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Message Subject Reconciliation
Poster Handle Anonymous Coward
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many times trauma pokes out in ways completely unrelated to the trauma itself. It usually is not so much the trauma that haunts us but the way we dealt with it or didn't deal with it. it leaves a void in our complete self. how do you deal with a once in a lifetime trauma that is left unresolved or unsettled. It is not possible to reconstruct the circumstances of such traumas as they usually were a of nature that a normal person would not purposely seek to replicate again. The residual effects of any traumas are psychological in nature. If one cannot reproduce the physical or emotional nature of the trauma, a psychological exercise to deal with it fails to eradicate the pain.

some deal with this pain by applying it to others. this is the easiest and least effective resolution, as it attempts to deal with the pain via a release that never quells the need, but instead produces a need or lust for more violent physical behavior.

Suppressing the trauma only causes it to peek out in ways not identifiable to the original circumstances. To many it surfaces as inner conflicts that cannot be resolved via the intellect. The intellect is well aware of the of the process of self-deception.

So what does one do? One identifies what is actually preventing a resolution, an unwilligness to stand up to whomever was directly responsible for the trauma
in the first place is a common reason. The reason for this is usually based in a fear of loss. everyone fears loss, but one needs to ask themselves are they prepared to go on living, allowing such a trauma to haunt them to their grave? or is it better to confront the real cause and unshackle yourself from its lifesucking hold?

i have always considered you a friend, and like others see some very noble qualities in you. If need be develop a hard exterior, deal with your issue and then return to your loved ones whole.

i can be a real asshat but you have always supported me on a mutual quest, for that I am grateful to you. so do something and i hope for your families sake that you get the fuck over it.

if all the above is not relevant it might means that youre an ego maniac who no longer finds satisfaction in any of your accomplishments. if that's the case, look around you and see the difference your pathetic life means to other people. Then just say fuck it and do what comes naturally for you. I guarantee you, your writing is what you were meant to do. That is your need, is writing what making you feel guilty?

or is it because your regular job make you fucking miserable?
 
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