If a man keeps turning down sex...

I didn't ask how much you weigh just how much you eat in pounds. And do you weigh more than 135 pounds. Y/N. I take it: It's a yes.

How about more than 150 pounds Y/N?

You should of laid down the law about porn when you first met.Now its too late.You've let internet whores spoil him.
I let my man know from day 1,NO PORN. And he respects that and never looks at it.My man is ALL MINE!

Hmmm, most women will jump at the chance to tell us how underweight she is.... hmmmm

Never married... 39 years old..... ??? questions questions... Does your son live with you? How old is he? Is he in jail?

No, he is not in jail!!! I was engaged, got pregnant and the jerk took off! My son is 19 and lives with my mother, if you must know.

BRhasaaaaaaBrrraHaaaaaa........ Wow you told him!!!

If you prefer skinny fake titted boys with no pubic hair, congratulations, internet porn has destroyed your mind.

They are succeeing brillantly in creating a generation of gay pedophiles by training you to to be repulsed by normal secondary sex charastics.

How long has he lived with Mom.... So the jerk took off when you were 20 years old. And you never had the chance to marry again? Was it a weight issue?

More than 160 pounds? Y/N

I just watched the TED film and now understand why my marriage failed. He used magazines and films and when the Internet came along he switched to that. I always told him that I didn't mind as long as I 'benefited'. As time went on, he became depressed, didn't want sex, lost interest in our home and yard. I dragged him from doctor to doctor and they filled him up with anti-depressants initially and then anti-psychotics. I wish I would have known about the detrimental effects of so much porn. I lost my best friend and I miss him.

go work out and get skinny and put on a different face and get a brazilian haircut.

i would fuck you


but my last gf was a kristina, and psycho as fuck

sorry

sent you pm.

stop asking him so much. or stop asking him for so much. just a thought.

I got it, thank you. I'm a free member, so I can't PM you back. But, I was born in 1973 and he was born in 1957.

i see :squashme:

Unfortunately I have to agree. Been there, done that......turns out he WAS cheating. I ended up wasting 7 yrs.

Good luck!

Gotta say, going oral as yr partner is watching porn of choice can be very exciting!



This ^^
A man can drink two 6-packs and get off on a two-minute vid, as opposed to going through the whole 'ritual'. Guess that's more to do with wanting it "there and then".

Still, "you can look at the menu, as long as you eat home...

You need to masterbate and cum. Let him know that you're getting off with or without him. Seeing a woman climax is really really tantalizing!

Porn will do that to you. Moreover even if you are an attractive woman it won't make up for the fake women and the fantasies generated by his depraved porn soaked brain.

I recommend dumping him and let him know why, he has cheated on you with his porn fantasy girl.

HA! Not even close! I'm about 20-30 lbs. overweight, OK??

For God's sake, if she does have a weight issue he simply needs to DO HIS JOB and fuck it off of her. An unwatered plant does not produce flowers.

Girlie, these guys are all starving their women (the few who have a woman) for sex while they wank to GLP, suggesting you submit your photo for their critique, and I bet most of them are downright unsightly. I bet your BF/husband/whatever is also rather homely/sloppy/a pig just like them
whom you really should not be wallowing around with if you don't want to hate yourself later on for even suggesting that he might lie down with your lovely and luscious self.

CUT HIM OFF. Work out for 30 minutes daily. Do whatever you have to to get your own stash of cash. LEAVE. Buy a little black book; take your pill! :-) The wanker ain't worth the drama! He thinks your his Mom! It won't change!

This reply explains it all. "He can't touch.."

You are too close at hand and since you are around when he comes home from work, he doesn't have to do anything anymore to get you in bed. He doesn't have to get out the door to get to your place, he doesn't have to call you to meet, etc. The hunt is over. The prey is his already. Time for some new challenges (porn, other women.)

So basically, the psychical distance (call it fantasy, hence the porn) was his trigger. He will only "allow" you to have sex with him, whenever he feels like it, at his own convenience. That might be now or in 5 years or never.

You need to make yourself less available for him. He knows you want it whenever he wants it. So start going your own way again in your own rythm, go to your friends more often, don't do all the cooking and housework, get out of the house more often, even if it is just for walks or whatever. Make new friends, maybe you find someone that does fulfil your needs. Be less dependent of his needs. He needs to realize he doesn't own you, but that you are your own person. Stop offering yourself to him.

If this is already the situation after 3 months, you strongly need to think, being only 39 still, if this is the guy you want to be with for a longer period of time. But basically, most important, be your own woman. You are in control of your own life, not him.

Good luck.

Kristina,
Stop now. Don't post another thing to this thread. You are better than this. Your man is addicted to porn. Porn is so over-the-top addicting, you don't have a chance.

You can try putting your foot down, and SHOULD, but I doubt it will work. Porn is like alcoholism, it's an Addiction.

Nothing you've said about yourself is material to this problem, and is no one here's business.

Porn is the problem, 100%.

Decide how you will deal with his problem and you will have your answer.

Without expecting ANYTHING thing in return just please him any way you know how then wait for the response....... It might take a couple of days, but if you get nothing, you know your competing with someone else or for him the feeling is gone........ Just MHO.

Interesting replies

If the roles were reversed, every single one of the guys posting here would blame the woman for having a porn addiction and tell the male OP to high tail it out of there with his overweight self, cause he deserves more

Last Edited by WretchedHollywood on 10/09/2012 09:17 PM

HE IS CHEATING

tell him to try using Cialis.