45, 5' 10" 15 stone and ex-rugby forward, and I've got to say it's bloody hard to keep in the shape I used to.

But, I am so happy with my partner and she is happy with me, so a bit of middle age podge doesn't come between us or our happiness.

I still wake up in the morning and we have a dance around the kitchen.. so in that regard, I really hope OP, that you find someone who makes you happy, makes your toes curl and above all makes you smile every morning, whatever they look like.