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Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/26/2012 07:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband and I do not get along and thankfully we're hardly around one another (or can fake it) while my son is awake. I think we're both afraid of how bad the fights will get if we're jonesing for a cigarette. Quoting: *Valkyrie* Anyone have any advice???? Discover and reconcile the deep-seeded conflicts that cause you to not get along. What you fight about day-to-day probably has nothing at all to do with the real reasons for animosity. Age matters not - your son knows the faked behavior - and right now, at this very moment, you and your husband are actively engaged in raising your son to live his life by putting up a front and faking his emotions in his family life. I long used the same excuse to not quit - that my daughter's mother and I would fight to such escalations that it would be counter-productive. Intuitively, though, I always knew that this would ultimately result in the real issues between us coming to light. And I knew there was no reconciliation to be had between us. And yet I still wanted my daughters to be able to have her in their lives as completely as possible. Now she's moved out since a couple weeks ago and my final excuse to not quit has expired. I envy your strength in moderation to regularly limit your cigarettes to 2, 4, or 6 a day. Provided my advice didn't come off as too curt and my intentions aren't misplaced, I could sure use some advice/tips on a workable plan to keep to a small 'fall-back' minimum of a few smokes a day :) BTW, OP - thanks for the thread :) Much welcome. I am happy to see the response to the thread. Smoking is an addiction that needs all our support to beat. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
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Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/26/2012 07:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Smoked 2 packs a day now for 50 years.. I can tell its screwing with my health... I need to quit big time.. Quoting: sodbust Let me ask outright.. Does ones woody come back in full size after one stops? LOL, it helps because you will have better blood flow. Nicotine is a vessel constrictor. Try it and find out. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
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Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/26/2012 08:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I started smoking tobacco shortly after finding this place. Quitting tonight. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26333201 Stop, stop now. It will be easy now, easy. Later it will be hell, and your lungs will be shot. Quit now, I say. Good for you. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/26/2012 10:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hang in there and be strong quitters! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4542677 I stopped my cigs 2.5 years ago. Needed medication in the process for support (Zyban) and it worked like a charm. Smoked for 23 years and am so happy that i kicked that habit... You can do it too!!! Thanks for your report of success. Can be done can't it. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/26/2012 11:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Good for you! Keep it up... I quit on sept 11 this year, lasted 3 weeks... planning on giving it another go this monday. figure i need to quit drinking too for best results. Quoting: Hawk-02 Now you have done it and on your way!!!!!!!!! :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26377440 Australia 10/27/2012 12:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had to quit! Was costing me near 15 bucks for a pack of 20s! I worked out it cost me almost a hundred a week! I was paying over a hundred a week for pot too! Gave up both cold turkey and every time I craved either I went and spent the money on groceries or clothes! One week and I was so anti both.. I have an awesome wardrobe now and a full pantry! 200 bucks a week richer . Would never touch either again! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25804563 United States 10/27/2012 02:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Love it I ouit smoking too. It will be one year Thanksgiving this year. Went to e-cigs quit them recently too. I chew a nicotine gum a couple times a day still. I really enjoy having both hands, no cough and I can smell and taste too. That annoying numbness in my arms and legs stopped 2 days after quitting last year. Lets all stay healthy. We can do it. Oh and happy one month Desert Fox. |
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Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/27/2012 03:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Love it I ouit smoking too. It will be one year Thanksgiving this year. Went to e-cigs quit them recently too. I chew a nicotine gum a couple times a day still. I really enjoy having both hands, no cough and I can smell and taste too. That annoying numbness in my arms and legs stopped 2 days after quitting last year. Quoting: finley Lets all stay healthy. We can do it. Oh and happy one month Desert Fox. Terrific. and thanks. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/27/2012 07:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quit on Feb 14th. The first two months were hard but now it's easy and smoking disgusts me. I can't believe I ever did that to myself! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18492383 Seems like the disgust part is a normal reaction of smokers that have quit. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
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Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/28/2012 05:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had to quit! Was costing me near 15 bucks for a pack of 20s! I worked out it cost me almost a hundred a week! I was paying over a hundred a week for pot too! Gave up both cold turkey and every time I craved either I went and spent the money on groceries or clothes! One week and I was so anti both.. I have an awesome wardrobe now and a full pantry! 200 bucks a week richer . Would never touch either again! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26377440 That is a lot of cash you are saving not to mention the health issue. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 26478076 United Kingdom 10/28/2012 05:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Good for you! Keep it up... I quit on sept 11 this year, lasted 3 weeks... planning on giving it another go this monday. figure i need to quit drinking too for best results. Quoting: Hawk-02 A few years ago I quit for a year and a half, and let a family situation get the best of me and went back, Idiot deluxe I was. Don't sweat it. It took me over 5 years, and three serious tries, to finally kick. One time I went back to cigs after nearly 2 years off. I've been clean since 1996, and have no cravings at all. I did use herbal and bicarbonate tablets on the final, successful attempt. Alkalizing your body really helps. |
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Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/28/2012 06:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i have been a 2 pack aday guy now for twentyfive years and am going to stop tonight. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26487723 Each day put the money you would have spent on smokes, in a container and look at the results in a week. It is a good visual prop. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/28/2012 09:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Good for you! Keep it up... I quit on sept 11 this year, lasted 3 weeks... planning on giving it another go this monday. figure i need to quit drinking too for best results. Quoting: Hawk-02 A few years ago I quit for a year and a half, and let a family situation get the best of me and went back, Idiot deluxe I was. Don't sweat it. It took me over 5 years, and three serious tries, to finally kick. One time I went back to cigs after nearly 2 years off. I've been clean since 1996, and have no cravings at all. I did use herbal and bicarbonate tablets on the final, successful attempt. Alkalizing your body really helps. Thanks for the tips that worked for you. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
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Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/29/2012 03:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Bump for all of our awesome quitters!! Remember -- you are a nonsmoker now! Why would you go outside for a smoke? You don't smoke. Nonsmokers don't go outside and light up. ;) Keep it up, everyone! Quoting: Gratia Plena :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 26573737 United Kingdom 10/29/2012 06:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wahey all cravings have gone now. I can actually hold a cigarette and have no desire to smoke it. The way I did it was, thus: I went cold turkey for three days, yet on the third day the cravings became immense and I was moody as hell. So I decided to have one cig. Then I went cold turkey again. I didn't get any cravings for another 5 days, so I lit one up. I noticed this time around, that a quarter of the way through the cig, it made me feel sick, so I stubbed it out. Now I'm completely over my nicotine addiction, and I think it only took me just over two weeks to quit. |
Primordial User ID: 352739 United States 10/30/2012 08:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wahey all cravings have gone now. I can actually hold a cigarette and have no desire to smoke it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26573737 The way I did it was, thus: I went cold turkey for three days, yet on the third day the cravings became immense and I was moody as hell. So I decided to have one cig. Then I went cold turkey again. I didn't get any cravings for another 5 days, so I lit one up. I noticed this time around, that a quarter of the way through the cig, it made me feel sick, so I stubbed it out. Now I'm completely over my nicotine addiction, and I think it only took me just over two weeks to quit. CONGRATS! Good for you, Good to see everyone is still holding strong and even some new people have stepped up!!! It IS amazing what WE as a collective can do together when the conditions are good! |
Desert Fox (OP) User ID: 8786935 United States 10/30/2012 04:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wahey all cravings have gone now. I can actually hold a cigarette and have no desire to smoke it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26573737 The way I did it was, thus: I went cold turkey for three days, yet on the third day the cravings became immense and I was moody as hell. So I decided to have one cig. Then I went cold turkey again. I didn't get any cravings for another 5 days, so I lit one up. I noticed this time around, that a quarter of the way through the cig, it made me feel sick, so I stubbed it out. Now I'm completely over my nicotine addiction, and I think it only took me just over two weeks to quit. Amazing, proud of you, truly proud. You will be an inspiration to others who come here. Thanks for the positive post. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
RicRoc User ID: 3488698 United States 10/30/2012 05:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Desert, just noticed you made the month mark!! Bummed i missed it but please accept my retro congrat-u-fucking-lations!!! As you know, i will be quitting next month. Although I am ready now, I will wait for my wife who is going to try hypnosis(got it as a gift so wth). Man i cant wait to be unchained from this filthy habit. I quit for a year about 10 years ago now(arrghhh). I recall having an epiphany of sorts one day. Upon quitting, while driving to work, I would see or smell other drivers smoking. I would get all agitated and wish i could have one...JUST ONE!!! So this went on for a while, about a month i guess, and then one day i saw someone smoking and i found i didn't want one. I realized that I am no longer envious of that person because they can smoke, but rather that person, if they could know I'm winning the fight, is envious of me! Even the ones who proclaim to love smoking know that they are slaves and wish they could put them down for good. You are succeeding....keep it up!!!! |