Ditto, spot on, spot on. They see the nice guy working at his job trying to keep everything going and it's in his and her twenty's and she doesn't give him notice. Because she is looking for MR. Big and his money and his "lifestyle". And as the article said, who says that this Mr. Big will want you. You women can be correct that men can have problems, but women do to and expect the man to have the ability to be Mr. Big. Here's the reality, not every man or woman can be rich, not enough resources even if it is possible. One day we will figure out how to fix this issue, but the Chinese article was dead on.