If a man keeps turning down sex...

Darling,it might just be that he's lazy and jackin is easy.
I bet its the lifestyle you two lead.
When me and my wife are near men,she's hungry.Same with me and being near a group of women. I can tell when she thinks somebody is attractive.
Take him to the Titty bar

For month did you say, months... how about from the day you moved in. What was it three months ago...?

Please tell us, how many time have you turned him down? Out of the 5 years, how many times? 100s 1000s ..... and you wonder why you now have this problem... pay back..?

So how much is he spending to feed you? $50 a week, maybe closer to $100.00....? I can see the sweat on his brow, thinking about all the food you are going to eat this week!!

Hey, I wouldn't care if we went to a strip club...I think it would be fun! I've suggested it, but he thinks it would be a waste of money since he can't touch the strippers. LOL

Part Time..... get another part time job and then you'll equal one full time job... Problem solved.

People who prefer solitaire to pitch-and-catch should be left alone with their little games.

No, we have had sex since I moved in. And I can probably count on one hand the number of times I have turned him down! And by the way, I DON'T EAT THAT MUCH!!!

Maybe in the back of his mind he is thinking you might get pregnant. Then what? Masturbation is just the easy way out to control and release whats pent up inside. You may be doing little things to mark him as taken when in his mind he is still up for grabs and still looking. That is what porn does. It makes you want to undress every chick you see in your mind.

Nope, can't get pregnant. We've both been "fixed."

Talk about mamsy pamsy..

Tell him you think so-and-so is attractive enough that you may want to try something with her in bed, with HIM.

The way I see it is... he'll think "holy shit holy shit.." because he may be the one of many men (now here come all the internet porn stars, wait for it) that has never had two at the same time. Spice things up, maybe only kiss her tits if you aren't for eating her out... but, fuck him like he's the last man on Earth who you just so happened to be attractive too. Don't be one of those women that feel just the man has to play the role before you became exclusive of "romancing" the woman. Two way street baby, two way...

One of two things will happen (maybe three):

1. He'll see you in a new light and be thankful that you were open to the idea.

2. The other girl (from his work) will be more apt to fuck him and he'll decide he likes her more and leave you (but then really, what would you be losing here?).

or.. 3. He'll expect the twosome swinging shit all the time, in which case, dump him.

The above are contingent on this other girl agreeing... if you confront her after bringing it up to him, I wouldn't think his employer could let him go for something you did. If so, eh, leave him.

Simple really..

Well that reply got all fucked up.

You're right. Sex is best with drugs. Do both - early and often. One enhances the other. Keep doing these things for at least 5 years daily until the long term hormones kick in.

No - there's nothing else important in life except sex and drugs.

After reading what you have posted.....seems to me it's time to move on.

I'm sorry and I don't mean to offend you or any other woman, but this is not true. I have never met a woman who didn't do this. Even if you don't think you have, you have probably done it without realizing it. Sorry, but men and women have blind spots. This is something all women do and few admit

I would say good idea, but.....we've had a threesome before. And I'm really NOT up for a threesome with "her." It would just be too weird.

Most of the time when chicks get comfortable they get fat then whine they aren't getting plowed when they have like 30% more mass than when you met them.

You left a floater in the toilet bowl and he found it. He lost ALL sexual attraction to you from that day on. Moral to the story, flush the fucking toilet when you duke!

Turning him down even once is too much. You seem to have done that five times, and I'd be gone by then.

Don't show this to him, just do it to him, that otta get his engine started. [link to fapdu.com]

^^This...he is tired of your ass. Better spice it up, or he'll leave, or just wait for you to leave.

End of story.

Men just want to get off, and usually masturbation feels better than sex. I went 6 months without doing ANYTHING with my hot girlfriend, because the same woman just gets boring. Yes, I wanted to cheat all the time... just like I wanted to have sex all the time. But I didn't want to do it with her. I wouldn't be able to get off.

So it boils down to this:

If you want to have sex with him, you have to let him watch porn while you do it, and you have to let him basically masturbate using your body. Tell him it turns you on when you allow him to imagine you are someone else. Someone he fantasizes about. Be better than his hand!

Failing that. You need to break up with him, and next time try to stay hot for the next guy, and don't try to control him no matter how lazy you think he is.

If it was another woman, he would be out more.. Is he?
You're asking for people's opinion without details, problems could be psychological, physical, stress, you...

How are you communicating as a couple?

Finance is a major factor also.
Fitness, sound mind and body.
Drugs? Prescribed or not.
Maybe he's a man child, maybe you nag too much?!? I have no clue here, just putting stuff out there. It's important you discuss with him, not the rest of the world.

If it's just about sex... Well take him. Fucking knock on the door wearing just a shirt, drop it as he opens the door... Or pour him a nice bath, a glass of wine, massage and happy endings. Depends on the mood you're in I guess.

Communication is key, and this has most probably nothing to do with sex, but his sex drive might well be a by product of the situation.

One problem is he got too attached to the net porn.And by the time you get to him he's used up in theory there's still hope get him something to increase his stamina.see what you can do to probably be more atractive to him,were there's a will there's a way.

OK what you need to do is post:
1. a pic of you front view
2. a pic of you back view
3. a pic of you side view

wear a face mask like the lone ranger to hide your identity. You can make it out of a garbage bag.

1. wear jeans and a tee or
2. wear your swim suit

I am sure that the people (men) in this forum can tell you how to spruce-up your looks. Even change them.

It's so much easier to just jerk off to porn. I just told my GF this yesterday when she wondered why I wasn't initiating sex.

Okay in pounds, how much do you eat? And if you weigh more that 135 pounds at 5'6.... well ......


How many time have you been married, how many kids?

Sorry, posted by accident. You do not need to do JACKSHIT but move on to a man who knows how AND WHY to keep a woman sexually satisfied. It is his job; he is not doing it. Time for the pink slip.

I'm not telling how much I weigh, that's none of anyone's business. Never married. One son.

slip him a Cialis....if it stays hard more than 4 hrs. see a Dr.......lol

Tell her, porn never says NO. And she does....

Don't lie about it. Just tell him outright that you miss having sex with him. Don't ask us here, ask HIM!
If he doesn't give it to you straight up, something is seriously wrong and either love him unconditionally or start packing.