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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 13744667 Sweden 10/13/2012 12:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I aint got no money. I don't know how would I be able to pay for my wedding ceremony. Please help me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13744667 If your not financially stable, don't do it!... It'll be 2ce as hard. Get your self together first. Are there any banks that offer wedding loans ? |
Strawberrymittens User ID: 19937556 United States 10/13/2012 12:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I aint got no money. I don't know how would I be able to pay for my wedding ceremony. Please help me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13744667 I can understand her wanting to get married, but why next month? Why the hurry? You might want to REALLY think about it. How long have you been together and do you really know each other? Most of the time it's a total trap, we women want to marry men because there is something about them that we want to change and we feel like if we are married we'll have the right to bitch at them to get them to change it. I've seen this happen so many times amongst my friends. If you love her and you've been together a long time, you owe it to her to marry her or set her free. Talk to her about her reasons for wanting to skip most the wedding planning to just get to the piece of paper. That's a red flag, be aware this may be a trap. The universe seems neither benign nor hostile, merely indifferent to the concerns of such puny creatures as we are. - Carl Sagan |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1550123 United States 10/13/2012 12:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I aint got no money. I don't know how would I be able to pay for my wedding ceremony. Please help me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13744667 If she won't wait for you to get the money together then she isn't worth it. And if she wants to get married so soon then she should pay as well. Sheesh, be a man and tell her the way it is going to be. If you can't do this before marriage then you are doomed to be run over during the marriage. The man is the head of the family so get your act together and quit whining. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24927009 Thailand 10/13/2012 12:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | u r in germany, maybe better than US read this thread.. [link to www.g] odlikeproductions.com/forum1/message2015584/pg1 I have a wonderful, supporting, Good looking,intelligent and overall good guy. He has been through a lot with all my baggage after my split with my abusive ex....the custody battle...and my constant health problems after a botched surgery...stints of unemployment and now supporting me (emotionally) while I go back to school to pursue my dream career. Not to mention that the guy is ten years younger than me (the young ones seem to take to me)and he's been a great role model for my kids (13,17). So why is it...that all of a sudden...I just want to fuck the living shit out of his brother? We saw him tonight for his birthday...and he introduced his new girlfriend (not pretty at all and kind of chunky...but I guess she's nice). I caught him looking at me a few times. I can't take this. If there is ever a window left open where something were to happen between us...I don't think that I would stop it at all. This is so, so , so , so bad. But then again...I'm a very bad girl. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1550123 United States 10/13/2012 12:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I aint got no money. I don't know how would I be able to pay for my wedding ceremony. Please help me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13744667 If your not financially stable, don't do it!... It'll be 2ce as hard. Get your self together first. Are there any banks that offer wedding loans ? You have got to be joking. You want to go into marriage in debt? What the hell is wrong with you? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1550123 United States 10/13/2012 12:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I aint got no money. I don't know how would I be able to pay for my wedding ceremony. Please help me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13744667 If your not financially stable, don't do it!... It'll be 2ce as hard. Get your self together first. Are there any banks that offer wedding loans ? You have got to be joking. You want to go into marriage in debt? What the hell is wrong with you? |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 13744667 Sweden 10/13/2012 01:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I aint got no money. I don't know how would I be able to pay for my wedding ceremony. Please help me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13744667 Why does it have to be next month? If she loves you she will marry you at the gov office. Love doesn't need a party. Because I'm going to be 30 yr old in next 2 months and she wants me to get married before I turn 30 . |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 23800820 United States 10/13/2012 01:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I aint got no money. I don't know how would I be able to pay for my wedding ceremony. Please help me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13744667 Why does it have to be next month? If she loves you she will marry you at the gov office. Love doesn't need a party. Because I'm going to be 30 yr old in next 2 months and she wants me to get married before I turn 30 . What about what you want? Are you ready? It's not her place to tell you what she thinks your goals should be. She sounds quite controlling. Do you want your whole life to be like this? I'm a female, BTW. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 13744667 Sweden 10/13/2012 01:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I aint got no money. I don't know how would I be able to pay for my wedding ceremony. Please help me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13744667 Why does it have to be next month? If she loves you she will marry you at the gov office. Love doesn't need a party. Because I'm going to be 30 yr old in next 2 months and she wants me to get married before I turn 30 . What about what you want? Are you ready? It's not her place to tell you what she thinks your goals should be. She sounds quite controlling. Do you want your whole life to be like this? I'm a female, BTW. Her parents are filthy rich and she will be inheriting enormous wealth once we get married. |
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