I QUIT SMOKING , YOU CAN TOO. I QUIT SEPT 27, 2012, SUPPORT EACH OTHER HERE

Ok, I think I am out of the woods now, had no pain meds today and head clearing up. It has been a hell of a ride. I see people are still on track and for one that succumbed has been reassured of our commitment to them. Thanks guys for all the love sent my way. DF

Thanks, I am on Cipro, and drinking lots of water. The bad part is that I have to go thru this a few more times over the next few weeks. Hate the thought. DF

Good luck and God bless to all of you! I wish my dad had a support group he could have gone to with help to quit smoking. He finally quit a 50 yr smoking habit 3 weeks ago. He has always been very healthy for his age, 74, and had no major health problems. Then 3 weeks ago his legs swelled up and he was having trouble breathing. A trip to the ER and a few X-rays and tests later we found out he has extremely advanced lung cancer. There's a big tumor eating away his left lung, drowning his heart, and stealing his resources. He's lost 20 pounds in 2 weeks. He can't live without continuos oxygen. He is now starting to have pain. We've brought him home to die. His parents lived well into their eighties, but they didn't smoke. I wish I had ten more years with him, and my kids do too. God bless you in your efforts, but don't be too hard on yourselves. I only hope maybe my dad's story might help a little.

My heart truly goes out to you. I only hope his passing is peaceful and the Doctors keep him from pain. Your story could not be more powerful to all of us here. May god be with all of you in this terrible time. DF

Thanks, much love to you all!

God bless you. When this life change happens, the best thing you can do for your loved one is forgive them any wrongs they did to you. That's mostly why they hang on. They fret over those. They want forgiveness as much as your care. Telling old stories is good. Holding their hands. Listening. Just being with them. Then as the time comes to pass over into the long night, then to watch and wait, so they are not alone. Then as they take their final breaths, to whisper to them, "Walk into the Light, Dad. It's okay." Then they are at peace and not struggling to hold on.

Good luck and God bless to all of you! I wish my dad had a support group he could have gone to with help to quit smoking. He finally quit a 50 yr smoking habit 3 weeks ago. He has always been very healthy for his age, 74, and had no major health problems. Then 3 weeks ago his legs swelled up and he was having trouble breathing. A trip to the ER and a few X-rays and tests later we found out he has extremely advanced lung cancer. There's a big tumor eating away his left lung, drowning his heart, and stealing his resources. He's lost 20 pounds in 2 weeks. He can't live without continuos oxygen. He is now starting to have pain. We've brought him home to die. His parents lived well into their eighties, but they didn't smoke. I wish I had ten more years with him, and my kids do too. God bless you in your efforts, but don't be too hard on yourselves. I only hope maybe my dad's story might help a little.

Good luck and God bless to all of you! I wish my dad had a support group he could have gone to with help to quit smoking. He finally quit a 50 yr smoking habit 3 weeks ago. He has always been very healthy for his age, 74, and had no major health problems. Then 3 weeks ago his legs swelled up and he was having trouble breathing. A trip to the ER and a few X-rays and tests later we found out he has extremely advanced lung cancer. There's a big tumor eating away his left lung, drowning his heart, and stealing his resources. He's lost 20 pounds in 2 weeks. He can't live without continuos oxygen. He is now starting to have pain. We've brought him home to die. His parents lived well into their eighties, but they didn't smoke. I wish I had ten more years with him, and my kids do too. God bless you in your efforts, but don't be too hard on yourselves. I only hope maybe my dad's story might help a little.

I lost my father in law about eight years ago to advanced pancreatic cancer which spread to his lungs and everywhere else. I know how difficult this is and my heart goes out to you.

I lost my father in law about eight years ago to advanced pancreatic cancer which spread to his lungs and everywhere else. I know how difficult this is and my heart goes out to you.

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Just checking in and hope all is well!!

Today is Day 17 for me

Ok, I think I am out of the woods now, had no pain meds today and head clearing up. It has been a hell of a ride. I see people are still on track and for one that succumbed has been reassured of our commitment to them. Thanks guys for all the love sent my way. DF

youre free my great warrior friend!!!

Pancreatic cancer is so very difficult and full of suffering for the patient and their loved ones. It is a cruel disease and has a horrific outcome which many people are not aware of, and the patients and famiy suffer in silence. I hope some of you read about it. I'm sorry that you had to encounter it as it is gut-wrenching.

your a fucking quitter and should be beaten with a canvass bag full of door knobs

Hi Salt.
How are you honey?

CHL, when I read you, and read of your life, I am reminded how very fortunate I am to be coming to call you my friend. I'm so very grateful you're in my life.

A good man. You are. We are all fortunate to know you. Brother, CHL.