will come to me to greet me.

she was sincere with the compliment. And I thanked her. She went out of her way to tell me how she liked it.


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Well, she may have been just pulling your leg on that.
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What do you mean out of her way?
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How does that make you feel?
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10/04/2012 01:28 AM

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i felt she was flirting but i was unsure. I felt it could be my ego telling me she was, and that is why I posted it here, to confirm or reject the ego's message.



she was sincere with the compliment. And I thanked her. She went out of her way to tell me how she liked it.


no, the one that looks like a golf hat.

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Well, she may have been just pulling your leg on that.
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Look.
What do you think she meant by all this?
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i wont lie, it felt good.
when she made the compliment she made sure I heard it. Also, she goes out of her way to greet me. If she sees me down the hall she will come to me to greet me.

she was sincere with the compliment. And I thanked her. She went out of her way to tell me how she liked it.


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What do you mean out of her way?
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How does that make you feel?
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10/04/2012 01:34 AM
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i felt she was flirting but i was unsure. I felt it could be my ego telling me she was, and that is why I posted it here, to confirm or reject the ego's message.



she was sincere with the compliment. And I thanked her. She went out of her way to tell me how she liked it.


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Well, she may have been just pulling your leg on that.
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Look.
What do you think she meant by all this?
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I can't imagine that she would be acting that way without you contributing something that allow's her to feel free to do it with you.. you know transference...
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10/04/2012 01:37 AM
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i wont lie, it felt good.
when she made the compliment she made sure I heard it. Also, she goes out of her way to greet me. If she sees me down the hall she will come to me to greet me.

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What do you mean out of her way?
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How does that make you feel?
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Of course it felt good.. but you know what you have to do..
It won't work, and it wouldn't end well.
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if i did reciprocate it, it was psychic and unconscious. I conduct myself with the utmost professionalism. I do not flirt with any of the students. I do not behave in an untoward manner with any student.


i felt she was flirting but i was unsure. I felt it could be my ego telling me she was, and that is why I posted it here, to confirm or reject the ego's message.



she was sincere with the compliment. And I thanked her. She went out of her way to tell me how she liked it.


...

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Look.
What do you think she meant by all this?
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I can't imagine that she would be acting that way without you contributing something that allow's her to feel free to do it with you.. you know transference...
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i know.

i wont lie, it felt good.
when she made the compliment she made sure I heard it. Also, she goes out of her way to greet me. If she sees me down the hall she will come to me to greet me.

...

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How does that make you feel?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24468669

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Of course it felt good.. but you know what you have to do..
It won't work, and it wouldn't end well.
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10/04/2012 01:54 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
if i did reciprocate it, it was psychic and unconscious. I conduct myself with the utmost professionalism. I do not flirt with any of the students. I do not behave in an untoward manner with any student.


i felt she was flirting but i was unsure. I felt it could be my ego telling me she was, and that is why I posted it here, to confirm or reject the ego's message.



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Look.
What do you think she meant by all this?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24714913

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I can't imagine that she would be acting that way without you contributing something that allow's her to feel free to do it with you.. you know transference...
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Well, I wish you the best, remember this: those were same kinds of things (excuses)that my therapist told the licensing board (and himself) when I reported him for unprofessional conduct. He torn my already devasted life apart after my husband died, instead of helping me, he helped his ego. So I guess that I'm kind of protective about vulnerable people in general.

Be careful and conscious.
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10/04/2012 02:09 AM
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Nevermind. Im sorry. Shouldnt have involved myself.

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10/04/2012 02:25 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
Dude, she's attracted to you. However, if you're not as pumped up as you claim you are from working out, and if you're only average looking, and if your dick size is average, than the chick must be hard up if she really wants to get into your pants. Or she desperately needs to get a good grade in your class and is trying to grease you up.
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10/04/2012 02:51 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
She was clowning on you. Just like when someone calls you einstein when you say something stupid.
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Saying "all right Big Boy" is the same as saying "alright Smarty Pants. It means the same...got it?
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These posters already gave you the answer. Why are you ignoring them?
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10/04/2012 02:52 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
big boy is fat usually

fat body

or fat penis
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10/04/2012 02:55 AM
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Calm down, Ted Mosby.
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10/04/2012 02:57 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
She was clowning on you. Just like when someone calls you einstein when you say something stupid.
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Saying "all right Big Boy" is the same as saying "alright Smarty Pants. It means the same...got it?
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These posters already gave you the answer. Why are you ignoring them?
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He's ignoring them because he's being polite. Neither of these answers applies in the U.S. In the states, this girl is either flirting, or giving him a backhanded compliment.

The best post I've seen so far referenced a male student calling a female instructor "sweetheart." It really is a great example of what's going on here.

Either she's flirting with you in an off-the-charts inappropriate way, or she's deliberately being disrespectful. You were there, and whichever of these options is correct should be obvious. Not sure how anyone could confuse the two.
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10/04/2012 02:58 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
Could it have something to do with the way you fill out your slacks/jeans?

Is she seeing a bulge that's impressive? Sounds to me like she's either referring to your "fit/muscular" body or your cock and balls, or both. It's an oblique reference to be sure. But show her the least bit of attention and she's going to be taking those pants off you and finding out for herself!

Generally I'd warn you not to fuck the students - but this happens so often in colleges today that it's almost a rite of passage for young women to have a "fling" with an older professor... or two. It's almost considered part of his Job Description.
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
By the way, if you really do have 7% bodyfat, then you're super fit. Throw in the "authority" thing, and there's no doubt in my mind that some young girl with daddy issues is going to want to throw her panties at you. I once knew a girl that age who preferred guys from thirty to forty five (though her caveat was that at forty-five, they'd better be fit). She said it was nice to date "grown men" who didn't "need to be trained." She was referencing both public and private performances.

If you're NOT superfit, then she might still be flirting with you, but, dollars to doughnuts, isn't doing it for your non-hot bod. In the latter case, she's probably just some poor kid who didn't get enough attention from daddy, and needs you chasing her so she can feel better about herself.

Avoid the first situation (but be flattered). Run like hell from the second. That second one needs to scare the shit out of you.
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10/04/2012 09:57 AM

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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
it is possible, my musculature bulges out of my shirt, especially.

Could it have something to do with the way you fill out your slacks/jeans?

Is she seeing a bulge that's impressive? Sounds to me like she's either referring to your "fit/muscular" body or your cock and balls, or both. It's an oblique reference to be sure. But show her the least bit of attention and she's going to be taking those pants off you and finding out for herself!

Generally I'd warn you not to fuck the students - but this happens so often in colleges today that it's almost a rite of passage for young women to have a "fling" with an older professor... or two. It's almost considered part of his Job Description.
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10/04/2012 10:05 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
It means you should go and fuck the shit out of her and make her moan like the slut she is!

rockon
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do you have any morals?

It means you should go and fuck the shit out of her and make her moan like the slut she is!

rockon
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10/04/2012 10:24 AM

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Saying "all right Big Boy" is the same as saying "alright Smarty Pants. It means the same...got it?
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And she is flirting....
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10/04/2012 10:52 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
OP....I'm getting a very strong "ick" factor from your posts. I think you know exactly what she meant and you are wanting either subtle approval from us that it's OK to act on it or you are just making it up so that you can brag about your level of "fitness."

Anyway. I have learned to never ignore the "ick factor" and you are reeking of it.

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