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I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people

 
Quiet Jihad
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I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people
So, I'm a quiet person and I am just so sick of people verbally running up on me at random to just to simply state that I'm a quiet person, or that I don't talk or whatever. Now this doesn't happen a lot, but it does happen once in while for me. I mean the things that some non-quiet people say to be as a quiet person are not even questions-although i get those to-are typically just in reference to me as being a quiet person-the attitudes and conditions of how they say vary-but mainly they say it to me in a way where me being a quiet person is implied negatively which means that when they try to compare me to the rest of the people, or for example in school they compare to the people who usually have more talks or contribute to discussions along with the class-have more social meaning and normality than me, in simple terms-i feel that me simply being a quiet person gives me the impression that what a person says to me is implying that I am not giving them the satisfaction of basically having a higher communication level like everyone else. many of u people may not understand what I am saying. Here's an example of what I am trying to say-it's pretty simple actually-for example, if you were a gay person and everyone else in a room is strait, and one of the strait people came up to you and says to you, " you're really gay, you are a gay person, your'e not strait or normal like everyone else!" is obviously about some one stating the obvious characteristics to you that are generally deemed unacceptable in most social situations. So a person who tells me off about me being a quiet person is kind of like that. I came across many mouths that almost seemed like it was a list about me simply being quiet such , " you're quiet, you're shy, you don't talk, you this your that." I never said anything about them like that, and I understand that i am a quiet person & I don't talk as much, but I have said somethings that are normally basic, but i guess i have to be so perfect in their eyes just to not be secretly offended. I mean I try my best but this is just what I am, I'm quiet and I have little to say because I don't know what to say. I feel we quiet people are so perceived by many non-quiet people so over-exaggeratedly. I can't be a talkative person in their preferred terms, but i can try to say as much as i can, but i guess being a quiet person is so awkward or blasphemous in their eyes, or if you're one of the non-quiet people like those-in your eyes as well. I mean seriously is being a quiet so wrong, so unacceptable, and so bothersome and alienating or foreign-or below normal? what is normal anyways? I can never live this life with out coming across these negative comments just because I'm mostly reserved. The fact that I don't behave in a higher level that they expect me to be it's just something that they should have to accept, and also they don't look past my quietness, and it's just going to make the situation and my personality worst, I'm just expressing my frustrations, and I feel that alot of times my dignity rights are being shattered.
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Re: I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people
I'm with you on this one :)
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Re: I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people
aaaahhhhh
i can't read your post
so compressed and eye hurting
Imagine if there was no country
Stop the Sabre Rattlings and Wars
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06/10/2014 09:06 AM
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Re: I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people
aaaahhhhh
i can't read your post
so compressed and eye hurting
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Agree. Maybe best to stay quiet.
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aaaahhhhh
i can't read your post
so compressed and eye hurting
 Quoting: IMAX


Agree. Maybe best to stay quiet.
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Paragraphs are a wonderful invention. Perhaps double spacing or something, OP.
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06/10/2014 09:31 AM
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Re: I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people
That's a lot of words for a quiet person.

You are right, it is rude of them to call you out. But I would guess that they are just trying to make conversation and get to know you better.
That's what people do when they talk to each other.

Noisy people are probably upset by the idea that you are sitting in a corner all alone - they would feel left out, so they think that you feel that way too.
They are trying to include you and understand you.
That means they are gonna ask a lot of questions.

If you tell people that the questions they are asking make you feel uncomfortable, they should stop (people are pretty good that way).
But you'll need to have an alternative conversation topic ready - something neutral (something like, say, asking them if they use android, apple or windows products). Change the conversation and get the focus off you.
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Re: I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people
I used to be very quiet. I find quiet people very calming. I think it shows a great deal about a person when they are comfortable saying few things to each other, I find the awkward ones feel a need to fill up the empty space with words to alleviate their discomfort.

Mostly though, don't let others define you. With you not speaking often I have to assume there is alot going on up there in that noggin of yours, if thats where you want to be, no one can stop you.
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aaaahhhhh
i can't read your post
so compressed and eye hurting
 Quoting: IMAX

Put a lion in a cage for years without food and watch what happens.
Its appetite will of cause grow and grow, and then you point your finger at its hunger?
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So, I'm a quiet person...yada yada yada
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Re: I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people
The main thing is to treat people politely and with respect.

If they greet you, greet them back. Chit chat a bit to show that you don't have a problem with them.

But if you want to only speak when spoken to, that's completely FINE, as long as you show people respect.

Be comfortable being who you are. If you're polite but quiet and people don't like you, honestly, they're the one with a disorder. And that's not your problem.
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Re: I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people
So, I'm a quiet person and I am just so sick of people verbally running up on me at random to just to simply state that I'm a quiet person, or that I don't talk or whatever. Now this doesn't happen a lot, but it does happen once in while for me. I mean the things that some non-quiet people say to be as a quiet person are not even questions-although i get those to-are typically just in reference to me as being a quiet person-the attitudes and conditions of how they say vary-but mainly they say it to me in a way where me being a quiet person is implied negatively which means that when they try to compare me to the rest of the people, or for example in school they compare to the people who usually have more talks or contribute to discussions along with the class-have more social meaning and normality than me, in simple terms-i feel that me simply being a quiet person gives me the impression that what a person says to me is implying that I am not giving them the satisfaction of basically having a higher communication level like everyone else. many of u people may not understand what I am saying. Here's an example of what I am trying to say-it's pretty simple actually-for example, if you were a gay person and everyone else in a room is strait, and one of the strait people came up to you and says to you, " you're really gay, you are a gay person, your'e not strait or normal like everyone else!" is obviously about some one stating the obvious characteristics to you that are generally deemed unacceptable in most social situations. So a person who tells me off about me being a quiet person is kind of like that. I came across many mouths that almost seemed like it was a list about me simply being quiet such , " you're quiet, you're shy, you don't talk, you this your that." I never said anything about them like that, and I understand that i am a quiet person & I don't talk as much, but I have said somethings that are normally basic, but i guess i have to be so perfect in their eyes just to not be secretly offended. I mean I try my best but this is just what I am, I'm quiet and I have little to say because I don't know what to say. I feel we quiet people are so perceived by many non-quiet people so over-exaggeratedly. I can't be a talkative person in their preferred terms, but i can try to say as much as i can, but i guess being a quiet person is so awkward or blasphemous in their eyes, or if you're one of the non-quiet people like those-in your eyes as well. I mean seriously is being a quiet so wrong, so unacceptable, and so bothersome and alienating or foreign-or below normal? what is normal anyways? I can never live this life with out coming across these negative comments just because I'm mostly reserved. The fact that I don't behave in a higher level that they expect me to be it's just something that they should have to accept, and also they don't look past my quietness, and it's just going to make the situation and my personality worst, I'm just expressing my frustrations, and I feel that alot of times my dignity rights are being shattered.
 Quoting: Quiet Jihad 24740340


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aaaahhhhh
i can't read your post
so compressed and eye hurting
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^^^^^^^
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06/10/2014 10:12 AM
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Re: I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people
Maybe the solution to your problem is to insert a few paragraphs into your quietness now and then...
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Re: I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people
So, I'm a quiet person and I am just so sick of people verbally running up on me at random to just to simply state that I'm a quiet person, or that I don't talk or whatever. Now this doesn't happen a lot, but it does happen once in while for me. I mean the things that some non-quiet people say to be as a quiet person are not even questions-although i get those to-are typically just in reference to me as being a quiet person-the attitudes and conditions of how they say vary-but mainly they say it to me in a way where me being a quiet person is implied negatively which means that when they try to compare me to the rest of the people, or for example in school they compare to the people who usually have more talks or contribute to discussions along with the class-have more social meaning and normality than me, in simple terms-i feel that me simply being a quiet person gives me the impression that what a person says to me is implying that I am not giving them the satisfaction of basically having a higher communication level like everyone else. many of u people may not understand what I am saying. Here's an example of what I am trying to say-it's pretty simple actually-for example, if you were a gay person and everyone else in a room is strait, and one of the strait people came up to you and says to you, " you're really gay, you are a gay person, your'e not strait or normal like everyone else!" is obviously about some one stating the obvious characteristics to you that are generally deemed unacceptable in most social situations. So a person who tells me off about me being a quiet person is kind of like that. I came across many mouths that almost seemed like it was a list about me simply being quiet such , " you're quiet, you're shy, you don't talk, you this your that." I never said anything about them like that, and I understand that i am a quiet person & I don't talk as much, but I have said somethings that are normally basic, but i guess i have to be so perfect in their eyes just to not be secretly offended. I mean I try my best but this is just what I am, I'm quiet and I have little to say because I don't know what to say. I feel we quiet people are so perceived by many non-quiet people so over-exaggeratedly. I can't be a talkative person in their preferred terms, but i can try to say as much as i can, but i guess being a quiet person is so awkward or blasphemous in their eyes, or if you're one of the non-quiet people like those-in your eyes as well. I mean seriously is being a quiet so wrong, so unacceptable, and so bothersome and alienating or foreign-or below normal? what is normal anyways? I can never live this life with out coming across these negative comments just because I'm mostly reserved. The fact that I don't behave in a higher level that they expect me to be it's just something that they should have to accept, and also they don't look past my quietness, and it's just going to make the situation and my personality worst, I'm just expressing my frustrations, and I feel that alot of times my dignity rights are being shattered.
 Quoting: Quiet Jihad 24740340

be quiet
for a so called quit man you write a lot
i am a quiet man too...but i talk a lot when i am in mood
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Re: I'm a quiet person and I am so tired of what I come across to from non-quiet people
That's a lot of words for a quiet person.

You are right, it is rude of them to call you out. But I would guess that they are just trying to make conversation and get to know you better.
That's what people do when they talk to each other.

Noisy people are probably upset by the idea that you are sitting in a corner all alone - they would feel left out, so they think that you feel that way too.
They are trying to include you and understand you.
That means they are gonna ask a lot of questions.

If you tell people that the questions they are asking make you feel uncomfortable, they should stop (people are pretty good that way).
But you'll need to have an alternative conversation topic ready - something neutral (something like, say, asking them if they use android, apple or windows products). Change the conversation and get the focus off you.
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maybe op was whispering
I am Eekerstard too!!!