my wifes mom came into some money , had a family gathering, she gave each of her kids an envelope each contained 4000 dollars , i asked my wife for 400 for a crossbow , and a bit for survival food stuff...
well she says its hers not mine, weve been married for 12 yrs... im worreid what what will happen if i die will all the money left over be HERS and none go to my kids ...
im hurt , or am i just being greedy... i thought when you got married you became one in ALL respects....
The envelopes containg the money only had her kids name on it...
when i got my inheritence i opaid off her house...
ya know i asked to BORROW the money like id pay her in three cks postdated , she didnt evenm go for that...
like i said im devasataed or IS SHE RIGHT to do this...
im just fkn crushed!!!! i feel like this is the gamechanger ....
OR AM I WRONG ...please help with your opinion
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15323087 Okay, relax. Her money, your money.
Inheritance will bring about some very strange reactions.
Try my situation, not 4K but 400K--actually more like 2 millinon.
It changes everything.
BTW, if your wife loves you....give it time.
Best to get your own crossbow...knowing it will not make a dent in your combined estate.
It is a speedbump, test....you are fortunate.
Most likely she is overwealmed with the winfall...
Give it time.
If you are truly wondering about 4K...then realize you have the problem not her.
