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marriage and money ? need help please, married peeps

 
Sirpipsalot
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10/06/2012 11:58 PM
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If you do not cheat on her, beat her, pay all the bills
and have a steady job............???? If you answered in the affirmative Dump the Bitch
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10/07/2012 12:02 AM
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my wifes mom came into some money , had a family gathering, she gave each of her kids an envelope each contained 4000 dollars , i asked my wife for 400 for a crossbow , and a bit for survival food stuff...


well she says its hers not mine, weve been married for 12 yrs... im worreid what what will happen if i die will all the money left over be HERS and none go to my kids ...


im hurt , or am i just being greedy... i thought when you got married you became one in ALL respects....


The envelopes containg the money only had her kids name on it...


when i got my inheritence i opaid off her house...

ya know i asked to BORROW the money like id pay her in three cks postdated , she didnt evenm go for that...


like i said im devasataed or IS SHE RIGHT to do this...


im just fkn crushed!!!! i feel like this is the gamechanger ....
OR AM I WRONG ...please help with your opinion
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15323087




Are you sure she's objecting to giving you any money, or may be just objecting to what you want to do with the money?

Crossbow and survival gear???

Stop obsessing about things you can't change and the future. A crossbow and survival gear isn't going to make any difference if doom comes. Just enjoy your life.

You should take a trip with your wife with the money, or put in a hot tub or something.
watcher6342

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10/07/2012 12:04 AM

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if your bills are caught up. start using your own money to buy your own survival supplies. if the SHTF you may want to go it solo, because she will hinder any forward progress made by you. if you have kids, make sure they are supplied too. but leave her ass out. start showing your kids survival methods and make sure they can follow directions. seems like wife and mother in law are in it for themselves. fuck them. there will be plenty of strange to replace her with.
this place is my home, my mind still runs free, the DR's prescription, less for you and more for me.
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10/07/2012 12:06 AM

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survival is a game changer. she will ride your jock to save her. bump her down the food chain.
this place is my home, my mind still runs free, the DR's prescription, less for you and more for me.
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survival is a game changer. she will ride your jock to save her. bump her down the food chain.
this place is my home, my mind still runs free, the DR's prescription, less for you and more for me.
Anonymous Coward
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10/07/2012 12:11 AM
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Marriage: "What's mine is ours. What's hers is hers."
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10/07/2012 12:12 AM
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The love of money is the root of all evil.

Married people are supposed to share their resources.
It sounds like you have a problem op.

It sounds like you are loosing your oneness with the wife.
Pull her aside and calmly tell her how she hurt you.
See if you can work it out. If she really loves you she will
be sad that she hurt you and take steps to fix it.

Communication is the Key to a good relationship.
Tell the truth, be sincere. see what happens.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18847658


I can relate to this first hand.

I inherited some money, and it all went to paying taxes.

She came into some money on a settlement, and it was trips for the family, and things for the daughter, and trips, and even though I benefited at times from the windfall, had absolutely no say in how it was spent.

Then came into some more money, and it all went towards the business, and medical trips for her.

Now she wants me to buy a new car that I feel is too expensive, and have spent the last few days being the bad guy because I asked if she was paying for it out of her account.

I love her, want to provide for her, but like everyone here says, I want it to be a team effort, and I know she sees us struggling, but I have been scraping for each and every bill lately, and the credit cards have been rising.
Anonymous Coward
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10/07/2012 12:14 AM
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Sorry, OP, that sounds more like an "arrangement" than a marriage. A true marriage is all for one, one for all. Of course she should share her windfall! As you should with her. What, if one of you buys a Lotto ticket out of "Your" salary, that person is the one who has say over the money? Ridiculous! Same concept. (Now if it was $100 in birthday money that's a little different, she should spend it on herself)

Anyway, where is she putting the money -- doesn't it end up in the joint checking account? You really need to have a talk with her and see if this is a marriage or not!!!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1183343


BABOOOMMMM!!!!!



NAIL ON THE HEAD ALERT.


I've been married for 2 years. this is my philosophy.

When I hit hard times, and unemployment, my parents in law helped me and my wife. When we were in trouble, my parents helped us too.


I pay the bills, but my wife will buy me something if I really need it..we share. Sharing is caring.


You're not being greedy. That's not asking for much...
Anonymous Coward
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10/07/2012 12:18 AM
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all women do this, its called being conceited. the trick is to cut off as much as you can from her that you pay for. an iphone bill or something and bammo shes back in the kitchen.
Anonymous Coward
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10/07/2012 12:19 AM
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OP = pussy-whipped.

Grow a pair.
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10/07/2012 12:21 AM
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Your predicament, OP, is only one of many reasons why I utterly fear marriage.
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10/07/2012 12:22 AM
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if your bills are caught up. start using your own money to buy your own survival supplies. if the SHTF you may want to go it solo, because she will hinder any forward progress made by you. if you have kids, make sure they are supplied too. but leave her ass out. start showing your kids survival methods and make sure they can follow directions. seems like wife and mother in law are in it for themselves. fuck them. there will be plenty of strange to replace her with.
 Quoting: watcher6342


^^^^^
THIS.
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10/07/2012 12:22 AM
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Wait until she falls asleep, then slit her throat.
Anonymous Coward
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10/07/2012 12:24 AM
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Depends on your state law. Here, the inheritance is separate property. Your paying off the mortgage with yours may be considered comingling of separate and joint property.
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It will be thats why unless his name is on that house..he is screwed..will never get his money back.
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Wait until she falls asleep, then slit her throat.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1447583


Nice try, fucking troll.

That's not even funny if you're kidding.

You're weak.
Anonymous Coward
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10/07/2012 12:25 AM
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Re: marriage and money ? need help please, married peeps
my wifes mom came into some money , had a family gathering, she gave each of her kids an envelope each contained 4000 dollars , i asked my wife for 400 for a crossbow , and a bit for survival food stuff...


well she says its hers not mine, weve been married for 12 yrs... im worreid what what will happen if i die will all the money left over be HERS and none go to my kids ...


im hurt , or am i just being greedy... i thought when you got married you became one in ALL respects....


The envelopes containg the money only had her kids name on it...


when i got my inheritence i opaid off her house...

ya know i asked to BORROW the money like id pay her in three cks postdated , she didnt evenm go for that...


like i said im devasataed or IS SHE RIGHT to do this...


im just fkn crushed!!!! i feel like this is the gamechanger ....


OR AM I WRONG ...please help with your opinion
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15323087


Is this a second marriage?

You said you are afraid that if you die your money will not go to your kids. Simple solution, make out a will! Your kids will get what you want them to have.

If you are fighting over money (400 bucks) your have bigger problems than what you are presenting here.

Most married guys know how women think..What is mine is mine, and what is yours is mine! LOL

Is this the first time in her life she has money that she can call her own? If so, Let her have a little fun, its no big deal. Not a life changer....

If you love her....Just love her ..and get over it.

Remember, It's all just material things that you can't take with you when your time on this earth is done.

If you have love, trust and respect in your marriage, that is something that money can not buy. If you don't...then you are married to the wrong woman and it might be time to move on.

Good Luck OP.

hf
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10/07/2012 12:29 AM
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Wait until she falls asleep, then slit her throat.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1447583


cruise
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Wait until she falls asleep, then slit her throat.
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cruise
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10/07/2012 12:44 AM
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oh yeah sshe makes 2000 a month last yr she said the money sha makes is HERS..... shes bailed her kid out to the tune of a few thou... hes been in an out of jail etc etc



how can i find out if shes squirrlin away money shes made 24 thou so far this yr and i see only 900 in her cking acct and savings...



thanks for your replys.... i was thiking i was righ to feel all fd up... but when this thing happens thi slate in the game you dont want reality to be what it is osmetimes...lov ya
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15323087


She has a drug habit or is having affiars, but when there is the first, there is usually both going on at the same time.
David Fap

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10/07/2012 12:44 AM
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Maybe she just doesn't want to waste money on a stupid fucking crossbow..
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10/07/2012 12:50 AM
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i asked my wife for 400 for a crossbow , and a bit for survival food stuff...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15323087


I almost spit my muffin all over my PC when I read this.

You sir are a bum, should take a shower clean your ass up and get a job at McDonalds.

What's wrong with all you people on here seriously.
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10/07/2012 12:51 AM
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Maybe she just doesn't want to waste money on a stupid fucking crossbow..
 Quoting: David Fap


QFT
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10/07/2012 12:55 AM
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For OP and all men in general. If you have children from any previous relationships do the right thing and get a will done and itemize everything you want your kids to have!!

I have seen too many steps do wrong once their spouse dies. You think that loving woman wouldn't ever do that to your kids tho right? WRONG Death brings out the worst in people. And for some reason it seems like it's the step moms that are the worst perpetrators against the step kids upon dads death.

Just do a search about step parents, there are sites out there that cater to step parents to whine and rant about their evil step kids. You want truth go to those sites.

Whatever you do get a will made and itemize what each kid gets as far as money and personal effects. Make sure everyone knows who the lawyer is and where the copies are.


BTW the fact that when you came into money and paid for her house with it and now is acting this way.... totally wrong.
Two years ago I hit for a royal flush on the ultimate texas holdem table. The money I won was OURS. Although I did stipulate 500 was to be set aside for my daughters prom, but still the money was ours.
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10/07/2012 09:55 AM
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all women do this, its called being conceited. the trick is to cut off as much as you can from her that you pay for. an iphone bill or something and bammo shes back in the kitchen.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18851393


Don't lump us all into one category. There's real women then there are girls who never really grew up to learn how to live in the real world. And honestly.. men can be the same way. I've met plenty of men who needed to cut the umbilical cord already.
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Wait until she falls asleep, then slit her throat.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1447583


Worked for you before, didn't it? What would your Parole Officer say if he knew you said that? You are a pathetic piece of shit, and you need to go BACK to prison.
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