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I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."

 
BZB (OP)

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10/04/2012 11:00 AM

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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
i am not sure what you mean by ick factor. elaborate please.


OP....I'm getting a very strong "ick" factor from your posts. I think you know exactly what she meant and you are wanting either subtle approval from us that it's OK to act on it or you are just making it up so that you can brag about your level of "fitness."

Anyway. I have learned to never ignore the "ick factor" and you are reeking of it.
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10/04/2012 11:02 AM
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"ick" means icky....something not right, off, as in tingling spidy senses. It's an alert from the intuitive part of the mind or self that just knows this is not OK.
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10/04/2012 11:38 AM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
the cashier at the 7/11 called me sweety.
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Do you think it's because you made her vagina quiv?
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Or because she was rubbing her muff to you?
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10/04/2012 01:20 PM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
Why did she call me that?
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Because she's an asshole. Listen, nip this in the bud. The next time this smart ass bitch says anything to you like that call her out on it as unacceptable. Shit like this needs to be stopped before it gets out of control, which it will once she gets comfortable. Draw the line in the sand if you like your job.
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10/04/2012 01:26 PM

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Use your instincts.

That's all.
everything in its right place
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10/04/2012 01:49 PM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
I didn't read this whole thread. But back in the day I taught undergraduate courses when I was in grad school. I had one female student who was always very friendly with me--even borderline flirtatious. She had an accident that required her to miss a week of class. A couple of weeks after she came back, she stayed behind one day. She came up to me and asked me if I really wanted to know why she had missed class. It turned out she swallowed something that needed to be removed immediately. The doctors made a small incision in her chest to access her stomach to get the thing out. After explaining this, she said, "Check out my scar!" She pulled her shirt up and flashed me. She was wearing a bra, but still. It's the only time one of my students ever flashed me. And she was seriously 19-year-old undergrad hot. But, even then, I was a married man. I took no further action. But I don't think comments like "Big boy" are made for nothing.
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10/04/2012 02:23 PM
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"ick" means icky....something not right, off, as in tingling spidy senses. It's an alert from the intuitive part of the mind or self that just knows this is not OK.
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For sure
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10/04/2012 02:34 PM

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Why did she call me that?
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insecure much
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10/04/2012 02:36 PM
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unethical and would cost me my job.

Shes legal fakkit
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as an "instructor" (I note you did not say "professor") I assume you make what, like $18K. Fuck it. And then fuck her. I swear, you have to lead a horse to water apparently. When I was in college there was a professor who routinely dated his female students. Nothing ever happened to him, except maybe getting some ass.
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10/04/2012 02:40 PM
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Why did she call me that?
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Because she's an asshole. Listen, nip this in the bud. The next time this smart ass bitch says anything to you like that call her out on it as unacceptable. Shit like this needs to be stopped before it gets out of control, which it will once she gets comfortable. Draw the line in the sand if you like your job.
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There's a middle ground here dude. She MAY have been being a little mouthy bitch, but she also MAY have been throwing it at him. Without witnessing the transaction, who can say? Obviously the OP doesn't know what the hell is going on in front of him.

OP should ask her to stay after class next time and just straight up ask her what she meant by her comment. If she was being a bitch, she'll be defensive and/or bitchy. If she was coming on to him, that should also be obvious as she'll be coy, she might smile, or she might just come out and ask him to bang her like a Salvation Army drum.
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10/04/2012 03:14 PM

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Why did she call me that?
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Kick her out of class. If you lose control of the class, they will walk all over you, and noone learns anything. I never let a student speak to me like that.

Big boy.
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10/04/2012 03:16 PM

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Why did she call me that?
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Because she's an asshole. Listen, nip this in the bud. The next time this smart ass bitch says anything to you like that call her out on it as unacceptable. Shit like this needs to be stopped before it gets out of control, which it will once she gets comfortable. Draw the line in the sand if you like your job.
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There's a middle ground here dude. She MAY have been being a little mouthy bitch, but she also MAY have been throwing it at him. Without witnessing the transaction, who can say? Obviously the OP doesn't know what the hell is going on in front of him.

OP should ask her to stay after class next time and just straight up ask her what she meant by her comment. If she was being a bitch, she'll be defensive and/or bitchy. If she was coming on to him, that should also be obvious as she'll be coy, she might smile, or she might just come out and ask him to bang her like a Salvation Army drum.
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No, staying after class. No compromise. PERIOD.

Kick her ass out of the class in front of the whole class. Make an example of her. Demand respect.
Who is John Galt?
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10/04/2012 03:29 PM

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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
She thinks you look like the dude from Outkast....


Big Boi

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10/04/2012 03:41 PM

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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
Whenever I feel students are undermining my authority I usually & indirectly threaten their grade. For the most part, it works.

Why did she call me that?
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Kick her out of class. If you lose control of the class, they will walk all over you, and noone learns anything. I never let a student speak to me like that.

Big boy.
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BZB (OP)

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10/04/2012 03:41 PM

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LMAO! not big boi! big boy lol

She thinks you look like the dude from Outkast....


Big Boi
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10/04/2012 03:43 PM

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that would be a little too harsh seeing as it was a one time incident.

Why did she call me that?
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Because she's an asshole. Listen, nip this in the bud. The next time this smart ass bitch says anything to you like that call her out on it as unacceptable. Shit like this needs to be stopped before it gets out of control, which it will once she gets comfortable. Draw the line in the sand if you like your job.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2116087


There's a middle ground here dude. She MAY have been being a little mouthy bitch, but she also MAY have been throwing it at him. Without witnessing the transaction, who can say? Obviously the OP doesn't know what the hell is going on in front of him.

OP should ask her to stay after class next time and just straight up ask her what she meant by her comment. If she was being a bitch, she'll be defensive and/or bitchy. If she was coming on to him, that should also be obvious as she'll be coy, she might smile, or she might just come out and ask him to bang her like a Salvation Army drum.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23777758


No, staying after class. No compromise. PERIOD.

Kick her ass out of the class in front of the whole class. Make an example of her. Demand respect.
 Quoting: Renegade (Me too)
BZB (OP)

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10/04/2012 03:44 PM

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lol!!! adjuncting aint lucrative whatsoever.

unethical and would cost me my job.

Shes legal fakkit
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as an "instructor" (I note you did not say "professor") I assume you make what, like $18K. Fuck it. And then fuck her. I swear, you have to lead a horse to water apparently. When I was in college there was a professor who routinely dated his female students. Nothing ever happened to him, except maybe getting some ass.
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10/04/2012 03:47 PM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
As a professor for over 15 years I can attest to the fact that many many young women have had crushes on me. Flirting with profs is very common.

It is of course the great irony of my position that if I were ever act on any of these advances that I would be fired, never be able to get a job teaching ever again, and lose the very thing that makes me attractive to young women.
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10/04/2012 03:57 PM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
It's called "Sarcasm" and it is our common language second only to English. Something you should be proficient in by now. However depending upon the context, she could be hitting on you. (she said to tell you..."You wish").
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10/04/2012 04:05 PM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
She wants a baby. Bigboy is a breeder term, it's not that she want's sex. She wants a family by sex.
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10/04/2012 04:10 PM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
Why did she call me that?
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Oh come on, after reading your comments, I can see that you are a middle age lonely dude trying to put your issues on to this young student. Most likely she thinks that you're a nerd and feels sorry for you.
That's kind of sick you paying so much attention to a teen ager. Can't you find any women your age to date?
Besides, I doubt that you really are a teacher, you wouldn't be coming to GLP for advice unless you are hiding something.
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10/04/2012 04:17 PM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
Exactly......another feels the "ick" factor as well.
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10/04/2012 04:49 PM
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Exactly......another feels the "ick" factor as well.
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I feel it too. I also think he has grown 'attached' maybe - in other words he is in too deep into his own after hours fantasies of which she is now the centre charater and he is getting off on this 'problem' he has created - and now this thread is feeding his massive ego.

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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
Exactly......another feels the "ick" factor as well.
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Yes, I do feel it.. I think most women will 'get it' after reading his remarks.
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10/04/2012 04:58 PM
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Exactly......another feels the "ick" factor as well.
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I feel it too. I also think he has grown 'attached' maybe - in other words he is in too deep into his own after hours fantasies of which she is now the centre charater and he is getting off on this 'problem' he has created - and now this thread is feeding his massive ego.
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Well said...
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10/04/2012 05:01 PM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
Why did she call me that?
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Oh come on, after reading your comments, I can see that you are a middle age lonely dude trying to put your issues on to this young student. Most likely she thinks that you're a nerd and feels sorry for you.
That's kind of sick you paying so much attention to a teen ager. Can't you find any women your age to date?
Besides, I doubt that you really are a teacher, you wouldn't be coming to GLP for advice unless you are hiding something.
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YES! Yes! Yes!
arty uk

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10/04/2012 05:20 PM
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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
To those who feel the icky factor - the answer could be in OP's recent thread Thread: To the Wise GLP participants, I ask the following...

Hmmm ......
BZB (OP)

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10/04/2012 05:37 PM

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lol! you guys are something. Waaay off base, waaaay off base.
Exactly......another feels the "ick" factor as well.
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I feel it too. I also think he has grown 'attached' maybe - in other words he is in too deep into his own after hours fantasies of which she is now the centre charater and he is getting off on this 'problem' he has created - and now this thread is feeding his massive ego.
 Quoting: arty uk
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10/04/2012 05:37 PM

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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
lol!!!! i am so regretting posting this shit now. The last thing I need is a fucking GLP psychiatrist lol!


To those who feel the icky factor - the answer could be in OP's recent thread Thread: To the Wise GLP participants, I ask the following...

Hmmm ......
 Quoting: arty uk


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Re: I am a male instructor at a college and one of my female students called me "big boy."
I believe that we have an icky attention seeker here. Probably harmless. Nevertheless my motto is never ever over-ride the ick factor.