The only reason this is being discussed is because the poor guy got caught, then you probably trampled him crippled with downright atrocious questions. Like a fucking interegation.

He went nuts, told u a bunch of guy talk in a helpless emotional enviorment you have created. When all this poor man wanted to do is get rid of a headache!

Meanwhile minding his own business in a shower! Its called privacy, not controlled "open" relationship, where each of you bend over for each other walking on eggshells ReALlY!

Let the man be a MAN! Sheeesh!