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ModernDayMystic
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Hi MDM,
Life in total and utter flux here. House is about to sell. My job may not renew for the next round. NO idea where I'm going, have to pack up all my stuff, have no savings, ruined by divorce. Am a hard worker and always willing to go above and beyond.
But I'm an artist who has never been permitted to practice my art. Have a great partner, but he seems to be in denial of the whole situation. We are just going day to day and wondering what's next. Have a great kid who's grown and hope to have a place for him to land between college semesters. Also responsible for 2 kitties who I refuse to "dump" at a shelter.
I'm excited but very scared because I don't want to let anyone down here, least of all myself.
You sense anything? Stay or go? New work or same? Stay together or part?
Thanks :)
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31735474 Your making the classical mistake of trying to make everyone else happy. You can control anything around you or make everyone else happy so why bother. Your experiences and energy suggest that you will be moving and you will be very happy in this year. But you must remember everything and everyone around you including partners and children are part of your movie. Just do what makes you happy and stop focusing so much energy outwards when it should always be spent inwards. Hey, thanks for the reality check here. You are so absolutely right. And at my age...more so. For me the question is how to internalize this? I think I need to get an "internal makeover." I wish I could just go to a place, like you go get your hair done, and have someone push a re-set button. But I know what everyone will say: the only person who can "re-set" my thinking/life is me! Thanks again for the great advice. 
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