I get the hand washing of clothes, I do this with my work uniforms(they fall apart if machine washed too often), but get them professionally cleaned and pressed every month. Oxyclean works like a charm getting the deoderant, sweat and makeup off the uniform (its navy blue). And of course I handwash pantyhose, bras, and anything else delicate and never dry these items.

The no toilet paper thing has me scratching my head. She won't spend money on something she throws away, but after she washes herself she uses paper towels to dry off? So she's still throwing away dirty paper towels when she's done. And if she shits, she is going through soap too, so she is actually using more products this way than just wiping with toilet paper.

This sounds like an OCD issue to me. Mental illness is rampant now that our bodies aren't working as hard as they did 100 years ago. This lack depending on physical labor to feed and house ourselves leaves our brains unbalanced. Hence the exponential rise in mental illnesses and the plethora of pharmaceuticals attempting to correct them. Just my personal theory.