If a man keeps turning down sex...

Best thread ever!!!

have him go to the doctor, may have a condition that lowers sex drive. if so it is treatable

Some men, have trouble with sex due to Prostates...

When the prostate is enlarged or infected erections hurt, ejaculations hurt as well...

Well now you are think he still masturbates himself. Well as time goes on sperm is produced naturally. As this process takes place in time it builds up pressure as well and causes even more pain. So releasing it is the only way to re-leave the pain. Now During this time it is extremely painful because having an erection still hurts a ton.

Another problem with the prostate gland is if it is enlarged it does not function as well, and with the ejaculate there is also urine inside of it. This also makes a nasty smell of things because of the ammonia in the urine.

This might be the problem or could be a combination of things.

Hope this helps...

Last Edited by FATMANGOBOOM on 10/10/2012 08:11 AM

Start practicing random acts of kindness and by that I mean random acts of blowjobs. When he's not asking or expecting it just unzip his pants and go to town until he's bone dry whether he likes it or not. Wouldnt the world be a nicer place if all women practiced random acts of blowjobs?

Perhaps its the male member he desires more. Does he like "straight" porn or lesbian ?

If "straight" he might be looking / thinking about something else. Perhaps a sub Cuckold ad for Hubby on an adult site might get him what he desires, he might wish to see you with a real man, his deepest porn fantasy.

One never knows, perhaps he would like to pleasure the "stud" himself and clean up afterwards? You may wish to begin dropping hints or head on over and get some of them subliminal tapes to help him become.

then he has lost interest in you.

sorry

Well mine lost interest until he realize I am still at a premium. First time he realized that not *everyone* sees me as boring, and I got hit on in front of him, he decided to stop being such a dickhead and we had sex regularly again. Good sex, too..not the lazy married people sex, which was the best I could manage from him.

He just needs a good pop of jealousy. It doesn't mean cheating. It means getting a compliment from someone else. That's all it took to fix my very similar situation. To him I may be "the same ol' same ol'" but to someone else, I was prime for the pickin!

He is actually tired. Isn't it much easier to get yourself

off when you are tired, instead of having to please your

partner as well as yourself? I have been married for 15 years

and have 3 kids. It does not have anything to do with you at

all, he is just tired.

Get BIGGER boobs and a nice tight smaller butt ... and voila, if he's not chasing you DOZENS of other guys will.

In simple english what that means is ...:

*Get your BUTT to the gym for some SERIOUS exercising 5 days a week (6 better)

*do a diet/eating plan that helps you shed not only the excess weight, but turn what you have into muscle (as a female you won't develop large muscles but nice tight firm muscle with a HEAVY workout plan)

*finally (and I know a lot of people are going to scream at me and throw stuff at me), a nice boob job with a "lift" (lift as well as increase - at your age a "lift" will do wonders) will completely change your look to one that is MUCH sexier.

Add some nice makeup and sexy dressing to the above ... and voila ... you become the object of sexual desire for many men (and will bring out the "competitive juices" in him even if he is not that into sex anymore because of a low libido)

I will tell you from personal experience, as this is the way it is with my wife and I at the moment. First and foremost, I do not feel that I am important to her. She is an executive, and her job comes first, her daughter second, her cat third and me, well I feel like I am last in priority.

Sex for me is not just a wham bam thank you ma'am, it is an experience. At 52, I am past the primal need to dominate, now I just want to matter, I want to feel loved and wanted. Now that I write it, it sounds very needy, but its true.

Even vacations, I don't feel as though were together because she has to read email, call into conference calls etc.After basically being the third wheel in her world, I just do not feel close enough to want sex.

Are you like my wife? Then this is the reasons your looking for. If so, sex with a stranger on a video, who has mastered the talent of making a man feel like he is desired, is a nice outlet.

The simple answer is he's doing porn, as that desensitizes a man, and makes him hypersexual simultaneously. Porn is destroying boys and men to the point they may seek other more perverted climbs, and become anti-social, disconnected, etc. The heterosexual male may be enticed to homosexuality even, it's that dangerous. Porn is one of Satan's social engineering tools for the male mind. Homosexuality is his smoking gun, as it is counter to creation. it is not a lifestyle, it is a deathstyle and puts a man on a collision course towards hell.

Homosexuality, even if a man is pushed towards God, seems like an insurmountable obstacle to overcome. Now, of course, it is Christ who can strengthen us to overcome anything, if the person is willing to submit his life to Christ.

Video games are also converting men into anti-social, immature (most americans dont mature beyond 25), disconnected, delusional boobs.

Thses entities are part of the blame for men's recent lack of performance in the world. Women are kicking the male but, as more of them are going to college, and acheiving success.

Been Married 15 years, Im 51 and she is 53,I havn't touched my wife since spring, She has not tried with me ether.I get off better alone and not as exhausting anyway...will she stray? who knows, she did 7 years ago and just admitted that affair recently...which I knew about it and she denied and Lied all these years....gonna buy her a vibrator for xmas...I'm satisfied like it is, we get along better for some reason...

going to need a picture of you to give an accurate response

why? because he's giving an honest answer? the truth hurts sometimes. if OP doesn't want an honest answer then what's the point in making this thread?

Yes he too tired, and your a dirty skank that dosnt duech.
You make sex difficult and un fofilling. you wont suck his dick and you bitch all the time.

If you would be nice to him, make the sex hot and easy of get off his fucking shit and WASH THAT PUSSY!

He would probably be all over it.

But you are just a bitch day in and day out , your killing him.
He has a huge sex drive and you treat him like such shit that he dosnt even see you as an object of pleaseure just a morbid toture device he is married to.

I am so horribly serious about this, I am not just being a prick!

BTW this is completely a reference to my own life, but I expect it is the same answer in your situation.

Stop being a fucking cactis, noone wants to hug a cactis!

seriously though, I masterbate to internet porn all the time. But I still prefer vaginal intercourse. Porn addiction is made up by closet homosexuals. No straight man prefers beating off to pussy.

He's not tired. He's lazy and selfish.

Let him 'catch' you rubbing one out.

Exactly right. As I have posted here before, I discovered that I had low Testosterone. After just 3 weeks, I feel like a new man again. I have a feeling of wellness, energy, strength and I feel like refreshing the Wife everyday instead of once a week.

Op... HERE IS HOW TO FIX THIS.... I AM NOT KIDDING!!!!

WATCH PORN WITH HIM!

That's it!

I swear this is legit advice...

Go to an adult bookstore and find a "normal porn" bring it home and ask him to watch it with you.

It's kinda like how your dad make you smoke in front of him when he caught you.

You suddenly realize, WOW I look really stupid.

Well, this is the effect it'll have on him.

You'll watch the porn, both be turned on, and have some crazy sex... then HE'll feel guilty afterwards.

He will back down and he'll pay more attention to you.


I know this because my wife, (A Psychologist) did this to me years ago.

I haven't read through the whole thread, so forgive me if I'm repeating what many have said already.

The most likely scenario is that he's having sex with someone else.

The second most likely scenario is that he wasn't really ready for the commitment of living together, and in realizing the mistake, has withdrawn from sex as a sign he's withdrawing from the relationship.

The third most likely is that he's really gay and trying to fight it.

Last (though the least likely), if he's truly addicted to porn, then he lives in a fantasy world and incapable of dealing with reality.


In other words, if your man has stopped 'putting out', it's over, no matter what the reason.

Maybe he has a mild Hernia and is afraid to tell you. Real sex hurts him.

He is definitely porking someone else!!!
Whats your deal? I got the impression most chicks didn't like it when their man surfed porn? Your ok with it? What gives?

so true