Is SEX or sexual thoughts/desires/etc. EVIL ?!?!?!?!

no

No.

NO definitely not

SEX is only evil if you don't DO IT with me :)

Last Edited by Open Your Eyes on 10/13/2012 03:16 PM

no, but it's dangerous.

so then whats up with all these spiritualist saying sex is negative and takes away from life force, chi, purity of soul, etc?

sex is very healthy and having sexual thoughts or desires is good for you, it makes you feel better and drives you further.

BUT be aware of STDs. Try to date sluts, but use condoms, they are easy to get laid.

it is the most natural act on the planet, how can it be evil?

Take your bible and your priests/preachers words and wipe your ass with them before you fuck a hot chick.

I think that they are referring to a particular form of sex, that is one where the opposing person is seen as an object, and not a human being. There is always a difference between "making love" and "having sex".

Evil? No, my dear. Relax. As for the chi thing -- apparently it depends on whom you ask. A few weeks ago I had my regular acupuncture treatment, but it had been a stressful week with some anger-inducing incidents. The acupuncturist (a woman I've been going to for over 10 years) told me that I had a lot of angry liver chi rising, and that would mess with my head and emotions. I needed to kick it down and out (ground it, balance it, whatever), and the best way to start that process is satisfying sex. Get the liver chi to u-turn from the head to the belly region, and then keep it moving down. Whatever you say doc! Happy to follow this order!

No.

Stupid questions are evil. This forum is littered with them....

So masterbation?

Even if you are having sex with someone you dont see as am object and it is a fun, loving, relaxing, healthy for both people involved...

what about the wasted life force in the semen that gives no life?

Sex for pleasure alone seems it must have negative affects on spiritual energies

You should be able to use the search function and find 40 zillion pages on the topic already.

If you are a Christian, your sexual acts are only
supposed to take place with a consecrated marriage
in order to avoid sin. All sexual acts outside of
consecrated marriage are sin. This is pretty basic,
and based upon the example of Adam and Eve, and
fidelity to a spouse, as God/Jesus is fidelity to
His people.
Sects in history sometimes went too far and said
all sex was evil, even within marriage. Examples
include Manicheans, Albigensians and Cathars.
As long as God wants us to continue being present
in the physical matter form, even if our current state
is a condition of Original Sin, we must mate to
reproduce. Still, the pleasure of sexuality is only
to be enjoyed within a consecrated marriage.
It's really not that complicated. Holy men and women
who are God's Children do not pursue sex in order
to fulfill their basest animal appetities. Lust of
the flesh will bring you to your grave, dust begets
dust. Love of the Spirit begets spiritual life which
is granted, not achieved, through Grace.

I'm not trying to be a smarty pants, but if Adam and Eve were the only humans at the time, then how could they be unfaithful? Just asking.

sex is good.if god didnt want us to fuck, they would make us an assexual species

how do you do that sex thing?

What I am trying to get at is that if you are trying to seek a spiritual path, or to raise the spiritual energy within

than most likely sexual acts and desires beyond real love would be negative for the development of stronger spiritual energy?

Correct?

But, even still the sexual energy must go somewhere?

Rising Son has it right. Just having sex can bring on

negative energy but making love can actually help with

spiritual energy, especially if you conceive.

Yes. Now go scrub your genitals with a wire brush to atone for your grievous sins.

pretty much

sexual act is not evil in and unto itself. it's the intention during sex that matters the most. people look for easy ways to relieve (release) the pressure of their hard-earned stored energy instead of cultivating it, and sex fits like a glove in this equation, because sex releases a lot of energy. A lot of energy is set into motion, the sexual act shakes the whole system into life, but then what happens? Physical orgasm! THe powerful energy leaves the body. For some people this is of no consequence, but for spiritual aspirants it's like death.

The trick is to set the energy into motion (with sex and/or exercises) but move it upward and inside instead of backward and outside.

there must have been other humans around then

that doesn't mean they were unfaithful

there must have been other humans around then

that doesn't mean they were unfaithful

My husband and I have sex all of the time, several times a day sometimes. I don't want kids, he doesn't want kids. We make love because we love each other; we do it so much because we enjoy it. We're not trying to make babies. I don't see anything wrong with it.

Everything can be taken to the extreme and it boils down to context.

Is it evil or wrong to go down on my husband in the car on the way to Target? Did that this morning. He didn't make me, or even asked me - I wanted to. I love the man. I don't see that as evil. How could it be? If I swallowed, is that evil? I did; always do.

Actions and thoughts aren't evil, per se. It's intent, I think. As long as you're not hurting anyone, including yourself, there's not an issue.

Last Edited by Bitterblue on 10/13/2012 03:12 PM

I think Eve was unfaithful because she used the snake to masturbate with.

yeah, im not really addressing everyday kind of sex and stuff...

but it's spiritual affect

trying to maintain strong spiritual energy

traditional chinese medicine teaches us that TOO MUCH sex depletes jing (kinda like qi) but it also teaches that too little is also unhealthy. its teaches that for a teeneager 5 times a week ejaculating is perfectly healthy. but for a 50 year old man this would drain 'jing' & cause health problems.

but OP im curious to know which spiritualist are saying this?

becuase most spiritual practices i know of, teach that a healthy sex life is essential to maintain good health.

I understand. I was trying to show that my husband and I do have a strong spiritual energy and it's not to procreate. It's a bond between us. We are both spiritual people, while we don't have a label for our beliefs, we do live a positive life. Sex, for us is a part of that. Our sexual thoughts and desires, and acts, are with and for each other. We're both very positive people.

This is a very interesting concept. It requires much thought. Thank you for the post.