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If a man keeps turning down sex...

 
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
Means hes lost interest and may be getting it elsewhere.. I thought this was common knowledge?
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
he's goin gay
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
got bored with you. not attracted anymore
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^^^ This
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
aw my goodness, i firmly believe that not having sex at least every second day is grounds for divorce. i can go one day without making love to my man,(if i have to) the next day if i don't get mine, i get very nervous and jumpy, and have trouble sleeping.
 Quoting: eve incognito 25176502


My wife is the same way - and I find it hard to sleep without it anymore. The last 4 years it's been my sleeping pill 4-5 times a week (sometimes more). Oddly though - she gets totally energized while I get entirely sedated. I guess we are now "sex addicts" - but with each other so it's all good here. FYI - we're both pushing 50 and it's never been better - not even in way back in my teens.
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well, that is so nice to hear. a happy couple pushing 50 into each other and enjoying life!you go guys, i'm so happy to hear good news!
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
...because he says he's too tired, yet he still "does it" to Internet porn, could he REALLY be too tired?? Or could there be another logical reason? Or is he just cheating? I know, I'm beating a dead horse here (see my prior posts) but I would just like to hear from the guys out there. Could there be a logical excuse??
 Quoting: Kristina


Dear lady, I'll say it bluntly, he's clearly cheating on you. Tired but jacking off to porn, BS. He has another woman this is why he's "tired". Even if he's not cheating (and it's a remote possibility) he doesn't find you attractive anymore so he's now on the market searching for a new mate.
Would you like to be a victim? Just dump his ass immediately, it's full of men out there.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25267769



YOU should not jump to conclusions that he's cheating.

Most likely, sex with OP has become either too routine, or even a CHORE.

Does OP show any ENTHUSIASM for sex ?

Does OP take an HOUR to come, even with LOADS of stimulation ?

Is it WORK for him, instead of fun ?
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well, that is so nice to hear. a happy couple pushing 50 into each other and enjoying life!you go guys, i'm so happy to hear good news!
 Quoting: eve incognito 25176502


Huh? You are surprised 40-50 year olds still knock nasties. lol

Damn, what are you 20?

My Ma is almost 70 and still takes on all worthy comers. ahahahaha.

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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
Sorry, posted by accident. You do not need to do JACKSHIT but move on to a man who knows how AND WHY to keep a woman sexually satisfied. It is his job; he is not doing it. Time for the pink slip.
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The above was written by a femi-Nazi no doubt.

Some women ALWAYS blame the man.
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
may I just throw in some other ideas "why not" ?

- STD
- too much wanking and therefore either really to tired or just too used to his hand
- he is getting old. at 52, not all can perform as they did some years ago any more when they are with a woman.
- midlife crisis, thinking that most part of his life is over and all those thoughts that come with that and can be depressing
- propecia or other drugs to prevent hair loss
- prescription drugs for epileptics or depression
the last two points have less interest/ability in making love ..maybe that´s why he is only able to wank off to porn

from personal experience:
- one was falling in love with another woman and therefore had no more interest in me
- one was sexually abused as child by his own mother and had issues with normal intercourse, only could get off when wanking to real harcore pron;
- one was really physically hard working in different shifts every week on a chemical plant and therefore just really too tired - and it did not become better when i asked him for more as it stressed him out even more
- some others had so many things going on in their lifes (which they didn´t chat about as girls normally do, as they are men)that they just lost interest for some time. when they had solved their problems on their own, as men do, everything was back to normal again.

none of them was cheating, I know that for sure.
(the ones cheating never lost their sexual appetite,btw
)

i could go on and on why a man can´t or doesn´t want to proof he is a man.

just don´t forget he is a human being with feelings and issues and so on, too. not just a piece of meat.
let go for a while, concentrade on other things.

and may i ask, did anything else change? do you still kiss as you used to, hold hands, say nice words?
if not, why? start it again, see how he reacts.

when it does not go back to normal on its own and everything else is ok, talk to him. but in a friendly way.
 Quoting: phoenixe


You contradict yourself here.
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
...because he says he's too tired, yet he still "does it" to Internet porn, could he REALLY be too tired?? Or could there be another logical reason? Or is he just cheating? I know, I'm beating a dead horse here (see my prior posts) but I would just like to hear from the guys out there. Could there be a logical excuse??
 Quoting: Kristina


You should of laid down the law about porn when you first met.Now its too late.You've let internet whores spoil him.
I let my man know from day 1,NO PORN. And he respects that and never looks at it.My man is ALL MINE!
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Not to mention what you don't know what hurt you! :)
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If your refering to my relationship.I KNOW what my man is doing at all times.I know without a shadow of a doubt he has never cheated on me.
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
hi
i thought i might try change the tone.
i went off sex and started only watching porn my now wife but at the time was a new partner so shouldn't have a problem with anything at that stage.
it had been happening a while but when i was single its not noticable. but i wasn't quite feeling strong if you know what i mean and to get around things i was running away from a demanding sex life to something quick and with no potential embarrassment. turns out my thyroid was playing up an my body wasn't getting its correct hormonal balance so i wasn't ill but just constantly under the weather shall we say. so it can be a simple impulse that he is more secure with porn.

if the guys a shit he is a shit but if you think in general you want to be with him you need a good talk.


also porn can be very good for a relationship to help explore possibilities, as long as the female can distance her self from trying to compete with the porn star, an education or just to see something different that you may want to try. have fun don't be uptight. be secure an confident. good sexs is all about confidence
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
may I just throw in some other ideas "why not" ?

- STD
- too much wanking and therefore either really to tired or just too used to his hand
- he is getting old. at 52, not all can perform as they did some years ago any more when they are with a woman.
- midlife crisis, thinking that most part of his life is over and all those thoughts that come with that and can be depressing
- propecia or other drugs to prevent hair loss
- prescription drugs for epileptics or depression
the last two points have less interest/ability in making love ..maybe that´s why he is only able to wank off to porn

from personal experience:
- one was falling in love with another woman and therefore had no more interest in me
- one was sexually abused as child by his own mother and had issues with normal intercourse, only could get off when wanking to real harcore pron;
- one was really physically hard working in different shifts every week on a chemical plant and therefore just really too tired - and it did not become better when i asked him for more as it stressed him out even more
- some others had so many things going on in their lifes (which they didn´t chat about as girls normally do, as they are men)that they just lost interest for some time. when they had solved their problems on their own, as men do, everything was back to normal again.

none of them was cheating, I know that for sure.
(the ones cheating never lost their sexual appetite,btw
)

i could go on and on why a man can´t or doesn´t want to proof he is a man.

just don´t forget he is a human being with feelings and issues and so on, too. not just a piece of meat.
let go for a while, concentrade on other things.

and may i ask, did anything else change? do you still kiss as you used to, hold hands, say nice words?
if not, why? start it again, see how he reacts.

when it does not go back to normal on its own and everything else is ok, talk to him. but in a friendly way.
 Quoting: phoenixe


You contradict yourself here.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25216007



no, i don´t and i´ll bet one of my kidneys on this. feelings can change, but every grown-up is able to react appropriate and respectful if that happens.so please don´t say such things if you know nothing about the people involved, unless you just want to spread your negativity. thank you.
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
I have been this guy before, and I know what went through my head. So just leave him, this might shock him out of thinking that since the thrill of the chase is over you aren't worth anything to him. It will also make any petty relationship at work more transparent to him as he feels the pain of your rejection.

Tell him, until he is ready to be a man, then he can have all the porn he wants. You are not going to go find another guy right away, but you are going to check out the menu. I hate that stupid cliche.

If he wants to be with you, he won't even let you leave and you guys will be at it in no time. Also, start wearing more makeup and do something with your hair thats sexy. Change your look every so often within the range of what he likes, and be his slut.

When his attention seems to be wavering, start dressing the way you do for him when you go places without him.
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
Need a Big Booty call. Or manajatwa
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I have been this guy before, and I know what went through my head. So just leave him, this might shock him out of thinking that since the thrill of the chase is over you aren't worth anything to him. It will also make any petty relationship at work more transparent to him as he feels the pain of your rejection.

Tell him, until he is ready to be a man, then he can have all the porn he wants. You are not going to go find another guy right away, but you are going to check out the menu. I hate that stupid cliche.

If he wants to be with you, he won't even let you leave and you guys will be at it in no time. Also, start wearing more makeup and do something with your hair thats sexy. Change your look every so often within the range of what he likes, and be his slut.

When his attention seems to be wavering, start dressing the way you do for him when you go places without him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23917036


if you think this advice is good its probably the reason he isn't having sex with you lol bad advice from the 1980's feminist or a teenager
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
Most men enjoy sex, whether it's stimulating or not but after a while, it just seems like the same thing after a while. Nothing exciting about it.

No disrespect but this is why a lot of guys cheat. And woman as well. But for those who realy love eachother usually just rub one out. Not interested in cheating on their partner just taking care of the situation themselves.

If you want to get you mans attention, then do something spontaneous.

I'll give an example, my wife is uaually on top and she likes it that way. But it gets so boring if that's the only way we do it after a while.

Nothing would stimulate me more if she'd pull a reverse cowgirl and some other things we used to do in our youth. But we don't do that anymore. It's been a very and I mean very long time since she's let me bend her over and pounce her from th back ya know?

And yes, blow jobs in the morning are wonderful. What happened...? What a way to stsrt the day off great.

And speaking of BJ's, sure they're wonderful but a man knows if a girls heart is in it. Like if they "really" mean it.

We used to put some passion in it but now it's kind of like a sympthy BJ. Like lets get this over with.

Seriously, its an absolute routine.

So for all you Ladies wondering about whether or not you're man is cheating on you because he gets a quick peak at some naked chics and rubs one out? Probably not.

I'm not asking my wife to be a porn star, not at all. Far from it. I just get tired of the routine but I will always love my wife.

For guys that are in marriages or long term relationships, aren't really asking for much. And every relationship hits a few dull moments.

But if you are asking yourself why your husband would rather rub one out than actually have sex... try to spice it up every now an then.

Same can be said for guys as well.

Again, I absolutely love my wife and do not have any desires to cheat on her. We've had severl and I mean several good moments together and we will have much more.

Sex isn't everything and yes, there is way more to life and a healthy relationship than just sex. But when things seem like you probably know what's goiung to happen before it happens......

Time to spice it up a bit.
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
he caught the gay duh
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well, that is so nice to hear. a happy couple pushing 50 into each other and enjoying life!you go guys, i'm so happy to hear good news!
 Quoting: eve incognito 25176502


Huh? You are surprised 40-50 year olds still knock nasties. lol

Damn, what are you 20?

My Ma is almost 70 and still takes on all worthy comers. ahahahaha.
 Quoting: wisc_natureboy


Oh MY.....
angryface B&B
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well, that is so nice to hear. a happy couple pushing 50 into each other and enjoying life!you go guys, i'm so happy to hear good news!
 Quoting: eve incognito 25176502


Huh? You are surprised 40-50 year olds still knock nasties. lol

Damn, what are you 20?

My Ma is almost 70 and still takes on all worthy comers. ahahahaha.
 Quoting: wisc_natureboy


Oh MY.....
angryface B&B
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2 years ago I invited her to a 'Dead' Show- Grateful Dead without Jerry.
She declined. 2-days later she had a date with a UW Prof and joined us (Me, my gf and her 3 kids). She had a blast.

When I invited her to our 'after-show' party she declined as she wanted 'to get to know' her date. lol
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Forgot to mention you are a perfect match on the chinese horoscope. :D too cool. I am sure it will pass.
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well, that is so nice to hear. a happy couple pushing 50 into each other and enjoying life!you go guys, i'm so happy to hear good news!
 Quoting: eve incognito 25176502


Huh? You are surprised 40-50 year olds still knock nasties. lol

Damn, what are you 20?

My Ma is almost 70 and still takes on all worthy comers. ahahahaha.
 Quoting: wisc_natureboy


Oh MY.....
angryface B&B
 Quoting: Travis Bickle


2 years ago I invited her to a 'Dead' Show- Grateful Dead without Jerry.
She declined. 2-days later she had a date with a UW Prof and joined us (Me, my gf and her 3 kids). She had a blast.

When I invited her to our 'after-show' party she declined as she wanted 'to get to know' her date. lol
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Now, THAT is worth posting! LOL. Good for her!
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You need to blow him
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He doesn't even want to do that!!
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Then he is dead.
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[link to www.yourbrainonporn.com]

he is addicted to porn. it's sadly very common now.
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Yea, he needs to stop jerking it to porn so much.
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
...because he says he's too tired, yet he still "does it" to Internet porn, could he REALLY be too tired?? Or could there be another logical reason? Or is he just cheating? I know, I'm beating a dead horse here (see my prior posts) but I would just like to hear from the guys out there. Could there be a logical excuse??
 Quoting: Kristina


Two things are happening. One is yours (and all women's fault) and the other is the porn, yet they are working in tandem.

Male masterbation is in its golden age. Porn is easy to get, in many varieties and men even have tools now like the ladies do. Sometimes, just like a lady's vibrator, it is just more enticing to do it alone with some aid.

The other part is that women push men towards masterbation as an all out alternative. Woman's lib really fucked up women emotionally. You are all so afraid to "serve" a guy, even though most of you are turned on by take charge guys. You think it is the man's job to seduce you. Not passionately take you, but be a pussy about it. All because you don't want to be an object, even though you do want to be one. Why do you think so many ladies went all crazy for "fifty shades"?

Because of your conflicting emotions with your natural hormones and the fucked up version of women's lib that has been sold to you (and I am not saying women are not equal, but they are incredibly different) you have made sex like a TV program you both watch at a certain time. You have taken the fun out of it not just for us, but for yourself.

Fuck, when will women remember they like coming on to us by offering themselves up. Not just scheduling it like an activity, but by submitting to their desires.

I am not saying women shouldn't work, be educated, win Nobel prizes, be doctors, or be president. I am saying they should be all those things while still being a real woman.
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
he's tired hun.
that's all it is. Maybe his job is strenuous.
My husband used to come on GLP instead of have sex with me. So one day I told him what was up and things changed. But he's just tired.
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
got bored with you. not attracted anymore
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This.

He dont like you anymore, or dont want to have sex with you.

Choose one and move on.

And if you are a fattie, lose some pounds, then move on.
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...because he says he's too tired, yet he still "does it" to Internet porn, could he REALLY be too tired?? Or could there be another logical reason? Or is he just cheating? I know, I'm beating a dead horse here (see my prior posts) but I would just like to hear from the guys out there. Could there be a logical excuse??
 Quoting: Kristina


If he isnt getting it from you hes getting it somewhere else period. Men dont turn down sex if its the only place hes getting it. I went through this also and wanted so bad to believe his lies.
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...because he says he's too tired, yet he still "does it" to Internet porn, could he REALLY be too tired?? Or could there be another logical reason? Or is he just cheating? I know, I'm beating a dead horse here (see my prior posts) but I would just like to hear from the guys out there. Could there be a logical excuse??
 Quoting: Kristina


If he isnt getting it from you hes getting it somewhere else period. Men dont turn down sex if its the only place hes getting it. I went through this also and wanted so bad to believe his lies.
 Quoting: MONSTER


You must only know piece of shit men!

While my wife was pregnant (high risk) we had sex twice. I didn't get it somewhere else. Now that the baby is 16 months old, we still have only had sex maybe 10 times. And I'm still not getting it elsewhere.
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He's a fag. find someone else, there are plenty of real men out there that will fuck the shit out of you.
big shep theory
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
[link to www.yourbrainonporn.com]

he is addicted to porn.

it's sadly very common now.

 Quoting: pink cat


This.


Porn=Poison.

hf
 Quoting: Seer777


The Great Porn Experiment: Gary Wilson at TEDxGlasgow



OP WATCH THIS.
IT WILL EXPLAIN EVERYTHING.

 Quoting: pink cat


[link to www.yourbrainonporn.com]

he is addicted to porn.

it's sadly very common now.

 Quoting: pink cat


This.


Porn=Poison.

hf
 Quoting: Seer777


The Great Porn Experiment: Gary Wilson at TEDxGlasgow



OP WATCH THIS.
IT WILL EXPLAIN EVERYTHING.

 Quoting: pink cat

^^^^^^^^^
THIS!!
interesting video, and explains a lot.
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Re: If a man keeps turning down sex...
...because he says he's too tired, yet he still "does it" to Internet porn, could he REALLY be too tired?? Or could there be another logical reason? Or is he just cheating? I know, I'm beating a dead horse here (see my prior posts) but I would just like to hear from the guys out there. Could there be a logical excuse??
 Quoting: Kristina


your pussy might have a bad smell
you might be fat
you might annoy him somehow
you might be just ugly
you might be just more sexually active
you might be just to saggy
you might just be to loose

so many goddamn reasons
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put a diarrhea filled sock in it and sew it tight shut you belligerent motherfucker.

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