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So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...

 
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I think it's wonderful he remembered you at all. Honestly, if a partner forgets birthdays, anniversaries, ect. They just don't care! This man cares.

Dollars to donuts he heard you say once that you wish you had a pretty comforter, or admiring someones comforter. He thought he was going to thrill you with the fact that he was attentive.

I hope that you lavish him with praise, and act like he just gave you a 5 carat diamond!

Men are like dogs, (No offense guys).... They love to please. Give them praise and they will keep bringing you gifts!

OTOH if you act ugly about the gifts they give you, you will get less and less of them, because they will think that they can never please you.

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Nicely said... I agree. We are also just simple folk and are not good mind-readers. If he sees this post, it will probably be the last gift you ever get from him. My wife got me a $10 belt for my birthday. It was just what I needed, it was (in my opinion) a thoughtful gift, and I'm wearing it now :)

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I'm not trying to be selfish and I really don't want to come across that way so if this is just irrational thinking then please let me know people

...I just really was expecting something a little more sentimental after a year. I'm glad he thought of the gesture and tha he took the time off his lunch break the day before to go get it for me, and I really love him, i just thought I'd get something a little more personal and intimate.

What do you guys think about this? I'm curious
 Quoting: luckyophelia


Sounds like a smart man... buying you something needed and not just pretty things....


you are materialistic, and you don;t see what a nice thing he did... you just want your shiny piece of jewelry...
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Re: So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...
I'm not trying to be selfish and I really don't want to come across that way so if this is just irrational thinking then please let me know people

...I just really was expecting something a little more sentimental after a year. I'm glad he thought of the gesture and tha he took the time off his lunch break the day before to go get it for me, and I really love him, i just thought I'd get something a little more personal and intimate.

What do you guys think about this? I'm curious
 Quoting: luckyophelia



as a man, that is a lame as gift. You have every right to be disappointed.
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brown noser
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unless they are both amish, a comforter is lame. 21 years old i would be buying you jewery, sex toy or something. come on people. a freakin comfortable. next year he may get you some comfortable shoes....
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I bought my wife a very nice throw-comforter for a wedding anniversary and had it embroidered with penguins (her absolute favorite animal) representing her and I. During the embroidering process we found out we were having a child and I added a baby penguin to the others and our last name on it. She absolutely loved it. Maybe he could have made it more personal but don't be spoiled. I'm happy to get boxers and socks on my gift-days. He could have gotten you nothing. Your comment about him stopping the day before during lunch break seems a bit bitter. Don't lie to him, if you don't like it let him know how else will he know how to please the almighty?
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i dont really think of myself as "the almight" or whatever, honestly that comment seems a bit bitter like how you said mine was. and it was. by the way i think the gift you got your wife sounds wonderful :)
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and you guys are right. it is practical. a blankets nice and im grateful for it and never said i wasn't. hes treated me great but yes there are problems with his passive aggresiveness that's caused him to lie in order just to avoid confrontation. i should just be grateful and shut up
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No you dont need to be grateful and shut up.You need to consider finding another place to live and if you and he still wants to date then do so without the living arrangements involved.Sounds weird to me.You sleep in desperate areas,etc so its not like a 'living together' relationship.Family doesnt know about you etc.You a room mate with sex privileges.
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I bought my wife a very nice throw-comforter for a wedding anniversary and had it embroidered with penguins (her absolute favorite animal) representing her and I. During the embroidering process we found out we were having a child and I added a baby penguin to the others and our last name on it. She absolutely loved it. Maybe he could have made it more personal but don't be spoiled. I'm happy to get boxers and socks on my gift-days. He could have gotten you nothing. Your comment about him stopping the day before during lunch break seems a bit bitter. Don't lie to him, if you don't like it let him know how else will he know how to please the almighty?
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i dont really think of myself as "the almight" or whatever, honestly that comment seems a bit bitter like how you said mine was. and it was. by the way i think the gift you got your wife sounds wonderful :)
 Quoting: luckyophelia


Just merely trying to show you what I thought you sounded like. That's all. If you feel strongly about tell him, seriously, we like feedback and we like to know if we did well or not. He will thank you for it even if he doesn't show it.
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and you guys are right. it is practical. a blankets nice and im grateful for it and never said i wasn't. hes treated me great but yes there are problems with his passive aggresiveness that's caused him to lie in order just to avoid confrontation. i should just be grateful and shut up
 Quoting: luckyophelia


No you dont need to be grateful and shut up.You need to consider finding another place to live and if you and he still wants to date then do so without the living arrangements involved.Sounds weird to me.You sleep in desperate areas,etc so its not like a 'living together' relationship.Family doesnt know about you etc.You a room mate with sex privileges.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26283284


well he was a virgin before we met...slept together after about 9 months but he made me promise that we'd be together forever if i took his virginity....it is strange.
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I bought my wife a very nice throw-comforter for a wedding anniversary and had it embroidered with penguins (her absolute favorite animal) representing her and I. During the embroidering process we found out we were having a child and I added a baby penguin to the others and our last name on it. She absolutely loved it. Maybe he could have made it more personal but don't be spoiled. I'm happy to get boxers and socks on my gift-days. He could have gotten you nothing. Your comment about him stopping the day before during lunch break seems a bit bitter. Don't lie to him, if you don't like it let him know how else will he know how to please the almighty?
 Quoting: Get a Grip


i dont really think of myself as "the almight" or whatever, honestly that comment seems a bit bitter like how you said mine was. and it was. by the way i think the gift you got your wife sounds wonderful :)
 Quoting: luckyophelia


Just merely trying to show you what I thought you sounded like. That's all. If you feel strongly about tell him, seriously, we like feedback and we like to know if we did well or not. He will thank you for it even if he doesn't show it.
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thanks, its alright no worries. i think its more about the other things in the relationship that leave me feeling somewhat unloved or uncared for. i do realize that im having irrational thoughts about the gift though. thanks <3
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Re: So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...
and you guys are right. it is practical. a blankets nice and im grateful for it and never said i wasn't. hes treated me great but yes there are problems with his passive aggresiveness that's caused him to lie in order just to avoid confrontation. i should just be grateful and shut up
 Quoting: luckyophelia


No you dont need to be grateful and shut up.You need to consider finding another place to live and if you and he still wants to date then do so without the living arrangements involved.Sounds weird to me.You sleep in desperate areas,etc so its not like a 'living together' relationship.Family doesnt know about you etc.You a room mate with sex privileges.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26283284


well he was a virgin before we met...slept together after about 9 months but he made me promise that we'd be together forever if i took his virginity....it is strange.
 Quoting: luckyophelia


Whoa! What a giant mess of blue ball pressure resentment he must have! You're lucky he didn't get you 2 female whores your bday!
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ahhh, the first world problems of someone who doesnt have enough to worry about
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I bought my wife a very nice throw-comforter for a wedding anniversary and had it embroidered with penguins (her absolute favorite animal) representing her and I. During the embroidering process we found out we were having a child and I added a baby penguin to the others and our last name on it. She absolutely loved it. Maybe he could have made it more personal but don't be spoiled. I'm happy to get boxers and socks on my gift-days. He could have gotten you nothing. Your comment about him stopping the day before during lunch break seems a bit bitter. Don't lie to him, if you don't like it let him know how else will he know how to please the almighty?
 Quoting: Get a Grip


i dont really think of myself as "the almight" or whatever, honestly that comment seems a bit bitter like how you said mine was. and it was. by the way i think the gift you got your wife sounds wonderful :)
 Quoting: luckyophelia


Just merely trying to show you what I thought you sounded like. That's all. If you feel strongly about tell him, seriously, we like feedback and we like to know if we did well or not. He will thank you for it even if he doesn't show it.
 Quoting: Get a Grip


thanks, its alright no worries. i think its more about the other things in the relationship that leave me feeling somewhat unloved or uncared for. i do realize that im having irrational thoughts about the gift though. thanks <3
 Quoting: luckyophelia


I haven't read the whole thread but a few posts, seems as though you may be projecting some resentments about the relationship through this gift. Maybe it is time for a change or to move on altogether.
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Re: So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...
and you guys are right. it is practical. a blankets nice and im grateful for it and never said i wasn't. hes treated me great but yes there are problems with his passive aggresiveness that's caused him to lie in order just to avoid confrontation. i should just be grateful and shut up
 Quoting: luckyophelia


No you dont need to be grateful and shut up.You need to consider finding another place to live and if you and he still wants to date then do so without the living arrangements involved.Sounds weird to me.You sleep in desperate areas,etc so its not like a 'living together' relationship.Family doesnt know about you etc.You a room mate with sex privileges.
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well he was a virgin before we met...slept together after about 9 months but he made me promise that we'd be together forever if i took his virginity....it is strange.
 Quoting: luckyophelia


OK, it all makes sense now.

you're taking advantage of a mentally handicapped person.

you're lucky his family has not pressed charges, and you're lucky to get a comforter, and not, say, a portrait of the two of you holding hands on a sunny day.. made entirely of construction paper and macaroni
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ahhh, the first world problems of someone who doesnt have enough to worry about
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youre in a first world country too, posting here at the same time.
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and you guys are right. it is practical. a blankets nice and im grateful for it and never said i wasn't. hes treated me great but yes there are problems with his passive aggresiveness that's caused him to lie in order just to avoid confrontation. i should just be grateful and shut up
 Quoting: luckyophelia


No you dont need to be grateful and shut up.You need to consider finding another place to live and if you and he still wants to date then do so without the living arrangements involved.Sounds weird to me.You sleep in desperate areas,etc so its not like a 'living together' relationship.Family doesnt know about you etc.You a room mate with sex privileges.
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well he was a virgin before we met...slept together after about 9 months but he made me promise that we'd be together forever if i took his virginity....it is strange.
 Quoting: luckyophelia


OK, it all makes sense now.

you're taking advantage of a mentally handicapped person.

you're lucky his family has not pressed charges, and you're lucky to get a comforter, and not, say, a portrait of the two of you holding hands on a sunny day.. made entirely of construction paper and macaroni
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actually, ironically im the one who has a mental disability. im the one posting on glp lol
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No you dont need to be grateful and shut up.You need to consider finding another place to live and if you and he still wants to date then do so without the living arrangements involved.Sounds weird to me.You sleep in desperate areas,etc so its not like a 'living together' relationship.Family doesnt know about you etc.You a room mate with sex privileges.
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well he was a virgin before we met...slept together after about 9 months but he made me promise that we'd be together forever if i took his virginity....it is strange.
 Quoting: luckyophelia


OK, it all makes sense now.

you're taking advantage of a mentally handicapped person.

you're lucky his family has not pressed charges, and you're lucky to get a comforter, and not, say, a portrait of the two of you holding hands on a sunny day.. made entirely of construction paper and macaroni
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actually, ironically im the one who has a mental disability. im the one posting on glp lol
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i would have rather had a macaroni gift. im not being facetious , it would have MEANT more because it would have been personal and something i would keep forever. im not going to keep this blanket forever...
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I usually buy knee pads and a chapstick.

After one year...
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that's funny
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I'm not trying to be selfish and I really don't want to come across that way so if this is just irrational thinking then please let me know people

...I just really was expecting something a little more expensive after a year. I'm glad he thought of the gesture and that he took the time off his lunch break the day before to go get it for me, and I really love him, i just thought I'd get something a little more expensive.

What do you guys think about this? I'm curious
 Quoting: luckyophelia


Maybe next year.
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well he was a virgin before we met...slept together after about 9 months but he made me promise that we'd be together forever if i took his virginity....it is strange.
 Quoting: luckyophelia


OK, it all makes sense now.

you're taking advantage of a mentally handicapped person.

you're lucky his family has not pressed charges, and you're lucky to get a comforter, and not, say, a portrait of the two of you holding hands on a sunny day.. made entirely of construction paper and macaroni
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1595910


actually, ironically im the one who has a mental disability. im the one posting on glp lol
 Quoting: luckyophelia


i would have rather had a macaroni gift. im not being facetious , it would have MEANT more because it would have been personal and something i would keep forever. im not going to keep this blanket forever...
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well now you're talking. wise cracking aside, is the boy like.. i dunno, a bit.. autistic? (for lack of a better word, this is not the word i am looking for) i mean.. it IS a very practical gift. is he creative? does he wax all poetically when he dotes on about you? i am assuming his dating history consists of you, and his ex, if he was a virgin for 9 months after you met. what i am getting at is like.. he may not be a very thoughtful or romantic person, in which case you can't really expect a thoughtful or romantic gift, and just because movies an shit play up that kinda romance, in all reality, if it comes down to a bad or serious situation, one may be better off with someone who is practical and logical minded.
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you are insane, a comforter is a very nice thing for a man to give you,

be thankful it wasn't a flashlight that he thought was awesome (Which would have been nice too, if he was excited about it because it was his favorite flashlight, kind of thing)
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i really truly love this person, with all my heart. I do believe he could be "the one." Ii'm not expecting fairy tales or diamond rings or fancy houses...It's more that I feel hurt by other things that he's done because it makes me feel as if he doesn't care or isn't serious as another poster put it. I want him to love me as much as I love him...and I want him to show me he does because right now im having doubts. I just wish he would show me a little attention is all. Feeling unwanted isn't the best feeling in the world.
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from old lady here,,,
wait until you are married...then you get things like vacuum cleaners and leaf blowers....
sigh....
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you have to teach him your expectations.
You really think if he rally loves you he can read your mind?
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Well, i got my wife a crock pot our first Christmas. Eight years later we're still together so i guess she didn't hate it.
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I'm sure she didn't......I'm a practical kinda girl. Would rather get a gift I truly need :)
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I'm not trying to be selfish and I really don't want to come across that way so if this is just irrational thinking then please let me know people

...I just really was expecting something a little more sentimental after a year. I'm glad he thought of the gesture and tha he took the time off his lunch break the day before to go get it for me, and I really love him, i just thought I'd get something a little more personal and intimate.

What do you guys think about this? I'm curious
 Quoting: luckyophelia


Sounds like a smart man... buying you something needed and not just pretty things....


you are materialistic, and you don;t see what a nice thing he did... you just want your shiny piece of jewelry...
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and this
the real reason most people on this planet are the most ignorant gullible people that have ever lived is a little thing called the

TELL-LIE-VISION

television

when you watch it, you put the I(you) in television and you get tel(i)evision

tell lie vision
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OK, it all makes sense now.

you're taking advantage of a mentally handicapped person.

you're lucky his family has not pressed charges, and you're lucky to get a comforter, and not, say, a portrait of the two of you holding hands on a sunny day.. made entirely of construction paper and macaroni
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1595910


actually, ironically im the one who has a mental disability. im the one posting on glp lol
 Quoting: luckyophelia


i would have rather had a macaroni gift. im not being facetious , it would have MEANT more because it would have been personal and something i would keep forever. im not going to keep this blanket forever...
 Quoting: luckyophelia



well now you're talking. wise cracking aside, is the boy like.. i dunno, a bit.. autistic? (for lack of a better word, this is not the word i am looking for) i mean.. it IS a very practical gift. is he creative? does he wax all poetically when he dotes on about you? i am assuming his dating history consists of you, and his ex, if he was a virgin for 9 months after you met. what i am getting at is like.. he may not be a very thoughtful or romantic person, in which case you can't really expect a thoughtful or romantic gift, and just because movies an shit play up that kinda romance, in all reality, if it comes down to a bad or serious situation, one may be better off with someone who is practical and logical minded.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1595910


I don't think he's autistic. He says he's ADD though. He grew up in a very religious household. He dated a woman in her 40s for about 9 years before meeting me. He doesn't really watch movies either so I do have different ideas on certain things. honestly and truly though, i was just expecting something a little more romantic, or at least the card to say something romantic, i dunno...
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well he was a virgin before we met...slept together after about 9 months but he made me promise that we'd be together forever if i took his virginity....it is strange.
 Quoting: luckyophelia


OK, it all makes sense now.

you're taking advantage of a mentally handicapped person.

you're lucky his family has not pressed charges, and you're lucky to get a comforter, and not, say, a portrait of the two of you holding hands on a sunny day.. made entirely of construction paper and macaroni
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1595910


actually, ironically im the one who has a mental disability. im the one posting on glp lol
 Quoting: luckyophelia


i would have rather had a macaroni gift. im not being facetious , it would have MEANT more because it would have been personal and something i would keep forever. im not going to keep this blanket forever...
 Quoting: luckyophelia


It may not seem so to you, but maybe he put a lot of thought into this gift. I bought my wife a bedset a few years ago. I must have gone to every store in town AND looked online for about a week before finding just the right one. Maybe to her, it was just something I ran down to the store and picked up last minute. You never know. That reminds me, she's about due for another one. Maybe I'll get another one for her this Christmas. :)
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i really truly love this person, with all my heart. I do believe he could be "the one." Ii'm not expecting fairy tales or diamond rings or fancy houses...It's more that I feel hurt by other things that he's done because it makes me feel as if he doesn't care or isn't serious as another poster put it. I want him to love me as much as I love him...and I want him to show me he does because right now im having doubts. I just wish he would show me a little attention is all. Feeling unwanted isn't the best feeling in the world.
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absolutely, unwanted sucks - BUT - what if he really loves you but is a nerd. COMMUNICATE!!! Don't beat around the bush.
My mother didn't teach me shit and my Dad was dead. Maybe he has a similar handicap.
Worry is a misuse of the imagination.
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this is why i say women are crazy
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you dont "think" hes autistic. holy shit

if i was your boyfriend and saw your ungrateful post and the words i dont "think" hes autistic

i would text you "its over" and thats the lamest way to break up evver, but you would deserve it

oh yea and i fucking hate cards. really you need a piece of paper to feel special? how about special words IN PERSON on more than anniversary occasions? oh thats not enough for you?

i dont like you already
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actually, ironically im the one who has a mental disability. im the one posting on glp lol
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i would have rather had a macaroni gift. im not being facetious , it would have MEANT more because it would have been personal and something i would keep forever. im not going to keep this blanket forever...
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well now you're talking. wise cracking aside, is the boy like.. i dunno, a bit.. autistic? (for lack of a better word, this is not the word i am looking for) i mean.. it IS a very practical gift. is he creative? does he wax all poetically when he dotes on about you? i am assuming his dating history consists of you, and his ex, if he was a virgin for 9 months after you met. what i am getting at is like.. he may not be a very thoughtful or romantic person, in which case you can't really expect a thoughtful or romantic gift, and just because movies an shit play up that kinda romance, in all reality, if it comes down to a bad or serious situation, one may be better off with someone who is practical and logical minded.
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I don't think he's autistic. He says he's ADD though. He grew up in a very religious household. He dated a woman in her 40s for about 9 years before meeting me. He doesn't really watch movies either so I do have different ideas on certain things. honestly and truly though, i was just expecting something a little more romantic, or at least the card to say something romantic, i dunno...
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again, autistic is not what i meant.. let me rephrase that.. emotionally retarded. let me rephrase that again.. not in tune with that lovey dovey poetic part of the human psyche. being romantic is like being tall, it's really hard to fake it if you were not born that way.
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and no hes not creative however i do paint, play piano, write, etc. He just doesn't seem to have a strong sense of identity and I'm trying to help him with that but i guess i cant really change a person. i think change is the wrong word. i dont want to change a thing about him. i just think he could grow more, and being more assertive is part of that.

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