OP, you're not going to find yourself in a successful relationship with a woman until you learn how to tell women like that to shove it. In my opinion, the louder and more confidantly you can tell her to shove it, the better off you will be.

Your issue is your own self-confidence. Until you find that confidencwe, avoid women like this like the plague. Friendship? Fuck that! Avoid. Avoid. Avoid.