Are you still of the idea, you are the only one reading your words? Your threads, if it doesn't apply to you, it is for someone else. Sometimes, the words written to you, find meaning to someone who is just reading.

Afa painful? You said changing yourself is painful. Change yourself to it being non painful. If it is always painful, can the process be changed in which you change?

Ledges and voids, seeing things in absolute, is the footing to non change. It is form. All form is idea.

Is love abstract? Extremes dictate codependency, out of balance out of purportion leads to excess. Where consideration becomes obsession and where confidence becomes ego.