Your wife very well may drool over other men's "V" shape, just as you no doubt have had a woman other than your wife catch your eye and spark a fantasy.... It''s natural. Simple human behavior. But it doesn't mean that she likes you any less. Nor does it mean that you're going to run off with that other woman you saw.

One of the worst things you can do is begin to judge yourself based on another.... I'm sure that many women on the board will agree that your self doubt or insecurity is far less attractive than your current body shape.

I will never be a calvin klein underwear model, though at one point in my life I could have been. But that was years ago. So, I know that those days are gone and I work to better myself to the best of my abilities.

If you don't like the way you've turned out, do something about it. (to the best of your abilities) Be confident and be happy with your own results. Your wife will like it too!